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.jojo.<3

dont miss what was ..dont anticipate what will be ..just enjoy what is.

About Me

heeeeeey! my names Joanna, JoJo to some, Jo-E to others or just plain CRAZY . . i moved from Hightstown NEW JERSEY to Tampa in the summer of 05 ((once a jersey girl, ALWAYS a jersey girl)) i CANT STAND drama . . i dont run with many girls cause they talk too much . . i can be REALLY nice, or i can make your life HELL . . im a very blunt person and i rarely hold back from doing or saying things i feel strongly about . . i dont obsess over what people think about me, u can love to hate me or hate to love me, i am what i am . .i consider myself one of the luckiest people ever because i have the most amazing friends who i aboslutely adore
p.s. THE HATERS WILL ALWAYS BE HEAVY .. BUT THE LOVE OVER POWERS IT!!
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sit and remember all the things that we spoke of all of the serious reasonings an all the things we made jokes of still cannot believe he took your life away ..RIP TIFFANY
"The Jersey girl: A love of an unpretentious good time and a certain sense of style. Jersey girls are about attitude. They're about eatin pizza, drinkin beer, havin great hair and enjoyin it all. She's got a mouth on her. She says what she means. And she's got a nice, cheerful laugh. bottom line, all of them are sexy as hell." -The Star Ledger"
"Jersey Girls have this special inner glow that makes them more beautiful than any other girl." -Jon Bon Jovi
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

If a man wants you..If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. S L O W E R is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!) Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Music:

my all time favsi absolutely LOVE rap and R&B and always will . .*TRANCE PARTY is my shit!!* basically anything i can booty pop too!! =) haha

Movies:

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Heroes:

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My Blog

a thanks to my friends <3

since i moved to tampa a year ago, ive gone through alot of changes. ive definetly changed as a person. in some cases i changed for the better, in others i changed for the worst. my friends know what ...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Mon, 04 Sep 2006 03:25:00 PST

life & love

you live you love you learn ..its life and right now its pretty good
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Sun, 03 Sep 2006 06:00:00 PST

just like the rest of em . .

you made yourself out to be "sucha good guy" promised youd never hurt me. promised me youd never be "him" you turned out to be everything he was and more. why make promises you cant keep? you get plea...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Wed, 02 Aug 2006 09:49:00 PST

a whole new spin on things . .

"im not here for a long time, im here for a good time" -wise words of a gooood friend of mine. smartest thing i've heard in a while. perfect ...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Mon, 12 Jun 2006 10:15:00 PST

why do i do what i do???

why is that i have something so good but i cant seem to realize it and appreciate it its wrong to make him pay for someone else's mistakes i dont do it on purpose, but i shouldnt be doing it at all...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Tue, 23 May 2006 12:04:00 PST

just when i thought it was finally over . .

yeah so just when i thought all the drama was finally over . .   WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO STICK THEIR NOSE WHERE IT DOESNT BELONG .. it would be one thing if i still lived in NJ, bu...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Tue, 21 Mar 2006 12:34:00 PST

ya win some ya lose some . .

well .. after almost 2 years of BULLSHIT its finally come clear to me that he was WORTHLESS .. and that now, im one of the LUCKIEST girl in the world because i have such an AMAZING boyfriend (( chaaad...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Sat, 25 Feb 2006 04:32:00 PST

not cooooool . .

so yeah .. ive decided that sometimes, dreams feel waaay to real .. and i hate it .. cuz then im constantly thinking about it .. and wondering if it really happened .. fuckin dreaaams .. who invented ...
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Fri, 13 Jan 2006 08:56:00 PST

if theres one thing ive learned . .

if theres one thing i've learned in the past year and 8 months, its that just because a guy says he loves you, doesnt mean he wont hurt you....
Posted by ..jOjO <3 on Wed, 09 Nov 2005 02:24:00 PST