-First off.. A girl must impress me.. This goes beyond the way a girl looks or dresses.. She must be cute, smart, and have a sense of humor.. The bag of chips is optional..
-Self-Respect and control.
-Short.. Yes.. You must be shorter then me.. I'm at an average height so that shouldn't be a problem.. But sometimes the shorter the better.. But physical looks is maybe 1/3rd of the battle.. And in terms of looks I'm not looking for a super model..
-Most of all I like confident females.. Not cocky.. Bitchy or otherwise stuck up and stubborn.. Don't give me elitist crap..
-Blue eyes, green, and other interesting or cool colors are pluses.. But I've seen amazing hazel and brown too..
-I prefer those with short hair.. The preference comes to the dislike of hair in my mouth when I lean on a girls shoulder or go to kiss her or something of the sort..
-Women who are either tanned or have that milky white radiance to them.. Both are attractive in my opinion..
-No drugs.. I cant stand synthetic feelings created by chemicals or otherwise intoxicating substances..
-As for Alcohol and Smoking: Alcohol is okay but that's dependent on the usage.. Smoking.. I don't like the taste of tobacco in someones mouth.. Nor do I like the smell of it on someones clothing.. But I've known very few who smoke for stress purposes only once a month or so... That seems okay to me.
-I really have no preference for what a girl wears.. As long as its not too classy or high maintenance.. I love accessorie style clothing items.. Such as necklaces, rings, wrist bands, bracelets, and earrings.. Which brings me to another point..
-Piercings.. I'm actually fine with most piercings.. And sometimes prefer them.. Such as lip, ear, tongue, and eyebrow.. Other parts of the body such as stomach or surface piercings are also pluses in my book.. As long as they're not too extreme.. And I don't really like nose piercings.. They remind me too much of bulls..
-Athleticism or Women in shape get extra pluses for that attractive factor.. I keep in shape as much as I can.. So I can't do the lazy types.. If you're thin and healthy.. That's fine in my book.. I just have a thing for nice backs.. stomach.. And thin necks.. *shrug*
-I like to cuddle.. You should be aware.. And not afraid of affection in public..
-YOU MUST share some music interests with me.. The list on the left are all pluses for how many of those bands you like.. 1 in particular is Rammstein because most women don't like Rammstein for some reason.. I just think they've heard merely one song and get a biased opinion based on that..
-YOU MUST like animals.. Dogs or cats.. Even if you're allergic I won't stand intolerance to my pets.. Though my cats live with my Mom so that's not really a problem.. I just don't want to hear how a such and such animal is stupid because of your personal issues..
-You must MUST have a sense of humor..
-Crazy hair is always a plus.. I like the eccentric..
-A girl in boots is a plus also.. I did say eccentric..
-Contrary to belief I am not a devil worshiper of sorts.. Nor a Wiccan.. I'm not religious.. I don't affiliate myself with any religion and I would prefer if you didn't push yours upon me..
-Also I'm a mix of subcultures.. I've gone through various stages and will settle in one I feel comfortable with.. So I shouldn't be classified as only liking women within a specific subculture.. I've dated Punks.. Hippies.. Models.. Goths.. and J-Rockers..
-You must have a good head on your shoulders.. Bright.. Quick.. And being well read is a plus..
-I'm very lenient honestly too lenient in most cases.. I get screwed over often.. So my ego is bruised.. I'd appreciate it if initially in a relationship you listened to me when I set boundaries because I just have some temporary trust issues.. I promise as soon as I see your compliance I will let you roam a bit more.. Because you must understand even male friends can have alternative motives..
-I love foreign languages.. In fact.. I love being taught new things.. This is why sporting more then one language is impressive.. Because you've got all kinds of things to teach me.. =]
-I know I may seem harsh.. mean.. hard.. or in most cases apathetic and hate filled... I've just had a hard time.. I really don't push these things onto others.. But I will vent openly.. Please listen.. And give me a hug.. Sometimes comments are welcome.. And I really just have a tough shell.. Underneath its all fluffy and filled with puppies and kittens and twinkies and other frilly things.. Just mind the demons and night creatures..
-Art in all forms is fascinating.. I say this a lot because I love art... Artists impress me.. And the art forms can be dance, martial arts, drawing, painting, singing, musicians or other impressive talents..
-I hate it when I'm told your afraid of getting old so you want to die young.. Those kind of remarks show a lack of caring.. They show a failed sense of purpose.. I'm not here to take on the burdens of your life.. Please don't press upon me your pains.. I can only handle so much of my life.. I really would like to coexist with knowing you're there and enjoy it when I have the capacity to do things for you.. Because I know I'm loyal and give a damn about how you feel.. But I can't juggle two lives at once.. And I can't deal with obscene remarks in regards to the inevitable.. I've been in the realm of self-mutilation.. You can't hope to find me able to fix your past.. I will listen and can comment if you wish.. But I can't be living your life for you and you must also be able to care for yourself.. I'm not perfect.. How can I be?.. So don't expect me to be everything you ever wanted because I can tell you now.. That doesn't exist.. I'm not a knight in shining armor riding a white stallion who will carry you off into the sunset because that doesn't exist.. (if so.. he's probably a con-man).. You must look within yourself for happiness.. Much like I will myself.. Then can we be happy together with companionship..
-I prefer introverted people over extroverted.. I have a small social group of friends.. And often times dislike large social gatherings.. However, I am attempting to be more of a extrovert.. Because I do enjoy meeting new people who become a part of my small group of friends..However, too much extraversion seems like a call for attention.
-Must play video games! =D
The Band of Brothers
Kyle (My Real Brother)
Shantia
Dustin
Bryan
Miles
Scott
Kurt
Jack