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Wiola

Beauty is the weapon of choice.

About Me


Myspace LayoutsI love my life. My son. My friends. Sometimes I might say that I'm not happy about this or that, but looking at what I have and where I've been I am thankful for every day. Life is so short. A series of moments exponentially compunded to make a life. I try to keep perspective. As everything I do relates to everything past and yet to come. Things happen for a reason. The downs remind us to value the ups. The ups counter the weight of the downs. Pain is an indication that we have been selfish and overlooked something important. Attitude is everything. Material things mean nothing. I could never be a rich person... not a good one. I can't do something I don't enjoy... I don't pretend. I refuse to be a liar. I am me. You like me or you look past me. I don't have regrets... because I've learned from my mistakes. Hopefully next time I will do better. My only wish is for those I love to be happy. Every day, every moment, everything... it means so much to me. And yet I strive to find understanding in the little things that be.
You are a Blanced Babe!
You're direct and to the point, but never dramatic
You've got the confidence to speak your mind to anyone
But you leave the theatrics to Hollywood
Level headed and emotionally stable, no wonder everyone loves you Are You a Drama Queen?
You Are Thong Panties
Woman, you are one hell of a ride!
You're a total wild child - and you live for crazy times.
Men are attracted to you like flies to honey, even though they know they should stay away.
You need a expert cowboy who can keep in tune with your free spirit! What Kind of Panties Are You?
TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name: Wiola
Birthday: 01/23/1980
Birthplace: Poland
Current Location: Mesa, Az
Eye Color: blue
Hair Color: dark brown
Height: 5'7"
Right Handed or Left Handed: both
Your Heritage: German, Italian
The Shoes You Wore Today: flip-flops
Your Weakness: Starbucks Caramel Frappuccino
Your Fears: Not being able to watch my son grow up!
Your Perfect Pizza: I don't like pizza...
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Too many to count!
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: LOL
Thoughts First Waking Up: What time is it...
Your Best Physical Feature: U tell me
Your Bedtime: Varies
Your Most Missed Memory: Spending time wuth ma sister
Pepsi or Coke: Neither
MacDonalds or Burger King: Neither
Single or Group Dates: Both
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea: Lipton
Chocolate or Vanilla: Vanilla...DUH
Cappuccino or Coffee: Coffee...!
Do you Smoke: Yep
Do you Swear: Wish I didn't
Do you Sing: Yep...but I'm real bad
Do you Shower Daily: Yes...but usually my son is banging on the door
Have you Been in Love: Yes
Do you want to go to College: I'm in college
Do you want to get Married: Nope
Do you belive in yourself: Yep and you should too!
Do you get Motion Sickness: Only when I'm a passenger and since I'm always a driver than...
Do you think you are Attractive: Yes, it's good to have confidence, but there is a difference between confidence and arrogance
Are you a Health Freak: For my little guy yes...me not really
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you play an Instrument: If you count my son's little muscial drum and piano...then yes!
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: yep
In the past month have you Smoked: yep
In the past month have you been on Drugs: No
In the past month have you gone on a Date: No
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos: NO
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: YES
In the past month have you been on Stage: nope
In the past month have you been Dumped: No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping: nope
In the past month have you Stolen Anything: No
Ever been Drunk: R U serius!
Ever been called a Tease: Yes yesterday, but just by one person...they know who they are!
Ever been Beaten up: nope
Ever Shoplifted: nope
How do you want to Die: How ever
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: A dedicated mother and still have a career...
What country would you most like to Visit: Australia
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Brown
Favourite Hair Color: Black
Short or Long Hair: Short
Height: Taller than me
Weight: Average
Best Clothing Style: Depends on the guy...Don't be somebody ur not!
Number of Drugs I have taken: None
Number of CDs I own: Too many
Number of Piercings: 4
Number of Tattoos: 1
Number of things in my Past I Regret: Nothing...You learn thru each stage...even if it is a regret!!!
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My Interests


You scored as Mysterious. You wish to hide who you are from all those around you. You find it very hard to trust people. You also may enjoy the fun that comes from playing mind games with others around you.My advice Get out there and reveal the true you if only to one person!

Mysterious


92%

Passion


67%

Diamond Eyes


50%

Eyes full of Pain


42%
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I'd like to meet:

This goes out to every woman I know single, married or other. No matter how many episodes of Oprah or Dr.Phil we watch we tend to forget or simply ignore these facts about men and relationships. So read on and imprint these lessons in your head. This is the truth! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important thanyou are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to beMr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person,an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

Music:

Honestly, I like all kinds of music. I am the person who has the R&B station, the hard rock, 80's mix, soft rock and yes...even country all set on my pre-set. I am just well rounded person that loves a variety!

Movies:

I love watching movies. I especially like watching the non-mainstream movies. Anything Lion's Gate is going to be good. I like getting the film festival winner/nom. movies. I like foreign films too. Scary movies, scare the shit out of me. I don't really like watching them, but I do...thru my fingers covering my eyes most of the time. I have to watch those at home tho', I get startled easy and need to be peeled off the ceiling. I never mean to scream or gasp, but I do. I get embarrassed about doing that at a movie theater. I don't want to be that girl.

Books:


The PJ's You Are Most Like: No PJ's
You're a bit of a hedonist - opting for comfort over everything else
You have an understated, easy sexyness that men love
You'll risk that for the feeling of sheets against your bare skin! What Kind of PJ's Are You?

Heroes:

Mother and Grandmother...Because of their love and support I am who I became today

My Blog

I'm this girl

I'm this girl i'm the girl who will put her head on your shoulder, not because she's sleepy, but because she wants to be closer to you...i'm the girl who likes to be kissed in the rain, more than insi...
Posted by Wiola on Thu, 02 Nov 2006 11:49:00 PST

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASONPeople come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Whenyou know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.Whensomeone is in your li...
Posted by Wiola on Mon, 23 Oct 2006 02:43:00 PST

Quest for the strong!

I have a few words to say on the art of relationships.... first of all they arent going to be easy nor painless... they more you love the more it hurts like death! Women are actually very easy to plea...
Posted by Wiola on Thu, 19 Oct 2006 01:31:00 PST

YOU GO GIRL!!!!

I am only as strong as the caffeine I drink, the hair spray I use and the girlfriends I have. Here's to you! Why do we only have parties for each other when one of us gets married, pregnant, has a bir...
Posted by Wiola on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 12:05:00 PST

woman...

I don't believe makeup and the right hairstyle alone can make a women beautiful. The most radiant woman in the room is the one full of life and experience.
Posted by Wiola on Mon, 02 Oct 2006 11:35:00 PST

Definition of soulmate...

Definition of soulmate... I believe that everyone in this world has their own SOUL MATE.No matter how many relationships we have had in the past...we live...we learn...we realize...who our SOUL MATES...
Posted by Wiola on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 01:39:00 PST