I desire to meet someone who shares my desire to be there for ones mate in both good times and bad. I was married for 20 yrs (Old School), therefore I don't play games nor do I have baggage. I love kissing, holding hands and snuggling. I also enjoy lying on the sofa with my wine glass drinking my kool-aid while listening to Miles Davis, or Kim Waters, or Billie Holiday or Donny Hathaway or Ronny Artis play softly in the background. I enjoy watching basketball and boxing as well. I desire a man that hasn't been so hurt or abused from past relationships that he does not remember how he truly deserves to be treated. My man will be honored, respected, loved and appreciated because he deserves to be treated that way. I am free to treat my man with respect because I am STRONG and not weak! In my singleness (6 yrs) I have developed a good understanding of what it takes to make a relationship work over the long haul. I want to build a relationship that will last. I desire stability and longevity. . If you are confident, recognizes that you have yourself together, have identified what you want and you go for it... you are probably the man for me. Again, I love life and all life has to offer! If you are just looking for a Booty-call...please pass me by!