Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be; your roommate, neighbor, teacher, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete strange who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. Sometimes things happen to you and at the time they may seem horrible, painful or unfair, but in reflecting you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power, or heart.Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illness or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who effect your life and the successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learned from … Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones to learn from.If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to. If someone loves you, Love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never see or felt without them.Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talk to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in Love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. You can make your life anything you wish.