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I Get It Now

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Try My Quote Section On For Size If You Can Handle It's Depth...“Feeling loved isn’t a matter of getting attention, having companions, competing successfully, or feeling attractive. Feeling loved is having someone who cares whether I exist – someone at hand, someone whom I see across the table or room, looking at me with fondness. Feeling loved is being listened to, taken seriously, and treasured for reasons deeper than accomplishment or advantage. Feeling loved is a gift with no strings, a greeting with no restraint, a conversation with no agenda.”Build Up...Release.... Let Go...Change...Imagine... AccomplishChange... It is what is inevitable...You have to kick over a few rocks to see if there is any goldThere is nothing more pleasing then an abundance of characterIt's all in the eye of the beholderYou cannot compare a shiny apple to dull orangeI'll leave it to your creative imagination....The proof is in the puddingThose who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.A wise man will always listen ...A fool will always argueLearn to give before you want..Appreciate before you ask for more...Understand before being understood...Do you want to meet an important person? Take him as a gift and it will be easy....Beauty in a a Woman without good judgment is like a gold ring in a pig's snout....You have 15 minutes to leave an impression... After that you better know something....I'm here for a different reason for a different time and a different cause....I enjoy being different :) At least I know that I am me :)...An orgasm is the greatest thing in life. For it is the creation of another being...I would rather be happy and healthy then wealthy...Just ........Be :)His word... His skills ....His friends and his BALLS is all a guy EVER NEEDS!...Fuck the sliced bread. I'm the best thing since the invention of the wheel. I'm hot, I'm shiny, I bounce, I'm fast, I rock , and I bring people excitement.Keep Guessing ...Keep Trying ..Keep Wondering...Keep Learning....Words are powerful if you know how to use them ;)....Follow Your Own Path And Create Your Passions......The Crowd WILL FOLLOW!!....Making love carried me as close to the center of awe as anything I'd ever experienced. It gathered into one fearsome rapture all my earlier transports of terrified wonder- from thunderstorms to starry nights, from the chill brink of death to the dawn chorus of waking birds.... For lovers do not so much make love as they are remade by love- dipped into the fire, melted down, reshaped. If they are devoted to one another, love will transform them, dissolving the shells of their old separate selves and making them anew.
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I LIKE TO DREAM BIG!! BUILD BIGGER!! AND GRAB THE WORLD BY THE BALLS AS IF IT WERE ACTUALLY YOURS!!
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Buried at PhotoCasket.comHey everyone...: I'm Bobby :) Whats Up!:) ...Thanks for tuning in... Who I am is important but not nearly as important as what my mission is in this life...and that is... BRINGING PEOPLE TOGETHER...Especially at a time in the world where they are COMPLETELY APART... Everyday I try to make a conscious, and collective effort to make a difference in someones life even if it is a small difference...Whether it be in their hearts. minds... stomaches..or pockets...Hmm?....If I had to write my auto biographpy here?...I would say that I am someone to be experienced rather then spoken of or talked about...(If only they knew what was lurking beneath the surface...hehe) But?...What the hell...hehe.. I might as well give everyone a sliver of who I am while I'm at it ;)...The things that move me the most in this life are truly simple....They are sunsets and sunrises...The smell of fresh cut grass..Waking to birds singing... To let you know your still alive and look forward to another day....A cool summers breeze and a hot beach....Getting lost in the mountains or on the road and exploring and venturing new worlds, The still of silence after a day is done and peace is all around you. Spending a spring day in a vineyard, Taking a mid-day's nap in the sun, Dancing like it is nobody's business but your own,and someone saying Thank You for helping them...But what moves me the most is music. Music is my passion! (Amongst many other things...) I love to sing everywhere I go. (If you happen see me in traffic, make sure you wave hi to the ass with the music blastin', seat dancing in his car.. lol) I enjoy messing around on my computer with my keyboard a lot, and mix a lot of contemporary music. Currently I am learning how to play guitar with whatever time I have available I would like to give the saxophone a go next. There's something sassy jazzy an sensual about it. Plus. I find it very different from all the other typical instruments. I have also recently been toying with the notion of opening up my own karaoke business. I am definitely going to make plans to go for it in about 6 months...It's going to be fun.. prosperous.. and