By: GOIJust because a woman is writing about this topic, it doesn't mean it will be about flowers and little pink hearts floating in the air like happy bubbles. Actually, this is going to confuse most women, and some men too because I'm no Dr. Ruth and I don't have any sugar to coat your ugly misconceptions of Love with.Let me start by telling you that I didn't incarnate in this beautiful planet to learn about this emotion. It came to me at an early age and discovered that our misconceptions about love is holding back our spiritual growth. So I've decided to share my insights with you, to spare you the bullshit. :)First, let's get this out of the way: Love is not marriage. Love is not sex. Love is not a relationship. Love is unattached from emotion. Love is pure and simple.Take a look at DaVinci's Vitruvian man. The blue circle that you see is not a flat circle, but a sphere which extends metaphysically into the fouth dimension**. This sphere is actually a round, spherical tornado with a vortex in the center, which is our physical manifestation in the third dimensional realm*. Right smack in the middle of this sphere is the strongest part of the tornado. This area is where the Ego lives. The Ego is the voice that tells you to eat when you're hungry, to get up when you've fallen, to reproduce your offspring, basically to survive in this planet, hence the term "gut instinct." It is all good and well, but it also has its cons. This is the thing that is keeping us grounded, but it is also the thing which keeps our souls bound to our physical body. (more on this later...)*third dimension = physical reality on Earth**fourth dimension=realm that we can't see existing at a higher vibrational frequencySo over thousands of years, we've been led to believe that sex is bad. Now I did say that love is not sex, but let me get to my point here... Sex, this animalistic ritual, had been an important "key" to most occult/ancient rituals. Almost as if, the acts generates a form of powerful energy, still immeasurable to man. But let's assume that orgasms actually raise our own personal vibrations and perhaps, the entire universe... The "Gods" came down and loved having sex with the daughters of man so much that they built temples just for this activity.Now what does this have to do with the Ego? Well, the Ego is also responsible for making you think that Love is this emotion that we all must experience in a form of a relationship, ideally marriage. It also amplifies the urges to have meaningless sex for fun, for money, for other stupid reasons... We've forgotten that sex is sacred (not the Bible definition), but that we have forgotten the kind of power that we can harness from it. When a man and woman merge, they become one, polarities attract, and the exchanging of pure energies begin. The power can only be harnessed when there is no Ego involved, which means, the Body, the Mind, and the Spirit (Heart) must be pure for this magic to take place. The Body must surrender itself fully, the Mind must want it exclusively, and the Spirit must need it in order for polarities to connect, two spherical tornadoes merging into one bigger, more powerful one. The Kundalini energy passes through One Body and vibrations are raised.The merkaba of both bodies having sex merge, and turn, as long as there is no Ego involved. From Drunvalo's explaination, "We have a physical body, a mental body, and an emotional body and they all have star tetrahedral shapes. These are three identical friends superimposed over each other, the only difference among them being that the physical body alone is locked--it does not rotate...It is the linking together of the mind, heart, and physical body in a specific geometrical ratio and at the critical sped that produces the merkaba."When you start to separate the Ego from the soul, usually a process which involves seeing illusions for what they truly are, your perspective will start to change. Material things will no longer be important, physical things will not matter, and Love as society knows it, will be superficial. When the Ego is detached from the soul, we start to recognize that we are souls merely having a human experience, and so transcending will occur into higher realms.To deny sex with others simply because it's not "moral", is to deny our own personal, spiritual growth. And I don't mean that we should be going around slutting it up or be celibate for life, but sex should be practiced only when there is a need for it mentally, spiritually, and physically at the same time. Usually, when the Ego operates, it tells you that you need sex for only one or two of these three needs mentioned above. You can say that I think it's unnatural to be monogamous our entire lives, but it's also possible to find just one person you can growth with too.