2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess

About Me

What's really Good??! Thanx 4 stopping by my page. Hope you enjoy what u see. I love meeting new people so feel free to request me as a friend!! But pass if you're a groupie or just generally crazy (I got real life problems I DONT need one on myspace lol)

Think on this....
It's such a blessing that my eyes
Get to see the sun rise
I'm ready to begin
another chance to get further away from where I been
But Ill never forget
cause everything I went through I appreciate the shit
cause if I would have went and took the easy way
wouldn't be the strong nigga that I am today
every thing that I did--different things I was told
Just ended up being food for my soul
Cee-Lo Goodie Mob-"Soul Food"

The Preliminaries
My name is Valecia, but my co-workers call me Vee. I am 26 and a resident of Racine, Wisconsin (hey it is what it is). I live alone with zero ( yeah!!!) kids. I am single I'm 5'5 dark skinned curvy, full-figured, voluptuous and any other euphemisms you might use for a fat girl..lol. When it's all said and done. I'm me...simply Ms. Valecia
Let's get something str8.....
* I am a princess
*I will always BE a princess
*I am THE Princess
Enough said..please don't make me repeat myself

Enjoy these...Lately you wont catch me doing too much smiling
My addictions

*Chai Lattes*Marlboro Mild 100's (I Know it's such a gross habit)*my skin ( yeah I know that totally goes against the smoking thing, but its the only skin I got)*Baby Phat Jeans* MAC Cosmetics* overspending*myspace*Being a Bad Ass Bytch
or better yet I lOve...
*God*my family and friends*kisses*affection*thunderstorms on hot summer nights*shopping*time alone*My ipod shuffle*my Nokia 5300 Music Xpress Phone*graphic T's*cooking*a bottle of wine*martinis*looking fly*Make-up (isn't it the greatest)*a good conversation*fresh fruit*Hanes Her Way Tanks*Boy Shorts* a good man* Pomegranate juice* Good music* Family Guy* laughing with AJ*catching a kick ass sale.....oh and...
Only me and my girls can get it crackin in the AM
Ms. B, Jojo, and me
I hate...(or rather dislike..LOL)
*liars*fake people*drama*Wisconsin Electric*Bills*Catty Ass Women*Ignorance*Cherries*Soda (except Coke Zero)*too big women in too small clothes*cheating*niggas who wanna give you the run around* people with no class*people who confuse myspace with REAL life*not having a car right now*

Think on this.....
Don't ever fix your lips like collagen
To say something when you gonna end up apologin'
Kanye West-"Can't Tell Me Nothing"

The Randomness that is Valecia...

Reese's Peanut Butter cups curb all my negative emotions..lol
I have hella trust issues
I have a severe anger management problem
I was INDEPENDENT long before Webbie and Lil' Boosie got a record deal
I'm semi-high maintenance bka middle maintenance

I am a MAC addict and certified make-up junkie if admitting is the first step then fukk the other eleven I'm ok right where I'm at
I have a high alcohol tolerance....I have the ability to outdrink most grown ass men..and decent decision making skills still in tact

I am outspoken and honest to a fault don't ask if you can't handle it cause I live by the motto "it is what it is"

I am not narcissistic, petty, or egotistical in some far off region of my mind I would love to be a plus size model, but the reality is I'm not really all that pretty, I'm just photogenic

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I'm a uber-proud Leo I possess all those great (and not so great) Lioness characteristics
Valecia+Weave=TRUE LOVE
I just don't get it.....
what's up with this world today? People are so concerned about what the next man (or woman)is doing... to you I'm just an unknown woman on jmyspace with half-way cute pics and something fairly interesting to say, to people I know I'm a star and they are the freakin papparazzi..always in mine for no apparent reason. Are you looking for me to fall on my face so that you might have a reason to laugh? Or are you watching my every move so that you might emulate? Either way I beg of you...keep my name out of your mouth and GET A LIFE!!!

In the words of the Great Shawty Lo..Big Ups...to all my haters..lol
Flaws and All

I am a handful.An eclectic conglomerate. I am everything. Anything Something. And nothing. All at the same time. I am a lover, but the man that chooses to do so must be ready. I am a full time job. I am skeptical. Scared. and easily hurt. My attitudes come from nowhere (to you). But for me they come from an ache in my heart that's just hard to explain. I am sometimes volatile. Yet sometimes weak. I am a pleaser, but normally to the wrong people. I am a work in never-ending progress. I am a woman. I am Valecia. Flaws and all
Stupid ass Frequently asked Questions
Q1: Damn mama you lookin good where you from?/is you single?/what you like?
A1: Nigga is you serious...one day I changed my page and it took me damn near all my day off and you didn't even fukkin read it!!!!? Look this isn't kindergarten you can't just look at the pretty pictures and ignore the words. Read Nigga damn. Everything about me is right on this page.
Q1: So can I get your number?
A1: Nigga what the fukk for? Wait sorry for answering a question with a question lemme get to the point HELL to the Naww Bobby
Q1: Damn baby why you seem so mean (you'd be surprised how often I get this one)?
A1: I don't seem shyt I am just mean. Your girl probably been sleep for hours cause she gotta get up early to support you and her while you online internet pimping leave me the fukk alone and go give some to the woman thats supporting your lame ass
My favorite phrases (don't start jockin'..lol)
*Fukk that with a broom
*Hand that nigga a strap...cause he obviously jockin me*
*He just mad cause he wanna be my husband
*I clean up very nicely
*Now stick that in your juice box and suck it
*hey sugarlips/sweet cheeks/babycakes
*its obvious he/they/she/you need me on your/her/they/his team
Your results:
You are Wonder Woman Wonder Woman 95% Supergirl 85% Superman 75% The Flash 65% Hulk 60% Iron Man 60% Green Lantern 55% Robin 45% Catwoman 45% Spider-Man 40% Batman 40% You are a beautiful princess
with great strength of character.
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My Interests

hmmm my spiritual growth, my finances, hair make-up, music, shopping, photography, the ones I love, cars, basketball, traveling, cooking, strength training, reading....and a host of others

