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Encouragement

I listen & speak with my heart, A relationship should be 100% per person, not 50/50

About Me

I'm laid back and real. Life is a respect code either you have or you don't period! I’m just starting this new life of being single and I love it. I have big trust issues right now so I don't want a girlfriend. I want some friends too confided in and that’s all I need. My body needs a rest from all the headache and stress. It took me awhile too understand that life and love is more than 50/50.It's 100 percent on both in ends. So the next young lady I meet will have it good. She’ll be special too me and the tallest pedestal will be waiting for her when she arrives. Too all my friends you guys are already on the pedestal just don't cross me or it's going too be trouble, trouble in the words of "Bernie Mac" from players club:) .. .. Doobix.com

My Interests

Finding happiness in my career and life while pleasing others. If you can't help your self, how can you help someone else. So I put alot of time in to being the best I can be all day everyday.

I'd like to meet:

The woman of my dreams is 5'9 inches or less. She has hazel eye's,long beautiful hair. Over 21 years old. She is slim/ and slender or (coke bottle shaped).Her work is very important to her. She is Professional and has a good position with a large company. She feels strongly about her work. She makes at least fifty thousand dollars a year. She has a relaxed approached to money matters. Her work takes her out town sometimes.She is a political liberal just left of center. She votes religiously for Democrats. She is politcally active.She is practicing religion. She goes to church. She goes to service regularly. She takes pride in her apperance but isn't the type to spend every weekend in the beauty parlor or overindulge in make up. She is a natural beauty and looking good comes easy for her. She doesn't take life to seriously, but she is sensitive, warm, and nurturing when necessary.Martital history doesn't matter as long as me and him are not friends.Children doesn't matter from the previous relationship neither. They may live with her aswell it shows responsibilty.She wears jeans around the house. She is a sporty and formal dresser. She enjoys staying home & going dancing. She drinks hardly ever. She isn't a smoker. She spends hardly anytime alone. She has lots of friends. She spends time with her female friends. She has a few friendly male friendships.She is athletic and often involved in her sports. Her favorite sport is basketball. On a Sunday afternoon, she likes to read, go jogging, and have family dinners. She most love too cook. I'll do the dishes.She is the intellectual type and perfers all music.She is sensitive and caring, a team player. She does put people first. She always put me first and I'll do the same.Thats my Commitment and my Dream Girl..

Music:

I LISTEN TO A LOT OF MIX TAPES LIKE: DJ. JELLY, DJ.TY BOOGIE,DJ. SILVA SURFER,CLINTON SPARKS,JUST GO TO THERE WEB SITE THEY HAVE ALL THE HOTTEST BLENDS IN R&B, HIP-HOP, REGGAE JUST TO MENTION A FEW: THEY EVEN HAVE R&B VOCALS MIX WITH THE HIP-HOP BEATS AND ETC.

Movies:

I LOVE SILLY MOVIES LIKE: DO BE A MENACE, SCARY MOVIE, NOPOLEON DYNIMITE,I LOVE DANCING MOVIES LIKE: SAVE THE LAST DANCE,YOU GOT SERVED, BEAT STREET, HONEY, RIZE. ANYTHING WITH AN UPTEMPO

Television:

VERY SELDOM DO I WATCH T.V BUT LOVE COMEDY. LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE.JAMIE FOXX, MIKE EPPS, THE KINGS OF COMEDY,THE QUEENS OF COMEDY,ETC.

Books:

THE BIBLE & THINK & GROW RICH BY: (NOPOLEON HILL) IT'S AN MOTOVATONAL PIECE IT TEACHES ME THE DO AND DON'TS FOR AN HEALTHY AND MORE STABLE FUTURE.IT'S REALLY GOOD IF YOU APPLY HIS STRATEGY TO EVERYDAY LIFE.

Heroes:

GOD: WHAT WOULD THE WORLD DO WITH OUT HIM. EVERY 2ND HE IS SAVINGS LIVES. EVERYDAY YOU WAKE UP JUST THANK HIM. IT ONLY TAKES A SECOND TO APPRICIATE WHAT HE'S DONE FOR US, AND A LIFETIME TO LIVE IT.

My Blog

Prayer Blog (I'll pray 4 you,you pray 4 me)

I have an uncle sick with Pancreas Cancer. I've been traveling back and forth too U of M in Ann Arbor, Mi. They have the best cancer treatment center in state or better yet the world to me. The d...
Posted by Commitment on Wed, 17 Jan 2007 12:11:00 PST

Equality

Non-Threatening Behavior: Talking and acting so that she feels safe and comfortable expressing herself and doing things. Respect: Listening to her non-judgmentally, being emotionally affirming and und...
Posted by Commitment on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 02:02:00 PST

You are on my mind all the time!!!

SIXTEEN:When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.FIFTEEN:You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.FOURTEEN:Y...
Posted by Commitment on Mon, 15 Jan 2007 11:13:00 PST

31 ways to get a girls Heart!!

1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.3. Hug her from behind4. Leave her voice messages t...
Posted by Commitment on Sun, 14 Jan 2007 11:52:00 PST

The Steps to Commitment

You begin dating every weekend. You assume you will spend holidays together. You begin seeing each other all weekend and during the week as well. You have a regular schedule for being together. You ar...
Posted by Commitment on Sun, 07 Jan 2007 12:41:00 PST

The 12 Laws of Love

Love Law # 1: When two people form a relationship, each one should improve his or her life. If life gets worse, or you drag each other down, eventually one of you wises up and splits. Love Law # 2: ...
Posted by Commitment on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 12:58:00 PST

Male & Female (Dictionary)

This here takes common phrases men use and provides trnslations of what they really men in a language women can understand. (I'm feeling good about this one)!! 1.Phrase: "I don't want to talk about it...
Posted by Commitment on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 04:33:00 PST

4 Page letter -Aaliyah R.I.P

1st page: Jeporady-Name something we all have? Martin Luther King-Dreams Tinman-Heart Scarecrow-Brain Lion-Courage James Brown-Soul Keshia Cole-Love Aretha Franklin-Respect Milton-Bradley-Life Dru Hi...
Posted by Commitment on Thu, 04 Jan 2007 09:04:00 PST

Do you have Low Self-Esteem? I'm a victim

Your self-esteem is an emotion and feeling that will stay with you forever. Has your man or woman ever called you? Bitch, Hoe, Slut, Lazy, etc NOTE: Abusive men rarely call their women by her name. ...
Posted by Commitment on Wed, 03 Jan 2007 02:34:00 PST

Do's and Don'ts (for treating others with Respect)

  DO: begin each day with a promise to respect others sit down and talk quietly listen carefully to what others say look for things to appreciate others give praise out loud for the good you see...
Posted by Commitment on Wed, 27 Dec 2006 02:00:00 PST