I've met a special man with whom I intend to share the rest of my life. He's wonderful and spoils me rotten, which makes him even more lovable than ever. Pay attention, y'all, spoiling isn't about money, its about paying attention to the needs and wants of the other person. It means sharing and loving, disagreeing and making up, mainly being best friends!! Always being respectful of the other person's thoughts and feelings -- that's true love. A quickie doesn't take any of the aforementioned -- it's pretty mindless, and not what I'm about!! Thankfully, Pat enjoys dancing and going out as much as staying at home and chilling. He's an animal lover, which is great as we now have 5 dogs and 5 cats. He's willing to try new stuff -- I have him listening to Hip-Hop and Rap! At no time would I consider him an old fuddy-duddy, which is not determined by age, but by state of mind.