I'd like to meet:

I don't really know...hmmm good question I think I'm willing to meet anyone
Oh I'd love to meet someone who think that they can make me top the love I have for the current people in my life

Thank God for good friends.....
Artisa I have been friends with you for what seems like forever and I thank God everyday for you..when I was in Mississippi you checked on me periodically to make sure I hadn't lost it while I was just trying to get through the semesters and get home. You helped me climb up all the valleys that over dramatic Valecia would have made a fuss about on her own. Thank you for making me smile in the midst of my tears and finding humor in the worst of situations

A really good surveyÂ¢Â¾ love/friends/life
what do you look like?: what??? wtf?? I look like a dime...how about that?!
are you single or taken?: single!!
describe your life in 5 words:: crazy smart fly sexy fabulous
Have you ever been in love?: yes
why did you break up with the last guy you went out with?: he was a psycho cheater
Do you think of yourself as attractive?: sometimes....actually rarely
Do a lot of people like you?: not really and thats just fine
What grades do you get school?: did I get in school??? I'm 26 babe
name off all your close friends:: they know who they are...top spot goes to artisa...sorry all others
Are you quiet & shy or loud & outgoing?: both actually
How old are you?: 26
Where do you live?: Racine, WI
Do [mentally] you beat yourself up over small things?: yes
Are you 2-faced?: no I keep it real...at all costs
name 10 things you can't live without[people dont count]:: my ipod, my pc, my phone, money, a job, food, makeup, shoes, jeans, and beaters
Do you go out with a lot of people?: nope
How often are you at home?: almost all the time
What do you like to do on weekends?: work
What is your clothing style?: comfy yet form fitting and hot
Do people judge you a lot?: Im sure
Do you like your life?: its ok could be worse but could be better
What is one thing you want to do before you die?: everything
Do you want to get married?: sure do
Have kids?: none yet would love to have maybe 2
Do you belive in abortion?: ummm no comment
Do you go to church?: yes
Do you get in fights over things that dont really matter?: sure do
name 5 things you are wearing right now:: a beater, a scarf, sweat pants, glasses, and panties..lol
Name 3 things you did today?: grocery shopped, talked on the phone, and filled out this survey
Do you flirt with the opposite sex too much?: nope just enough..lol
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Music:

I love a lil bit of everything...well except Metal....my music portfolio is sooo random Wait let's clear something up I LOVE ROBIN THICKE WITH A PASSION!!! that's all let's continue...lol

Movies:

I have dvds overflowing in my apartment and guess what I havent watched half of them...lol oh well:)I loved American Gangster, The Black Dahlia, Waiting, Gothika, Why Did I Get Married, and a few others

Television:

I LOVE DEF POETRY JAM (man I miss cable) this was my fave performance

Freestyle (on Home and Garden Television),

Sex and The City, The Biggest Loser, Grey's Anatomy, The Simpsons, King of The Hill, American Dad, and Law and Order:SVU

Books:

Also I loved Beautylicious:The Black Girls' Guide to The Fabulous Life, A Day Late and a Dollar Short by Terry McMillian and Queen by Alex Haley

Heroes:

Jesus, my grandma, Hattie L. Barbee who exemplified being a lady and grandpa (maternal) also my little cousin has a heart of gold she motivates me to be a better woman I love her wholeheartedly

also my best friend artisa has been there for me through my hardest times she is the kindest, giving, real and level headed women I know I love her to death
but the person who I look up to above all is Vernedia McLain

my mother means the world to me, she gives me strength and the desire to carry on when things get hard I love her with all my heart

My Blog

OM Geez!

Forgive me if I haven't been on my P's and Q's lately this past weekend wasn't a great one for me. I'm down right tired and ran down and literally filled up to my eyebrows with Patron and MGD's (yeah ...
Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 06:53:00 PST

If I havent learned anything but this

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Fri, 04 Apr 2008 11:08:00 PST

what do u do??????

This is less of a blog and more of a question...all answers will be responded to and taken into consideration. Life is full of change I am VERY aware of that. I can accept it and embrace it fully, but...
Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Tue, 18 Mar 2008 02:13:00 PST

in memory............

I don’t know how many times I can do this since without getting all froggy, teary, and shaky. I did it for father’s day last year, but I’ll give it a whirl a few more times or a...
Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 02:09:00 PST

Check out this video: Chris Brown And Jordin Sparks- No Air

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Thu, 06 Mar 2008 02:15:00 PST

embracing change

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 12:24:00 PST

my name is Valecia..and I hate Valentines day

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Wed, 06 Feb 2008 08:06:00 PST

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I'VE BEEN TAGGED...YOU'VE BEEN TAGGED TOO!!!Here is how you play. Once you have been tagged you have to write a blog with 10 random things about youself; facts, goals, habits, and at the end, choose 1...
Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:42:00 PST

R.I.P Heather I will never forget you

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 01:42:00 PST

Retrospect 2007

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Posted by 2008: Year of the dark chocolate princess on Tue, 01 Jan 2008 06:20:00 PST