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About Me

I am a single guy in restaurant industry so I spend a lot of time at work and generally spend most of my free time either watching television with them or enjoying a fun night out. My "down-time" is very important to me and I have learned in recent years to enjoy it to the fullest. So no matter whether I have plans with friends or just intend to be lazy, I always value the time that I have away from work. I am goal-oriented, but also try to balance my professional aspirations with having a life of my own. I truly have a wonderful home life and it has inspired me to achieve that level of happiness in all aspects of my world. A healthy sense of humor helps. A lot. I love to laugh and am constantly entertaining everyone within earshot. I have never known what boredom feels like because even when there's nothing to do we manage laughter or conversation or find a way to enjoy each other's company. I feel blessed in many aspects of my life and am finally reaching a point where I am mature enough to appreciate the gifts I have been given. My current aim is to learn balance in all things. I seem to achieve peace in one area just about the time the bottom falls out of another and that makes me stress out more than necessary at times, but we'll just call that "high-strung" for now...he he. I would ultimately say that I am on the right path and enjoying the journey....I am just not very good at stopping and asking for directions along the way. I'll get there....on my own....in my own way....and my destination may change a bit here and there, but it will be an adventure of my own design. And it will be a hell of a lot of fun getting there.
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

OK, let's start by discussing the difference between who I'd LIKE to meet versus the type of guys I generally meet and develop an interest in. I am interested in strength of character, a sense of humor, a slightly adventurous side, confidence, and loyalty--both to themselves as well as those close to them. Those are all characteristics of the type of mate I believe would best fit with my needs as well as what i offer in a relationship. Now...instead of that "all-around great guy" that I just described, I seem to attract guys who don't yet know (some of them never will) how great they can be and so I try to give them that knowledge by showing devotion even when it's not being reciprocated. I tend to see the best in people and allow my optimistic nature to control my happiness too often. Instead of being objective and seeing things for what they are, I can blind myself to the facts and always believe in what it could one day become. This has made most of my relationships become more "wishful thinking" than reality. I intend to change my willingness to accept less than what I am capable of offering, so if you're interested in dating, you should be someone willing to allow yourself to live in today and for today. We'll handle tomorrow when it gets here....as long as I know I have your dedication to making it thru rough spots, I am the type of guy who can guarantee I'll give my all. I am interested in similar characteristics in friends and hope to meet new people since I am moving to a new city in June. I have really great friends who have set the bar pretty high, but I am drawn to people who enjoy living and laughing at full volume. Honesty and compassion are necessary, the rest is all negotiable. LOL. I enjoy hanging out on summer days or going on road trips or just dinner/movie nights with friends so if someone is laid back and has something interesting to say once in a while, that's pretty much all I ask for.

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