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About Me

I would call myself just a normal guy, but I don't like the word "normal". I'm laid back and energetic (now THERE'S an oxymoron). I try to avoid labels and stereotypes whenever and wherever I can. I'm honest almost to a fault. It's not like I try to be an a**hole or anything, I'm just rather...blunt. So careful what you ask, I might just answer.

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I like meeting new people in general. If someone is abnormal and defies stereotypes, hit me up.

My Blog

Back home...and a new job!

Well, I made it back home in March (long story, not a great one).  I was unemployed for a few months - not by choice this time - but I finally hooked up with a new outfit in May.  Since I made it past...
Posted by on Wed, 15 Sep 2010 12:36:00 GMT

A job! A job!

So, some of you may (or may not) know...and some of y'all may even CARE  - but I've been out of work since October.  So, after 6 months of blood bank and day labor bullshit, I finally got th...
Posted by on Tue, 06 May 2008 19:46:00 GMT

Just a little hello from La La Land

OK, so maybe things are a little bit better than they were 6 months ago.  Of course, my ex-wife's still a bitch (although at least she's given up on fuckin' ME over...she's moved on to bein' a bi...
Posted by on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 14:17:00 GMT

Can't get over this shit...

I don't know exactly what my problem is, but lateley I've had this almost unshakable feeling that something essential is wrong with the world.  I don't know if it's just my world that's fucked up...
Posted by on Fri, 22 Jun 2007 12:43:00 GMT

New writing

I'll Miss the Sun 'Til Tomorrow(C) 2007 Benjamin Scott BlairThere was nothingwecould do.We were lovers, andwe were forever; and thenforever came.Butremember, please, the lessons ofourpast happiness.Do...
Posted by on Thu, 07 Jun 2007 16:35:00 GMT

New Writing

THE COST OF AN EDUCATION(C) 2006 Benjamin Scott Blair(Verse 1, only drumbeat underneath)(Softly)I hate you for all the tearsI hate you for all the laughterYou kissed away all my fearsWith your "Happy ...
Posted by on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 13:33:00 GMT

Old Writing

FAREWELL TO DIANA(C) 1998 Benjamin Scott BlairI saw her in the starsand I saw the stars in her eyes.The moonlight shone in her hair,glistening like a silver veil.I watched as she notched an arrow,each...
Posted by on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 13:29:00 GMT

New Writing

ONCE YOU GAVE ME A LITTLE SEED(C) 2006 Benjamin Scott BlairThere is a little gardenin my heart, and I keep itfaithfully.  I plant my seedscarefully; they are my family and friendsand everyone I l...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Jun 2006 22:29:00 GMT

New Writing

TIME WASTED(C) 2006 Benjamin Scott Blair I, in my living roomAss sitting:Taking the bowlHitting, head splittingGaze through the hazeEyes burningSmoke in my lungsCoughing, churning;Friend on the couchW...
Posted by on Tue, 06 Jun 2006 22:19:00 GMT

New Writing

UNTITLED TANKA(C) 2006 Benjamin Scott Blair Without you, I canEat, drink, sleep, walk, run, and breathe;But I have found thatOnly by being with youCan I really, truly live.
Posted by on Tue, 06 Jun 2006 22:12:00 GMT