exciting..:) . Hmm?..What else can I include here?..Well?...Since construction has a tendency to run in my family, I savor the accomplishments of creating many things with my own two hands. I find it much more gratifying to build something from conception rather than to purchase it. I love art, and like musing in art galleries, and on an occasional basis I like to paint or sketch or take scenic pictures...I enjoy being outdoors quite a bit, and I'm not really too picky about where I spend it either. I find everywhere to offer its sense of unique value. It really doesn't matter whether it is concrete or countryside or just a plain old BBQ in the backyard of modern suburbia with me. Just as long as there is some type of adventure involved with it ;). I really cannot seem to live without spontainity. Everything just becomes mundane and ritual habit after a while ya know ?..My free time can vary quite extravagantly with me. On one hand...I love NYC’s upbeat and sophisticated ambiance…Several times a year I make it a pleasure to trek around my concrete jungle, (while neither here nor there), for simple pleasures of exquisite food, coffee, clubs (maybe a milkshake..lol), art, music and nightlife.When I am out and about within the local scenes. Hoboken is definitely MY KIND OF TOWN!I enjoy reading a lot about the ways of the east, especially when it comes to lifestyles and ways of living, health and sex. Recently... I have been profoundly blown away at the culture, discipline, and chi of the taoist ways of circling energies,preferably sexual energies. Ying and Yang energies, As well as Tantra sexual energies hold a great deal of interest to me a well....(I'm glad those quick free massage classes paid of while I was going to school for networking .. hehe....) I think the western culture really has no fuckin idea of what these energies are capable of as far as enlightenment, healing, and health. But I guess that's typical Americana lol... Always to be first with everything and never the best. lol...Personally I don't look at sex the way most people do, and quite frankly I find most peoples ways to be boring. I also think life should be more about integrity and well intentioned love, then typical shallow fulfillments. It also is in my belief that people are put here to be brought together not segregated apart. However I guess some people just carry bad vibes sometimes and we have no other choice but to choose. :( When I feel like I deserve a retreat from the hustle and the bustle. My cabin upstate fits the picture quite nicely. It is there that I feel the most free. Accelerating through the woods with one of my rocket powered vehicles gives me a sense of adrenaline and freedom. While still taking the time to stop and appreciate the beauty of nature, and the pace of the humble life...It's a nice lil' safe haven where I like to unwind.... Get a little irresponsible...make some bad decisions.. lol..and get a little nutkin futz!! lol... It's nice and relaxing when you can party on 6 acres without having to worry about pissing the neighbors off or things getting too loud.. etc etc..I also find it quite appealing to be able to go sun bathing or tanning right on your front lawn naked.. hehe.. ... ... While I am there, I really really really really really..lol.. enjoy going quadding, 3 wheeling, and snowmobiling. and once in a while? In the summer... I'll take a dip in the lake.I'm kind of a gear head and love taking stuff apart to see what makes it work and then putting it back together or restoring it to good as new... I'm really into vintage motorsports. There are some thing that they just don't build like they used to.... Pretty much...Any fast piece of machinery that I can swing a leg over, or sit into, I AM TOTALLY GAME! So I hope you like to race… hehe…)My refuge of NYS holds a second place in my heart, in that of comparison of the intoxicating influences of Italy. That place is beyond surreal. Especially Florence. I think that Florence had the most influence on me about how I want my life to be. The worst thing about it is having to leave. :( I hope to spend a good portion of my retirement there someday.)I think that I am the type of person that enjoys asking ask the questions that people would never think of. I enjoy pondering in the unfathomed. I like to surround myself with people who have a curiosity and a uninhibited zestful attitude towards life.. I think that its cool to always be open to suggestion, and keep your surrounding company as such. The reason for that is they always keep you on your toes, as well as keeping you growing. It's exciting and cool when people help each other down their own paths.Getting around to my family....As much of an annoyance that they can be sometimes...I love spending time with them...They’ve always kept the entertainment rolling in their own whacky way, and have always been there for me through the years no questions asked. Count your blessings everyone ...Some aren’t so fortunate, so I've learned As to anyone, there's always more. .. lol.. but I consider myself expressive.I definitely know that I am a very unique character that was born to explore and give the gift of the ALL THE PLEASURES OF LIFE...