♥ Bec N Del ♥ July 19, 2008♥ profile picture

♥ Bec N Del ♥ July 19, 2008♥

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About Me

Layout made by DravensMamaMy name is Rebecca or Bec for short. I'm 28 years old and a full time stay-at-home mom. I have 12 year old twin daughters; Makayla & Jenifer, an 11 year old daughter, Jasmine; a 9 year old son, Jordan and a 7 year old daughter, Savanna. My twins died at birth from being born 4 months premature. Jasmine was murdered by a guy I was dating back in 1998. Jordan and Savanna are the apple of my eye. Jordan is in 3rd grade and Savanna in 1st grade. I recently became ordained as a minister to perform marriages, funerals, etc. If you need any of these services, please contact me! I also became a home owner in June of 2008. Whoooohoooo!!!!!I am happily engaged to the love of my life, Delano. He is the most awesome guy in the world. I love him so much. We are going to be married on July 19, 2008. Right now I'm a full time college student and homemaker. I'm getting my Associates in Criminal Justice. I want to help people. I've had a rough past and if my story can help just one person, then it's all been worth it. I want to get the message out that it's NOT ok to be hit and that if he hits you, he will hit your children! There is help out there! No one can control your life but you! It took me 10 years to figure that out but I finally took back my life!I think that I'm funny, down to earth, caring, trust worthy, and honest.


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My Interests


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My passion is writing poetry. But I’ve been having spots of serious writers block lately. It sucks! What do I like to do for fun? Well, I like hanging out with the kids and spending as much time as possible with my family and friends. Another interest I have is guns. I got my first gun, a 22 long rifle, last year as a birthday gift from Del. It's awesome. I also just got a new double-barreled 22 long rifle as a wedding present from Del. It’s so small and cute! Of course my Delbert has a few guns of his own too. Too big for my tastes though. So far he has a few rifles and a huge shot gun! (You should see its bullets!!!) I cannot forget my love for E-bay and MySpace. Those are my two biggest hangouts when I'm not at the shooting range, doing school work, or trying to plan my wedding! I like to play the PS2 and the Xbox 360 also. Guitar Hero ROCKS!! I also like to play card games, online games, and board games.
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I have everyone that I want to know on my friends list so there's no need in trying to add me! I choose my friends very wisely.I do want to take some time to thank in advance all the people who have agreed to help us on our special day… First I’d like to thank our matrons of honor; Cyndi and Cheryl and our maid of honor, Natalie, Our best men; Ray, John, and Larry Jr.… It means the world to us that you’re willing to stand up beside us on the most important day of our lives. I also need to thank my son Jordan for taking the role of walking me down the aisle and my daughter Savanna and my niece Titi for being our flower girls. You don’t know how much it means to us that you’ll be there with us to help share in our happiness. Another thank you to my brothers Shannon and Chris for agreeing to be our Aisle Runner Attendants, and my nephew Justin, for being one of our ushers, We love you guys so much!! Another thank you goes to my cuz Jamie!!! You’re AWESOME! Your going to be the best DJ a bride and groom can have. I cannot wait for you to show off your skills and get us rocking and rolling (and booty shakin lol)!! I also want to thank my mom for not only agreeing to light my side of the unity candle but for accepting Del into your life as if he was your own son. You truly are the mother he always wanted. I also want to thank Delano’s dad, Larry, I’m so thankful that you brought into this world this wonderful son of yours. He will make a great husband and an even better father, just like you were to him! Thanks for agreeing to light his side of the unity candle, it means the world to him! I also want to send out a future thank-you to all our family and friends who will make this the most unforgettable day in the world! THANKS!! If I missed anyone, I’m so sorry!! The past few months have been so stressful trying to plan out our dream wedding. For those of you who don’t know, Delano and I dated when we were teenagers. We went through so much hell then just trying to stay together. We each had a psychotic parent that made it their mission to try and separate us. Eventually it worked. We both moved on with life but through God’s help, we found each other again 13 years later. Now that my dad is dead and his mom might as well be, we are free to love again. We are a dream come true, Childhood Sweethearts soon to marry. We are so happy and excited. THANKS SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR UNDERSTANDING!!!

Music:


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I like all kinds of music. What I listen too depends on the mood I'm in. Some artists that I like are Firehouse, AC/DC, Chevelle, Hinder, Buckcherry, Kelly Pickler, Tim McGraw, Billy Ray & Miley Cyrus, Loretta Lynn, Conway Twitty, Big & Rich, Carrie Underwood, Elliot Yamin, and soon David Cook. I’m a BIG American Idol’s fan, if you couldn’t tell! There are so many more... But too many to list!!

Movies:


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I absolutely love movies. Comedies and Horror are my favorites. The latest movies I've seen that I just loved were What Happens in Vegas, The Eye, Witless Protection, Jumpers, and Meet the Spartans. They were all great in their own way! What Happens in Vegas made me cry at the end because I’m soon to be in their shoes… living my dream. The Eye had me on the edge of my seat and I cannot lie, I’m a BIG scaredy cat! Witless Protection was funny as crap, it felt like I was watching Del on TV haha. Jumpers was great also, Hayden Christensen is such a hottie! Meet the Spartans was funny as hell. It made me laugh my ass off. I can’t wait to see Prom Night, The Spirit, Made of Honor, and The Happening.


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Television:


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I love TV shows just as much although lately I've been unable to watch them like I used too. With school, kids, and planning a wedding it's hard to get anything done. My FAV's right now is Bridezilla, Platinum Weddings, Fear Itself, Family Guy, Cops, and My Big Redneck Wedding. I can’t wait until Prison Break, American Idol, Medium, Ghost Whisperer, The 4400, Smallville, Supernatural, Heroes, and ER come back on! Those are also my FAV’s! I like so many shows but I can't remember them all!!


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Books:


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I can't read much of anything besides school books right now. My "reading" consists of nothing but "Introduction to Interviews and Interrogations" and "Composition". When I do get a break from school, reading is the farthest from my mind. Don't get me wrong though, I love to read! My FAV artists are Stephen King, Patricia Cornwell, Dean Koontz, and R. Patrick Gates. I like anything that is crime or horror oriented.

Heroes:


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I have so many HEROES!! My first hero, of course, is God. Or Elohim, Jehovah, Father, Jesus (whatever you call him). Without him I wouldn’t be the person I am today nor would I be living my dream. Another person I consider my hero is my mom. She is my ROCK! Without her guidance and understanding I wouldn't have grown to be the independent, strong woman I am today. I also look up to Delano’s dad, Larry. He raised a man that is every woman’s dream. I am so thankful to have his son in my life. I defiantly consider him to be one of my heroes. I believe that Jordan & Savanna are my life savers. They are defiantly two of my biggest heroes. They gave me my life back after losing Makayla, Jenifer, and Jasmine. I love them more than life itself. Another hero of mine would be, of course, my Grandma Gaines. I always looked up to her. She was a big influence in my life. I miss her so much. Last but surely not least, is Delano!! I have… my whole life… wanted to be with a man who could make me smile when I am sad, kiss me & make the whole world disappear, and love me like no one in the world ever has; I have finally found him again… On Christmas Morning of 2007, he asked me to be his wife. Of course I said YES! I can't wait to be his wife! I have loved this man for the past 14 years. He was my first and he will be my last. July 19, 2008 we will be pronounced Husband and Wife! :D A little note to all those childhood sweethearts out there: Always remember that true love never dies and if it's meant to be.... no matter how long ago it’s been… if it’s meant to happen, it will happen!! Delano, I love you!!!