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**Hilda **

Mind over Matter...... And if I dont Mind ....It dont Matter

About Me

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HotFreeLayoutsO.K. I guess it's about time I write something about myself. I'll start off with my reason for being .. my kids i have a son who is 11 Xavier and my daughter who is 3 Angelica. Everything I do, and the woman I am is for my and because of my kids. There is nothing I wouldn't do for them. I've had ups and downs in my life. Enough to say that I don't trust people. I've learned human nature ... some one will step over you and stab you in the back the first chance they get to a step ahead. I have a real friend that I can say I trust and have never been disappointed in Virgina ! Girl you know I love you I can all ways count on you to hear me out and tell me how it really is ... and regardless of what I end up doing you stand beside me. That's at true friendI'm a bit loud and of course a smart ass I can fit in with any type of crowd. I love joking around and hate DRAMA I try to avoid it as much as possible. But don't misunderstand me if we have to get DOWN we will.As far as relationships go I'm not too good at that I end up giving 100% of myself and receiving 25%. So I've decided to keep that 100% to myself There's no point in putting so much effort in something that is not going to work. I've been told I'm a dominate female therefore my relationships fail ... my friend Mikee says I'm attracted to ASSHOLES so who knows and who cares what the reason is.

My Interests

I enjoy reading,doing arts and crafts,exercising, being out doors, dancing, hanging out with my friends and of course any one that knows me knows I love to drink LOL!! I enjoy work on my truck you know wash it get it cleaned up ... a little bit of everything

I'd like to meet:


You Are An ESTP
The Doer

You are adventurous and risk taking. You act first, think second.
You love being the center of attention. Chances are you were the class clown.
Competitive, charming, and charasmatic - you have your own code of honor.
You live a flexible life, bouncing between a series of activies that interest you.

You would make a great salesperson, marketing director, or entrepreneur. What's Your Personality Type?My sister got me on to this my space thing ...I'm here to cath up with old friends and make new friends .. not trying to find a man! Get Your Own! | View Slideshow
Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.

You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.

Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover. What Kind of Seducer Are You?

Music:

I love music I listen to just about anything just depending on the mood I'm in Music Video Code provided by MySpace Video Code

Movies:


The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.

Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Television:

Greys Anatomy !! I love it not much of a TV person

Books:

48 Rules of Power this is an awesome book

Heroes:

If I had to have a heroe it would be my grandfathers. But honestly I dont have one just like I dont have a favorite color ...... I'm weird ... I know

My Blog

Mothers

It's amazing how you can lie to your self and think that you can control life in it's self. No matter what we do in life it has it's mind of it's own. Why is there moms let me rephrase that why is th...
Posted by **Hilda ** on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 08:46:00 PST

Life

Today I confirmed that 5 1/2 years of my life was given to a man ... the little things I did to try and make him happy were in vain. I learned not to give any one 100% of you ...and if they dont...
Posted by **Hilda ** on Wed, 24 May 2006 01:29:00 PST