…To me there is nothing more revolting then following a heard of sheep. (The crowd)....Most people wouldn’t guess it until they have really gotten to know me… but those that do know me … I know are blessed with my company….:) My purpose in life is to build a long lasting lifetime full of memories and experiences for myself and others, that everyone can appreciate. I know I can be a bit picky and unreasonable at times, but it is a price to pay for being me, and is also only because... I know what I want out of my life. I'm only going around once…(Maybe twice if I’m lucky..lol…)I would ultimately associate myself with these attributes: Weird, interesting, charming, crazy, challenging, musical, mysterious, funny, endearing, sincere, original, creative, and most importantly real. I am a performer, a great conversationalist, a goof, a ball buster, and a damn good friend. (If you have any other questions about me feel free to ask.)Shpanks for taking the time to read MY AWESOME PROFILE ! YEAH! :DWELCOME TO MY ANIMAL KINDGDOM :D You Are A?: The ThermometerYou have no trouble raising temperatures, and you're ready for a quick insertion anytime.You sure know how to turn on the charm, but maybe you don't feel the need to do so as much as you could. When you do flirt, it's a conscious choice rather than a habit - an occasional recreation rather than a contact sport. And you're probably happy that way. If you've got what it takes to pull, it's no problem. But if you could use a touch of harmless flirting when the occasion arises, why not test out the waters a little more often? You're bound to improve your technique that way.Here‘s how you rated in the following categories:Sex Drive: SwingerYou should have no trouble expressing yourself sexually. It's important to you, but it doesn't overwhelm or dominate your life. You don't take offence at dirty jokes, raunchy chat, or suggestive party games. You are surprisingly often ready to swing your filthy thoughts and desires into action, and when you do, you certainly make the most of the occasion. You probably get turned on quite easily and won't mind enjoying yourself with sex toys, or relaxing with the occasional blue movie.Risk Taking:DaredevilYou're a committed risk taker who believes, deep down, that life's not worth living without a few dangers. In fact, your most satisfying relationships are likely to be those that involve an element of risk. But beware - those who dare do not always win. Be careful to understand this part of your makeup, or one day you may take a risk too far and it could all come to grief. Of course, like all Daredevils you're adventurous in bed - but maybe too wild for a regular lover. In your head, there's always another thrill just around the corner. There's no doubt that you're in love with risk and yourself - so watch out.Social Ease: TigerYou fit right into most social situations, as easily as a bee settles into a honey pot. In fact, like all Tigers you actively seek out parties and never avoid them. You're a real networker - looking to introduce others, never hesitant about being introduced to them. It doesn't matter whether you created the situation or are drawn into it - it's all the same to you. Let's not beat about the bush, you're a wild animal! And when you're really having your moment, you expect nothing less than total success. Grrrr...Giver/Taker: HarmoniserYou are a classic harmoniser, passive and compliant. You'd rather disappear from the planet rather than face a conflict head on! If you're happy with your lot this way, then you're probably surrounded by appreciative and equally generous-hearted people. But the reverse may be true, you may see yourself as a martyr, sacrificing your self-esteem and your standards. So be careful - are you making sacrifices for others out of genuine love? Or from a desperate need for approval? Either way, your flirting powers could suffer.Self Esteem: MainstreamerYour level of confidence is average. As a Mainstreamer, you're the sort of person who can take care of yourself in a variety of situations, though you are unlikely to be picked out as a superstar. Remember, often those who exude great confidence may in fact have little to back it up. Your emerging confidence is an asset that you should preserve. If you put your mind to it, you could paint a highly attractive self-portrait that will have everyone panting for you in no time.Emotional Awareness: ExpressionistYou have a fairly good capacity to 'read' people, paying attention to their feelings and emotions and their non-verbal behavior. As an Expressionist, you're able interpret facial expressions and identify the emotions people are displaying. You can also spot when people are showing emotions which disguise what they are actually feeling (although you might not get this right every time). You always spot the real warning signs such as anger, stress and depression - now capitalise on your skills to identify more subtle emotions. THESE BOOTS WERE MADE FOR WALKING!
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My Interests

