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Splendence

I am me, that is all I can be!

About Me


~GREETINGS~

I am a lesbian of feminine persuasion, in search of friends along my journey's path! I want a loving relationship which can grow over a lifetime.
I am also an intelligent woman who is fun, creative, thoughtful, supportive, passionate, friendly, and honest! I tend to be very affectionate and loving. Furthermore, I am an openly gay woman. Therefore, if you are 'in the closet' (it's scary in there), please do not approach me. I enjoy going to church, concerts, plays, movies, dancing, and get togethers with family & friends.

Your Birthdate: August 24
You understand people well and are a natural born therapist.
A peacemaker, people always seem to get along when you are around.
You tend to be a father or mother figure to friends, even to those older than you.
You enjoy your role, and you find that you are close to many people.
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  • Your strength: Your devotion
  • Your weakness: Reliance on others for happiness
  • Your power color: Lilac
  • Your power symbol: Heart
  • Your power month: June
  • What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

    My Interests


    "Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect, It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections"

    God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but HE did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears & light for the way.

    Live in peace and peace will live in you!


    I'd like to meet:

    Interesting and Outgoing womyn who are confident and secure in themselves! Always looking for new lesbian friends and associates for theater, concerts, galleries, chit-chat, etc! in the Inland Empire, the OC, LA, SD, and as far as Palm Springs!

    You scored as Noah. You scored as a NOAH!!!!You are a hopeless romantic with a big heart. You are very creative,cute,and caring. You are true and honest with your friends. You are upfront and know who you are. Among other things you are genuine and funny.

    Noah


    78%

    Alex


    75%

    Chance


    70%

    Ricky


    65%
    Which Noah's Arc character are you? (From the hit TV show on LOGO Noah's Arc)
    created with QuizFarm.com

    Music:


    Smooth R&B, Neosoul, Gospel, & Jazz



    Movies:

    The Color Purple
    How Stella Got Her Groove Back
    Better Than Chocolate

    Television:

    Sci-Fi
    Romance
    Suspense
    Drama
    Comedy Movies/Series

    Books:

    Peace for a Woman's Soul
    Grace for a Woman's Soul

    Heroes:


    MORE INFO ABOUT ME:


    Name Splen
    Birthday in August
    Birthplace Chicago
    Current Location Southern California
    Eye Color Dark Brown
    Hair Color Black
    Height 5'6"
    Right or Left Handed Right
    Pepsi or Coke Coke
    Do you Smoke No
    Do regularly use Profanity No
    Do you Shower Daily Yes
    Have you Been in Love Yes
    Are are a college graduate Yes
    Do you want to get Married Yes
    Do you believe in yourself Most Definitely
    Do you get Motion Sickness Yes
    Are you OUT to your Family Yes
    Do you like Thunderstorms Yes
    Do you attend Church regularly Yes

    In a Womyn...


    Short or Long Hair Either
    Height Taller than Me!
    Weight 130-230lbs
    Things in my Past I Regret None, it's a learning process!
    Your Life Path Number is 5

    Your purpose in life is to life freely and collect experiences.
    You love life - new adventures, new people, new ideas.
    You are very curious, and you crave novelty in all forms.
    You tend to make friends easily, and you enjoy the company of all types of people.
    In love, you are fun and even a bit intoxicating.
    You are impulsive and spontaneous - which sometimes leads you to do things you regret.
    Sometimes you can be overindulgent with food, sex, or drugs.
    You have many talents, so many that you are often scattered and unfocused.

    Your Career Type: Social
    You are helpful, friendly, and trustworthy.
    Your talents lie in teaching, nursing, giving information, and solving social problems.
    You would make an excellent:
    Counselor - Dental Hygienist - Librarian
    Nurse - Parole Officer - Personal Trainer
    Physical Therapist - Social Worker - Teacher
    The worst career options for your are realistic careers, like truck driver or farmer.

