I wanna meet someone who really know's what love is! Not someone who is just out for themselves! If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, NOTHING can make him stay. I'M NOT making excuses for a man and his behavior. I'M NOT trying to change myself for a relationship that's not meant to be. I'M NOT just gonna settle! Here is some advice, Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...He is a man, nothing more nothing less!Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW (YES I SAID ALLOW) him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending.... COMPROMISE IS A TWO WAY STREET !!!!!