How much will you pay me to make you scream like a wailing banshee?..lol
Buried at PhotoCasket.comWriting, Reading,Drawing, Music, Computers,Photography,Meditation,Massage Therapy, Tantra, Networking, People, Long Walks In The Middle of Nowhere, (and no I'm not full of shit...lol..) Stickball, Backyard football, Sitting on a backyard swing in the middle of summer Construction ( Im Bob the Builder..lol), Art,Tattoos, Amusement Parks, Atlantic City,Hoboken, NYC, Psychology, Snowmobiling, 4 wheeling, 3 wheeling, Motorcycles, Drag Racing ,Swing, Salsa, and Regular Dancing, Sushi, Scotch, (I looove scotch.. yum yum yum yum yum..lol),Mojitos, Camping, Hiking, Touring, Jogging,Working Out, Baseball, Vacationing, Visiting Italy, Comedy Clubs, Clubs, Bars, Diners, Fine Dining, Beaches, Board Games, Random Road Trips, Concerts, Karaoke, Coffee Huts & Lounges, Museums, Wine, Cigars & Hookahs, Sex, Relationships, Human Dynamics, People Watching, Catholicism, Spirituality, History, Some politics...
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I'd like to meet:

My purpose here is a to keep up with old friends and make some new ones who share the same interests as I hopefully... Just as long as you are friendly and have something positive to offer, whether it be a kind word, thought, act or gesture then you are more then welcome to drop me a line about anything :)Whom I am willing to meet are people who are curious colorful creative and personable,as well as bold, intellectual, uninhibited,intimate, fun, open minded, kind, giving, sincere, spontaneous, and full of adventure. The key to my life is being modest with an accenuated flare of passion. I don't take no for an answer, and ultimately get everything I want! For fun, I thought I would use this space as a spice for screening for people who knows what it means to completely "let go" and just live for today. Not tomorrow nor yesterday. People of excitement, sincerity, integrity, adventure, and depth. People who are optimistic, fun, laid back, full of life and vigor that want to experience everything they can out of it. If you can look at a sunset and cant help but smile, crack a joke, and appreciate life, then you probably know what I mean ;) I'm sure you ask "Who are you" Are you curious and brave enough to find out? ;)I love surrounding myself with people who enjoying thinking way, and well beyond the realm of earth ...Who are dreamers and are spiritual..Or even just intellectual...Just as long as you're cool, open minded non judgmental...and at least somewhat spiritual in nature. Ir really doesn't matter to me about what doctrine you are...I think it's just cool to believe in something that might possibly be higher then yourself..and this world... I enjoy people that have an " thinking out of the box" type of approach to themselves and their lives .. ..So if you are along these lines?.. Please free your mind, and feel free to tell me what you think...Or how you feel about whatever may interest you dude...This world can only grow if we share our thoughts and ourselves... We are always constantly learning and growing...The answers are really irrelevant...So don't bother looking for them first.. It is the curiosity and the questions that take you on the journey...I'm sure you have heard before that life is journey .. Not a destination..I'm a sucker for a good conversation with an unquenchable curiosity for life and for other people... and why they are who they are and why they do what they do... I usually enjoy sushi to start off with, to get to know someone a bit better, and appreciate company that is Fun Rowdy..Creative..Dreamy..Spontaneous..Intriguing..Adventurou s...Flirtatious...Open Minded..Appropriate..(Let me say that again.) APPROPRIATE!!!...Crazy...Cool...Calm and Collected...and most importantly .. AVAILABLE!...(And what do I mean by available?...Available like?...... "Yes... I can spare a few hours of my time to actually get to know another human being even if being just on a plutonic level"....Anyone who is wiling to make a conscious effort of sharing some of the legwork, and putting themselves out there for the world to see(Sorry Guys.. but I have to get this UNCOMFORTABLE DISCLAIMER out of the way ..) ;).....Just so all of you know...This is WHAT I am NOT willing to meet.... Close minded, ignorant, manipulative,limited, skittish, judgmental,insincere, incongruent,fake, sarcastic, (Being playful with sarcasm is fine just as long as it is not at someone else's expense of their self worth.)controlling,cynical,mentally confused, or any other debilitating, and limiting habits or beliefs...(Feel free to add your own to the list if you choose.)I expect nothing but the best of and in people and disregard any second class rude behavior! It may be cool in your world, or it may be the new trend to be a BITCH OR A BASTARD ...BUT NOT WITH ME, AND NOT IN MINE!...Being either of the two is not cool and it does not show how strong or how independent, or self sufficient you are.. It just makes you look like a jack ass and shows everyone what little self worth you have for yourself and other people...It takes MUCH MORE COURAGE TO GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE EVEN WHEN PEOPLE ARE BAD, THEN TO PUSH IT AWAY! Simply put... If it isn't sweet? If it isnt sincere? If it isnt curious, If it isnt helpful, If it isnt honest, THEN I DO NOT WANT IT! (Now that Ive got that out of the way (Wheeeew..Sheesh...What a relief...haha..)(I really dislike talking like that because it sounds so cynical....So I ask ya?... Are you a cultural warrior? Or a societal sheep?...Think you have what it takes to get aboard Bobby's party train?....Can you be the best that you can be ?. I'm looking for exceptional ...Not cookie cutter...Why try and blend in... When your born to stand out! :DIf anyone wants to leave just a friendly hi or what's up?.. I always return all of my messages.... However... Sometimes I get a little tied up and preoccupied so.... If I don't answer right away please don't take it personally.... I will get back to you eventually ;)~ "I can never be had but I will always be there"~ "What you turn away is what comes up behind"Thanks for Reading :D PEACE :)
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Music:

I would love to just sit here and list all my musical tastes, but If I was I would be here FOREVER!.. lol I LOVE AND RESPECT ALL KINDS of genres of music being somewhat of a fellow artist myself... All genres of music have their own meaning, message, rhythm and place. :)..This pretty much entails what my preferences are though...Rock,Country,Folk,Jazz,Dance,Trance,House,Pop,Oldie s,R&B,Rap, Blues,Indie,Punk,New Age,and ClassicalMy cousin ..