    QUOTES
    "I think GOD leaves me alone to let me find my own strength because no one else can give it to me. Sometimes it is very lonely. But I know the lonely times teach me the most. I must let go in order to let anything in...."
    .....Sabrina Ward Harrison
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    "Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself..."
    .....Harvey Fierstein
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    To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly .....Henri Bergson
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    "I know in my heart the dream will be realized. I choose to believe. And choosing is a powerful thing. It's available to you at every moment. You can choose understanding over anger, believing over nonbelieving, action over inaction. It gives meaning to every choice we make. What we need to do is learn to respect and embrace our differences until our differences don’t make a difference in how we are treated." .....Yolanda King ( 1955 - 2007 )

    Life can be so wonderful
    Yet, at times we see life through stained glass
    It blocks our energy, it hinders our joy, and misleads our path
    We may imprison ourselves within it unaware of our own abyss which we have generated
    Blurred by messages or circumstances that we allow to persecute us, leading to unrest and unjust
    We have surrendered to this destiny knowing not which way to turn
    We look for answers in others, who are stained within this dredged as well
    Wondering how in the world can they help us or one another when their life is also misspelled
    Yes, they as well are trapped within this looking glass with no light piercing through
    Trapped within its walls and wondering how things can be so misconstrued
    Outward forces looking in trying to reach us through altered forms of communication
    They take our hands to guide us away from such a hideous place and we receive them without reservation
    Affirmed in righteousness and belief that all can be saved
    They empower our hearts and minds that all is not lost or has been mislaid
    We rest for but a second before leaving this place looking around not back from what caused us to covet this space
    Grabbing hold we lounge fearlessly outward
    Reaching and stretching for that knowledge that has moved us forward
    Out of the madness and the rage we spring without difficulty
    Not a doubt in our minds we have been illuminated and found clarity
    We have discharged the blur and found fullness in radiance and shine
    Bringing our innersoles to surface and with an Open Mind
    We now see Crystal Clear befitting in beauty
    With energy to expand and reach beyond continuity
    We strive for all that we can take and muster up beyond any circumstances
    We see beyond all faults that anything and anyone in life is worth saving
    Bestowed in virtue and belief to not hinder or hold but allow the fountain to flow through
    And with never-ending glow we are all worth conveying this message of deliverance
    Leading us to a life filled with such richness in Continuance
    We keep the chain attached for others to escape from that uncalled, forgotten, and forsaken place
    Copyright © Splendence 1999 - 2007. All Rights Reserved.

    My Blog

    ~Taking time out for me~

    ~Taking Time Out For Me~   She said, 'do you know yourself'.    I said, 'of course I do'!   She said, 'do you truly know you'.   Again, I said, 'yes I do'!   She said, '...
    Posted by Splendence on Fri, 04 Jan 2008 08:33:00 PST

    ~Created~


    Posted by Splendence on Tue, 18 Dec 2007 01:05:00 PST

    ~My Orchid~

    ~MY ORCHID~ I see her flowing so effervescently through my mind She's a rare beauty to behold I delicately fillet my thoughts into visions and planes of her The wealth of my nation flows from h...
    Posted by Splendence on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 12:02:00 PST

    ~Eruption~

    ~ERUPTION~ We blend our bodies in motionPassion ignites our love into lustful movements,We tear at one anothers soulsCombustion releases as the intenseness of pleasure increasesSteam ciphers from ou...
    Posted by Splendence on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 09:50:00 PST

    ~Will U Let Me~

    ~WILL U LET ME~ Will U let me in thru your doorWill U let down the walls that surround youWill U relax and just receive meTrust me, I won`t harm UWill U let me caress the portal that guards your val...
    Posted by Splendence on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 09:47:00 PST

    ~Finding Me~

    ~FINDING ME~   I was lost amidst my hearts glowContent in its reverenceComfortable in its closenessInfatuated in its love, lust, hope, and pleasureBlind in its beautyHopelessly engulfed, so I t...
    Posted by Splendence on Mon, 03 Dec 2007 09:43:00 PST

    ~Bathe Me~

    ~BATHE ME~   Bathe me in the soul of your eyes, shine into me and yet remain within my sight    Bathe me with your sweet fragrance that accentuate my nares, it captivates your e...
    Posted by Splendence on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 09:12:00 PST

    ~Brown-Skinned Woman~

    ~BROWN-SKINNED WOMAN~   Brown shades aglow of many colors and tonesReminiscence of softness with a hint cocoa and bronze            Opulent co...
    Posted by Splendence on Mon, 26 Mar 2007 04:03:00 PST

    ~LEZ BE N LUV~

    ~LEZ BE N LUV~ Lez be in luv with a womanThe Beauty of her superbly captured within the mind by canvas and with authenticityThe Softness of her lips fully arousing the senses with each word that se...
    Posted by Splendence on Wed, 04 Oct 2006 12:39:00 PST