Hey guys...It's me Andrea, I am a single parent of 4 children who are very concerned for my 4 nieces & 1 nephew (who just happen to be my cousin's, Jacob Ramos, kids). I don't think that keeping children away from their father is really the way to go. I can understand if he's an abusive spouse & parent...but not if he's a liar or if you suspect him of having an affair. If that's the case, get a damn divorce!!! Don't give yourself a bruise, put a TRO on him & take the kids away from him. Any woman that would do that is not thinking about the children. They're thinking about no one else but themselves. And any idiot who decides to help these women get what they want (which there usually is an idiot or two out there) should back up & get all the information first before drawing their own conclusions. If it's not working out, don't stay in the marriage & say you're doing it for the children--because you're not. If you stay married you're not only making hard on yourselves, you're making it hard for the children as well. Those children love both their parents, with or without all their faults. You shouldn't put the children through this because you're only hurting them in the process. Another thing is if there is this big custody battle & the state gets involved it may go either way. The state could take your children away from you & split them all up into foster homes. Now do you really want that to happen? I don't think so. And if that's a chance your willing to take then it just goes to show that you've never put your kids first. EVERYTHING DOESN'T HAVE TO BE ABOUT YOU!!!!! YOU ALL KNOW WHO YOU ARE!
