R.I.P Wayne "Godson" Love, Ra'Chelle

GREETING AND BLESSINGS Ladies & Gentleman... Im a Saved, Sweet, Positive, Lovable and Humble woman that enjoys life right now for all it offers - Good & Bad.
I DO NOT internet date, exchange information, I WILL APPROVED ALL FRIEND REQUEST but..Please dont get mad IF I cant answer your messages ASAP, especially invites to take me out, sorry! Im focused on my goals right now. God is all I need right now! BE BLESSED! Thanks for stopping by!!
Liked by FEW...
Loved by MANY...
Hated by SOME...
Confronted by NONE...
A GREAT FRIEND TO ALL!!
We call on God in our big problems, but often forget to call on Him in our ordinary moments, yet He is always there and always loving us. Lord, every time I seek Your help, You draw me closer to You. No matter which of the above you feel for me Thanks for coming by, Much Luv!
Mrs. Ra'Chelle a WONDER WOMAN for GOD!!!
I truly have realized that NO ONE will ever love Ra'Chelle more than Ra'Chelle will love herself! I would never intentionally do anything to hurt myself, even though I do make mistakes or bad choices. I learn from them... I tend to vent them out first with tears, then I pray and then I find the humor/positive in the situation. For instance, I was married to a man that I loved 100% with all my heart, he kept cheating and it was an abusive marriage, something I forced without consulting my heart or God. So when it ended, it hurt like hell!! BUT the outcome made me a 100% better stronger individual, gave me more self esteem, allowed me to see that I put my trust in love & life in another person that WAS NOT ME!!! The positive was it made me see that IF someone WANTS to be in my life, its fine.. BUT if not, then I dont NEED them!!! I gained a GREAT son out the situation and courage to be a better woman, not excepting the extra MESS or feeling dependent on anyone!!
So as far as love goes, when U are trying to find someone, its GREAT to be friends with them first for awhile. Get to know them thru good & bad, learn them for ALL they are, flaws & all... So that when ur together, you bring out the EXTRA in each other. See when U love U 100%.. someone else brings extra love & fun to everything else, so if they LEAVE U then U wont be EMPTY, ur still at 100% maybe alil hurt, missing them BUT be glad for the time & memories. Im currently single for MANY reasons, But the 1 reason is that I dont know ANYONE right now that LOVES me 100% completely with all my flaws that will make me the main accessory to there life ( Im speaking marriage) I have to be friends with someone FIRST and get to know them truly, so I stay IN-LOVE with myself cause I know that at the end of the day, I will ALWAYS love me MORE! I enjoy my friends in my life that encourage me and that are all getting married or in relationships, I am learning from them all!! But I know that not EVERYONE is suppose to be around for a lifetime but they can remain in ur heart for a life time.
People are there to teach U lessons sometimes, no matter how long they are in your life! Friends that you have had for years, that have been there thru THICK & THIN, never leaving your side, loving you always even when you have fallen out, ARE PEOPLE THAT AREN'T JUST ACCESSORIES - They are SOULMATES or ANGELS that God has sent to you to help you along the way in life! (even if they are distants away, you talk to them on MySpace or email a few times a month/year) Remember this : MOST MEN & WOMEN are ACCESSORIES to U! They ONLY bring out the BEST thats already there, but when you take off that outfit/issue, you have only YOU left :0)
Now on life, learning to take care of yourself is a 1 PRIORITY!! You will not always have family, parents or mates to help you out. So if you can learn to deal with your life with out NEEDING someone else, it makes it great when U do have the help. Dont get me wrong, sometimes U will need HELP and thats when its good to have those REAL people around that can help you out, BUT ur NOT dependent on them. You know that ur just in a temporary state that you may need them to get thru and when its all said and done, You will APPRECIATE them being there, and they wont feel ur a BURDEN! Taking care of your home, bills, foods, kids, health, spiritual walk and social life can allow many doors to open for you when others see that you are not a burden, ONLY a great Friend who is independent. When you are able to help your friends/family, as well as take care of YOU... thats a BLESSING!!! Being able to love yourself 100% completely and take care of what you need to in order to survive without depending on someone ALL THE TIME takes alot out of you, thats when God does come in Handy! FOR REAL!! Trust me, I have been in storms for the past years, but I keep a SMILE even when I am crying, cause I know that its all to make me STRONGER and INDEPENDENT... the only person I need to call on and that will always be there is GOD!!
So I hope this blog inspired a few people, answered some questions, and if not, just keep asking... I dont mind answering! I am an open, honest person that knows we are all here to help, inspire, encourage or uplift!!
And with that being said -Its 2008:
Please just be a good person, leave the DRAMA alone and try to make it thru life the best way you cant without NEGATIVITY! Men do RIGHT by WOMEN!! Women all men ARE NOT DOGS.. there are some GOOD ONES LEFT!!! If Your having Relationhips thought about Life and Love.. Please go check out my 2 blogs that may be helpful to MEN and WOMEN!!
The first is titled "75 Relationship Lessons We All Must Learn" and the second is titled " Great Love Tips" Hopefully you read them and get some great advice!!! Mrs. Ra'Chelle :-)
***dont try to copy my feelings either***