OK, let's start by discussing the difference between who I'd LIKE to meet versus the type of guys I generally meet and develop an interest in. I am interested in strength of character, a sense of humor, a slightly adventurous side, confidence, and loyalty--both to themselves as well as those close to them. Those are all characteristics of the type of mate I believe would best fit with my needs as well as what i offer in a relationship. Now...instead of that "all-around great guy" that I just described, I seem to attract guys who don't yet know (some of them never will) how great they can be and so I try to give them that knowledge by showing devotion even when it's not being reciprocated. I tend to see the best in people and allow my optimistic nature to control my happiness too often. Instead of being objective and seeing things for what they are, I can blind myself to the facts and always believe in what it could one day become. This has made most of my relationships become more "wishful thinking" than reality. I intend to change my willingness to accept less than what I am capable of offering, so if you're interested in dating, you should be someone willing to allow yourself to live in today and for today. We'll handle tomorrow when it gets here....as long as I know I have your dedication to making it thru rough spots, I am the type of guy who can guarantee I'll give my all. I am interested in similar characteristics in friends and hope to meet new people since I am moving to a new city in June. I have really great friends who have set the bar pretty high, but I am drawn to people who enjoy living and laughing at full volume. Honesty and compassion are necessary, the rest is all negotiable. LOL. I enjoy hanging out on summer days or going on road trips or just dinner/movie nights with friends so if someone is laid back and has something interesting to say once in a while, that's pretty much all I ask for.