My perfect match would be someone who wants a real relationship with the possibility of a home and a family. First thing I know is that lust can be instantanious, but love is time worn and worth the wait!!! He should be confident and secure with himself. I'm looking for someone who wants to make me happy because I make him happy. Someone who has good morals, is ambititious, educated, healthy, and family-oriented. I want a man with more to offer, I want him to give himself to me fully!! Loyalty, honestly and a positive attitude are what I look for in a relationship. I believe that gay guys can love and have families too. I'm just looking for someone with a good heart who knows who he is .. who has dreams and goals that are parellel with mine. Someone who wants to make me laugh and love me for my good yet bad qualties. I am searching to make friends and to meet my soulmate!! I know it sounds to easy but I know he is out there... this I know. "SEX WITH A MAN IS GOOD. BUT SEX WITH MAN YOU LOVE IS BEYOND COMPARISON!"