Im not looking for a relationship (because everyone tells me, when you don't look for it, is when you will find it?) But what I do look in a man are the little things that matter. Nice smile (I love to laugh) not too fat, kindness and inner beauty. Someone to hang out with, and spend time with. Basically looking for a friend first. (You have to be friends before you can be anything else).Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequeted. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as a children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.