Movies:

Goonies, October Sky, Coyote Ugly, The Wraith, The Godfather Trilogy, Scarface, 29th Street, Goodfellas,Bronx Tale, Casino, Analyze This, About Last Night, Phantom Of The Opera, Shawshank Redemption, Road to Perdition, Pearl Harbor, Don Juan, Pirates of The Carribean, Some Kind of Wonderful,American Beauty, Pleasantville, The Outsiders, The Adventures Of Ford Fairlane, Afterburn, Butterfly Effect, De Je Vu, Breakfast Club,Ferris Buelers Day Off, Howard the Duck, Rocky series, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days,American Pie Trilogy, Porkies Trilogy, 40 yr old Virgin, Roadtrip, Big Daddy, Mr.Deets, Old School,Wedding Crashers Roadhouse, Meet the Fockers, Anger Management, Happy Gilmore,Talladega Nights, Anchor Man, Top Gun, Pure Country, Twister, Saw 2, 50 First Dates, Wedding Singer, Purple Rain, 8 men Out, Better Off Dead, Grease, Hollywood Nights, Gone in 60 Seconds, Crossing The Line, Fast and Furious,and (2), The Quiet Man, All the Nightmare on Elm St.'s, House On Haunted Hill, The Exorsist, The Exorcism OF Emily Rose, St Elmo's Fire, The Long Lost Trailor, Star Wars series, Under The Tuscan Sun, Back To School, Meet Wally Sparks, Anything with the Brat Pack In it.. More to follow.
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Television:

Everybody Loves Raymond,American Idol, King Of Queens, Sopranos, Nip Tuck,

Heroes:

Other then myself ?... lol.. Probably God!... Because He knows and understand all and is the founder of creation...Oh and This lil gal right here... I am not big on celebs but?... For years I have always felt an attraction to Kate Hudson and could never figure out why until now ;)Beautiful actress Kate Hudson confessed she's driven by sexual energy and blames her sensuality for making her successful. Kate also thanked her parents for teaching her the joy of sex.She revealed: "Sexual energy really does drive me. Not just sex itself, I'm talking about sexual energy. Whereas for someone like my husband, it's his mind - his top chakra - that drives him."My mother's the same as me. Her energy is very sensual, very sexual."Kate, the daughter of actress Goldie Hawn and musician Bill Hudson, revealed in an interview with Britain's Night and Day magazine: "My parents always said, 'Sex is the best thing in the world. It is so great, so much fun. When you start having it you're going to love it. But it's that much better when you love somebody, so just remember that'"Meanwhile, Kate Hudson joins Owen Wilson in the Universal Pictures comedy "You, Me and Dupree", directed by Joe and Anthony Russo. Shooting of the movie based on the script of Mike LeSieuris is scheduled to begin in August.Kate Hudson, born in April 19, 1979, is the daughter of actress Goldie Hawn and musician Bill Hudson, and sister of actor Oliver Hudson. In 2000 she was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress with her role as Penny Lane in Cameron Crowe's "Almost Famous".She married Black Crowes frontman Chris Robinson and gave birth to their son, Ryder Russell Robinson, on January 7, 2004.

My Blog

Lady Luck

They call you lady luckBut there is room for doubtAt times you have a very un-lady-like wayOf running outYour on this date with meThe pickins have been lushAnd yet before the evening is overYou might ...
Posted by I Get It Now on Wed, 06 Jun 2007 09:32:00 PST

No way in hell Im giving up on what I want out of this life

I thought that I would leave everyone with a reflection of my thoughts over the past few days for those who are curious and willing to listen.....Its has been from my honest and objective observation ...
Posted by I Get It Now on Mon, 23 Apr 2007 04:40:00 PST

A Homeless Guy Named Steve

I was on my way out to get a pack of cigarettes today when I saw a man off to the side of the woods. I've seen him there on a regular basis. I went to the quick check to get my smokes and I couldnt he...
Posted by I Get It Now on Mon, 04 Dec 2006 02:50:00 PST