Dap

Love to have fun be it at a club, chilling at the crib or whatever I can get into. Very career oriented and professional....during the day that is. I am here to meet friends and network. Not really looking for a boyfriend at this time just some good male company from time to time.I have a tender heart, but I know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. I am empathetic and compassionate, but I also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able.Many people, perhaps the majority, will come to appreciate my balance as a compassionate person. The more they get to know me, the more they will admire my thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways I take good care of myself. Those whom I help will appreciate the way I leave them with their dignity by expecting them to collaborate in their own rescue. Those who are more tender-hearted will find in me a balance they lack; when they've run out of energy because they fail to take good care of themselves, I will still have enough compassion left to lift others out of trouble.I can, if I must, think in conventional ways. But left on my own, I'll usually opt for the eccentric or avant-garde; in fact I am usually bored with what everyone else is comfortable with. I learn from reading, talking, watching people and simply sitting in the soft chair of my mind and wondering how people would learn how to count if they could only use uneven numbers. I am out in front of conventional ideas, bravely originally defining true and false, right and wrong, the good, the bad and the ugly.%D%AI drive through life faster than the speed limit, and when I hit speed bumps, and I hit a lot of them with my mind distracted from the straight line ahead my wheels leave the ground.People who like life at a safer speed, I move too fast and lose touch too often with the solid ground they prefer, hence their discomfort with me. As odd as I might find this, many people feel safe in the shelter of the world they already know. They like the familiar. They breathe easily and sleep deeply knowing with more certainty how the world works. So although they might enjoy my company and be curious about my latest notion of how to count backwards by threes, they can only take me in small doses. And they wish I'd quit trying to push the boundaries of their personal and social cosmos.Even those whom I make uncomfortable know, as just about everyone does, that I am not a flake. I think well, and even my wildest fancies have their roots in the deep soil of sound ideas and tested beliefs. So even if some people don't want to drive at high speed with me, they will respect me for my courage as an innovative and unconventional thinker. I lend color and imagination to what would otherwise be the straight black and white lines of their work world and social environments.I greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open with my emotions.Sure there are times when my feelings come very close to the surface, and life becomes more complicated. At these times I may grow self-conscious, or feel a bit anxious. But all in all, I much prefer being open with my emotions, breathing in all that life offers, than shutting down any part of my emotional experience. Granted, there may be times when these emotions are hard but I realize that is part of life. And more often than not I feel enriched by my emotions, by my ability to be open to all that life brings me. I know that even when I have those times that get me down, there will be even more times when I see life in ways that others just can't.Undoubtedly I have met some people who get uncomfortable being around me because my feelings are so close to the surface. They may keep a bit of distance, especially around any subject that might trigger an emotional topic they are uncomfortable with. Over time, they might even stay away from me more and more. I will find I have decisions to make; do I temper my style for their comfort or do I hope they will find ways to become more comfortable with emotional expressions?Though not happening often, when plans change, I am okay with it. In fact, sometimes I change the plan.I have something of a free spirit in me, and when this spirit moves me, off I go, following the impulse of the moment. I am rightly proud of my work ethic, but I also enjoy my willingness to lay the tools down, crank up the music and play like a child.action='http://www.kwiz.biz/simplesurveys/do-survey.ph p' method='post' target='_new'>
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Daphne Beasley
Birthday: 5/12/1982
Birthplace: Atlanta
Current Location: Sandy Springs, GA
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Height: 5'2
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right
Your Heritage: Black
The Shoes You Wore Today: BCBG Peek a Boo Toe Heels
Your Weakness: Good Dick
Your Fears: Losing a loved one
Your Perfect Pizza: Pepperoni and Broccoli
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Pay off some bills
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up: Damn I gotta go to work
Your Best Physical Feature: Shape
Your Bedtime: Whenever
Your Most Missed Memory: As a child going places with my mother
Pepsi or Coke: Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King: McD
Single or Group Dates: Group
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Nestea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Cho
Cappuccino or Coffee: neither
Do you Smoke: Yes Sir
Do you Swear: Unfortunately
Do you Sing: I wish
Do you Shower Daily: Yes
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: Been there done that
Do you want to get Married: Ask me later
Do you belive in yourself: Hell yes
Do you get Motion Sickness: Nope
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes
Are you a Health Freak: Nope
Do you get along with your Parents: Very Well- They are the center of my world
Do you like Thunderstorms: Yes if i am not in it
Do you play an Instrument: I did a long time ago- the skill works today even
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Yes
In the past month have you Smoked: Yes
In the past month have you been on Drugs: 1,2,3,4, Fif
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes sort of
In the past month have you gone to a Mall: Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: No hate them
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: No hated it
In the past month have you been on Stage: Shhh......
In the past month have you been Dumped: What is "dumped" perse
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: Nall
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No I dont steal
Ever been Drunk: Yes
Ever been called a Tease: Yes a while ago actually lol.
Ever been Beaten up: Yes. Who hasn't???? But I have whipped some ass too. Thats life
Ever Shoplifted: Yes and got caught
How do you want to Die: Sleep and old
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Alive
What country would you most like to Visit: England
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Any
Favourite Hair Color: Any
Short or Long Hair: Short I hate long hair on a guy.
Height: any
Weight: under 240 depending on the build
Best Clothing Style: Dressing Mature (i.e your age)
Number of Drugs I have taken: 1
Number of CDs I own: thousands
Number of Piercings: 1
Number of Tattoos: 0
Number of things in my Past I Regret: 3234265246
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