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About Me



I'm fun to be around, I like to make people laugh, I'm forgiving, I love to try new things,and I guess I'm a little crazy!! Or at least that's what my friends tell me :). I'm a pretty good friend haven't had any complaints lately(haha). But I can get pretty mean! So you DON'T want to be my enemy!!! I have a daughter named Destiny ( the BEST GIRL in the WORLD) , and a son named Zander (of course the BEST BOY). I love BOTH MY KIDS TO DEATH!! I also have two amazin step-daughters Faith and Hope!!! I try and go to church as much as possible, because without God i would have nothing . Things are pretty hard right now, but I'm not going to let no one and nothing hold me down anymore!!! I'm going to be happy! I work at Bealls, and I love it! I love my job!! My managers are great! And so are the people I work with and that's hard to come by. :) Well some things have changed... Toby's being dumb but I know soon enough God will knock some sense into that boy! haha...and the lazy Vanessa is GONE! I work out now, Yup Ms. Lazy works out now AND I have a JOB!!! :) YUP YUP takin care of my OWN!! I'm stronger now.. Physically and Emotionally!!!
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My Interests

Here's a little MORE about me....

My name means "butterfly" so I love butterflies!!!
♥I L♥VE Dr. Pepper,Big Red,and Root Beer
♥I'm easily amused :)
♥It's the little things that make me happy, and the little things that count!
♥I always say EXciting!
♥I hate people that lie & hate sleepin alone
♥I don't like it when people steal!
♥I ALWAYS pay for my donuts at the store EVEN if I finished it before I get to the register
♥I absolutely L♥VE being In L♥VE
♥My friends mean the world to me, but family always comes first :)
♥My kids make me HAPPY :)
♥My favorite color is, well... obviously,PINK
♥I love all kinds of music and I love to dance!
♥I always take time to pray...without God I would have nothing and i would be nothing!
♥I'm a picky eater, but i do love PIZZA & anything my JessicaDad cooks!
♥I L♥VE Starbucks & Sonic
♥I'm such a dreamer...and such a girl
♥I'm a pretty outgoing & happy person
♥I forgive but I don't forget
♥I L♥VE James Avery!
♥I believe in falling in love...♥
♥I love meeting people.
♥I love getting my hair done!

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March
Attractive personality.sexy. Affectionate.Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented.Loves special things. Moody.

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I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet NEW FRIENDS & GET TO KNOWIN OLD FRIENDS AGAIN BUT I'M NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING MORE THEN FRIENDS! I'VE ALREADY MET MY SOUL MATE!

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Music:

Right now I've been listening to alot of country. But I like R&B, Hip Hop, Rap, and anything i can dance to. My favorite singers and groups: Janet, PussyCat Dolls, TI, Ne-Yo, Black Eyed Peas, Ashanti, Pit Bull, Daddy Yankee, I don't know I guess I like a little bit of everyone,....BUT the best rapper EVER IS STILL AND WILL ALWAYS BE 2 PAC!!

Movies:



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I love any movie with Will Ferrel in it...I think he's funny as hell!! I love the "Note Book" I like Nepoleon Dynamite , Saw 2, Just Friends,Talladega Nights,Dirty Dancing, Lady and THe Tramp, Pretty Women I can't think of anymore right off the top of my head....but i guess i like scary movies and love movies!

Television:

Well now that the season for "The L Word" is over I started watching "Big Love" and when the season starts for "Weeds" that's what I'll be watching. I also Love to watch CSI, Law & Order (my favorite is SVU), Miami Ink, Nip/Tuck

Books:

The Bible, The Diary Of Anne Frank, and whatever book destiny want's me to read to her before bed...and she's into Dr. Seuss..

Heroes:



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I have alot of hero's in my life! First Is God he's so good to me! Right now I'm going through so much and I know it's Him that's helping me pull through this and it's Him that's going to make this all better! But the one's that come to mind right now are My MomMari, My Mom, and my Grandma. Those women touch my life and my heart. Toby is also one my hero's he's inspired me to never give up, and believe that anything is possible, and he's also showed me to love and he's given me my babies

My Blog

LIFE...got this one from Marsha

Someone once told me...As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder...
Posted by }i{..NeSs..}i{ on Mon, 13 Nov 2006 09:51:00 PST

Every Girl Should Read To Prepare !! And Guys To Be Aware

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition or spirit to save you from hearta...
Posted by }i{..NeSs..}i{ on Wed, 09 Aug 2006 01:41:00 PST

New Baby Boy In My Life

It's A Boy!!! Zander Aiden James Canales Born: Feb. 8, 2006 6lbs. 1oz. 19inches   Ok he's going to be 2 months here pretty soon. Time is flying by so fast! I'm so happy and so in love with him! H...
Posted by }i{..NeSs..}i{ on Wed, 05 Apr 2006 12:49:00 PST