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-AN OLD SOUL
-EMINENT
-CHANGING...
I (2003) Judge I by mentality
Not outer physicality
Don't judge tatoo's on I body
Nor piercing's in I skin
Judge I because you know I..
WHAT LIES WITHIN....
© C'EST MOI, SAMII,,
**"I'M NOT IN THIS WORLD, TO LIVE UP TO UR EXPECTATIONS, NEITHER ARE YOU HERE TO LIVE UP TO MINE, I DON'T OWE NO ONE, NO OBLIGATION, AND NO I DON'T NEED NONE, SO EVERYTHING IS FINE, FINE...I SAID, I AM, THAT I AM, I AM, I AM, I AM..."**Peter Tosh..
"Oftentimes you give others the opportunity to create your happiness, and many times they fail to create it the way you want it. Why? Because only one person can be in charge of your joy, of your bliss, and that's you. So even your parent, your child, your spouse-they do not have the control to create your happiness. They simply have the opportunity to share in your happiness.
YOUR JOY LIES WITHIN YOU..
YOU CAN'T HOLD LOVE IN YOUR HAND, YOU CAN ONLY FEEL IT IN YOUR HEART.."
-LISA NICHOLS "The Secret"
TO KNOW ME IS TO LOVE ME-CUZ THAT'S WHAT I GENERATE..
"LOVE IS MY RELIGION" *A Soulful Relationship
by Reverend Ronald McFadden~If you're not married yet, share this with a friend. ~If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflect on it..An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye." Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individuals who have decided to share a life together.
Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best of each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter him or her. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship. Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
What keeps a relationship strong?
Communication, intimacy, trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal, a shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note). Leave a nice message on their voicemail or send a nice email. Sharing common goals and interests. Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can't always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don't try to control one another. Learn each other's family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don't put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer.
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.
" Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think." The grass withers, the flowers fades, but the word of God stands forever. -Isaiah 40:8Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight. Always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary. The difference between 'United' and 'Untied' is where you put the I.
"IT'S NOT ALWAYS RAINBOW'S AND BUTTERFLIES, IT'S COMPROMISE THAT MOVES US ALONG"-MAROON 5
I'M NEVER HATING.. BECAUSE, NEGATIVITY BEGETS MORE NEGATIVITY, AND I'M ALL ABOUT THE POSITIVE.. SMILE 4 ME!!
