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Mr. Definite

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About Me

I am product of two people that made a way when there was none so before I was born I predestined to achieve.My grandparents were hard working people, but being minorities in Louisiana in the early 1900's they had no more than a 6th grade education between the four of them. My father being raised in Southern Louisiana graduated high school and put himself through Grambling State University on an atheletic scholarship and the GI Bill wth his parents both passing by his 19th birthday. My mother paid for her education by student teaching and having a second job while at Grambling State University. There is where my parents met. Shortly after graduating they realized at the time there was more opportunity for blacks in California than Louisiana and moved to Oakland, CA.I'm from the Bay Area with Southern Roots which means I'm a pretty boy and a gentleman, but will get hyphy and crunk not if, but when needed. Like my parents I graduated from Grambling State University and like my father I joined that Noble Klan of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. I moved to AZ in '01 with a B.S. in accounting and am now a residential/commercial real estate agent and loan officer. I am also in the inaugural class of the ASU Masters of Real Estate Development Program. I love being around good people and having a good time.Anything else you want to know...ask.View full sizeView full size

My Interests

HELPING PEOPLE THAT HELP THEMSELVES!!! Politics - Pay attention!!! World Issues - America isn't the most powerful country anymore!

I'd like to meet:

Good People & Disciplined Entrepreneurs "; I edited my profile at Freeweblayouts.net , check out these Myspace Layouts!

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Murphy Cheatham
Birthday: March 04, 1979
Birthplace: Oakland, CA
Current Location: Phoenix, AZ
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Height: 6'05"
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Black
The Shoes You Wore Today: Brown Kenneth Koles
Your Weakness: Like Iwould tell you...
Your Fears: Dying before my parents
Your Perfect Pizza: Meatlovers!
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Only one? Graduate from my Masters Program.
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LMAO
Thoughts First Waking Up: God grant me the ability to see all opportunities
Your Best Physical Feature: Tall, Dark & Handsome. Can't Decide.
Your Bedtime: Whenever I get sleepy
Your Most Missed Memory: Undergrad @ Grambling State University
Pepsi or Coke: Neither
MacDonalds or Burger King: Burger King
Single or Group Dates: Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Nestea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee: Coffee
Do you Smoke: Nope
Do you Swear: What the F@ck do you think?
Do you Sing: Yup. Only in Nate Dogg's Tone though...lol
Do you Shower Daily: Twice...
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: Already been and am in again
Do you want to get Married: Yes
Do you belive in yourself: I have to.
Do you get Motion Sickness: No, I get sick when I'm not in motion.
Do you think you are Attractive: Tall, Dark & Handsome
Are you a Health Freak: Would like to be, but the food sucks
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes
Do you play an Instrument: Financial Ones
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes.
In the past month have you Smoked: Nope
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Nope
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes!
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: It's Christmas...
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: I never have
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes! Sushi is Bomb!
In the past month have you been on Stage: No. I took the month off from my public.
In the past month have you been Dumped: Nope
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Nope.
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: C'mon now. I get things for free.
Ever been Drunk: Does a bear sh!t in the woods?
Ever been called a Tease: Never, quite the opposite.
Ever been Beaten up: Nope
Ever Shoplifted: Nope
How do you want to Die: Old, wealthy and with a large family.
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Me!
What country would you most like to Visit: Too many to pic just one.
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown
Favourite Hair Color: Black/Brown
Short or Long Hair: Long
Height: Doesn't matter
Weight: Doesn't matter as long as it fits her.
Best Clothing Style: ???
Number of Drugs I have taken: None
Number of CDs I own: Over 400
Number of Piercings: 0
Number of Tattoos: 2
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I've forgotten them because they're all dead weight.

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Music:

Rap, R&B, Neo Soul, Latin Jazz to name a few

Movies:

Usual Suspects, Devils Advocate, Harlem Nights, Coming to America, Chappelle Series 1 & 2, Wedding Crashers, Anchor Man & Old School.. width="425" height="350" ..

Television:

Only if the NBA or NFL is on. Other than that, you can keep it.

Books:

Rich Dad/Poor Dad, The Purpose Driven Life, The Davinci Code & Pretty much any investment or self reflection books.

Heroes:

1) My parents for putting up with me. 2) The parents of my friends for being like family and checking me when I need it. 3)My older frat brothers that consistantly serve as a positive example. 4) Anyone in the armed forces.

My Blog

BLACK GREEK STEREOTYPES

>ALPHA PHI ALPHA>Code Name: Mr. Money Maker>Intelligent is an understatement. This brother is definitely "book>smart.">He is usually an engineer, math or science major and usually fragile>looking. The...
Posted by Mr. Definite on Fri, 08 Dec 2006 01:43:00 PST

Choose Achievement

The ability to achieve is part of your very nature. It's an ability you can tap into by the way you live your life.If you're vague about what you intend to do, the results you get will be of minimal v...
Posted by Mr. Definite on Wed, 29 Nov 2006 11:34:00 PST

It's only right I share it with you because it helped me...

Cleansing Empty yourself of everything you care about, every dream, every worry, every concern, every ambition, every purpose, every disappointment, every desire. Gently let it all go. Then put...
Posted by Mr. Definite on Fri, 17 Nov 2006 08:28:00 PST