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Sassy as they come

There isnt good in everyone. I finally realize that.

About Me



Im 30, intelligent, independent,attractive, successful and happy. How many people can truly say they are happy. I was taught at a young age that life is what you make it. So I made it what I wanted. I was married for 5 years and together almost 10. He was a great guy but we ended up totally different kinds of adults. So after almost 10 years I found myself starting all over. It was hard but I made it. I have met some magnificent people on the way and then some not so great people on the way to. I have learned a'lot. You know when you were young and adults were always like "just wait, you have so much to learn." and you were like "whatever, I know everything." ya, I didn't and I learned. I wouldn't give up any of my lessons though. Thats all life is though. ONE BIG LESSON! learn from it. I am a very active person and love to do all sorts of things. Mountain bike , ATV and zip line through the jungle, white water rafting, snorkle in the carribean, Dance into the wee hours of the night. and so on and so on. I'm friendly but gaurded. You will often find me just sitting back and watching. I'm watching to see what you do and how you act. I am not one of those women who needs a man. There is nothing a man can do for me that I cant do for myself. Don't get me wrong, when I meet that person who wants to do it with me I will be completely open minded but until then, My mamma said never to settle so I wont. A partner should be a compliment to who you are not a cover to who your not. I recently moved to the L.A. area for a new begining. I absolutely love it here. I have already made some great friends and am havin the time of my life. I love the sunshine and the fact that there is so much to do. Im going to experiance everything. Life is to short not to.Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies. I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me.I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me.Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can't see. I say, It's in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I'm a womanPhenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me.Now you understand Just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care, 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me MYA ANGELO
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My Interests

traveling and being successful. Spending alot of time with friends and meeting new and interesting people. . I love working out and going to the gym. you just dont understand how good it makes you feel.(hope they dont check me at the door cause i brought my guns)My girl friends are my ultimate saviors of sanity. You have no idea just how important they are.a fallen angel for halloweenMY beautiful friend Angela and IMy Rosi Posi Rixie Roxy. Doesnt she look so hot and foxy? Isnt my baby georgous! She is my heart and the reason I breath. Dont mess with her heart or ill rip yours out. WOULD THAT MAKE YOU LOVE US? .. "

I'd like to meet:

SOMEONE I DO WANT TO MEET:people who enrich my life and only make me a better me. someone who is fun and likes to joke around but can be serious at just the right times. easy goin and chill. don't like difficult people cause im not difficult. someone who genuinely knows how to care about someone. people just don't seem to know the meaning of unconditional anymore. friends or family. because once all the monitery things r gone what r u left with. someone who wont take advantage of the fact that i care about them. I'm finding out that that is a lot to ask 4 these days. the only thing i have to offer anymore is me. just want someone who thinks thats enough.I .. .. .. ".. This is what happens when people make my heart hurt! One of the purest souls you will ever meet! You could only be so lucky to be loved by someone like her Wow thats some hot girls. .. look at ma girl doin the damn thing. lol

Music:

music is my passion. All types but mostly R&B and neo soul. love to sing. favorites right now are the new Lyfe Jennings, Dave Hollister, India Arie, john legend, Jill Scott, Anthony Hamilton, Depeche mode, Sara Mcglaughlin, Tori Amos, cure, erasure,Micheal Mcdonald,jewel, Norah Jones,Beastie boys, honestly almost anything.

Movies:

favorite movies are anything with Chris Farley in it. bad ass chicks, something that makes you think and at the end go holy shit wasn't expecting that and with a B rating. my new favorite is knocked up. City of Lost Children(only the French version though)Hitch is a new favorite. it should be a prerequisit for men, WEDDING CRASHERS & THE 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN. I think Anchorman is one of those movies that you either get or you don't. If you don't than maybe your just not as funny as you thought.

Television:

nip tuck is my favorite(Dr troy and i are getting married someday) contrary to popular belief i will date white guys. they just have to have rythem and style. charmed, law and order and reno 911.

Books:

anything by dean Koontz, younger, Chicken soup for the soul books.(cause its just nice to hear about the good in the world sometimes) And just pretty much anything that catches my fancy.I love spiritual self help books. Things that help improve on the good person that I am.

Heroes:

My auntie,cause sometimes i screw up and she still loves me any way. My baby sister, cause i was horable to her when we were younger and she still forgave me and became my best friend. My little bro, cause hes 24 never smoked, doesn't drink or swear, married the first girl he fell in love with and was a virgin till that night, became the man at 14 when my dad ran out and never once complained, is a full time servant in his congregation and does everything in his life for god but will never ever make you feel like your not good enough. Because hes a better person than i could ever aspire to being, and my mom, cause he left and she still maintained.....

My Blog

reasons seasons lifetimes

I have been sitting here for the last few days feeling sad about the way some things have taken place. Just so I can clarify, I know that sometimes I come off hard and brash. It has been something I h...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 01:16:00 PST

vacation

Hola from Mehico, Thats a lil accent there. Right now Im sitting here waiting for my plain and pondering this last week that I had. It was a wonderful trip and I met some amazing people from other cou...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Wed, 30 May 2007 11:07:00 PST

Can they really change?

How many of you beleive the old adage " Once a a player always a player" I have met plenty in my life time and am continually asking myself the same question. Will he ever change? So im asking you all...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Tue, 22 Aug 2006 11:14:00 PST

Long Enough

Its been long enough But you still posses The closest thoughts to sanity In every moment Every woken moment Trapped here by your hollow presence Before I sleep I pray In hopes you wont invade my slumb...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Tue, 18 Apr 2006 11:38:00 PST

That feeling

Have you ever had that feeling. You know the one where that person makes your heart skip a beat. The one where you hear their voice on the end of the phone and your heart gets stuck in your throat. Wh...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Tue, 21 Mar 2006 04:14:00 PST

a great compliment

I was talkin to a friend yesterday. He was someone I dated briefly but after just a couple months we both kind of realised we were just more friends than anything. He is a great person and we hav...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Mon, 24 Oct 2005 08:43:00 PST

it happened again

once again i made the choice to trust someone and got burnt. So I had this friend who ive always had feelins for but because i dont trust men to much i always just kind of stayed back. But this time i...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

are they out there?

Are they though. You know who im talking about. Those really great genuine people who you can completely trust. Someone who no matter what , wont judge you for the things you do or on the mistakes you...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

lifes to short.

couple days ago my bro inlaw was killed walkin across the street. totaly random. and the only thing i could think was did i kiss and hug him the last time we were together. did i tell him just how muc...
Posted by Sassy as they come on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST