☆☆Swift Anj☆☆

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I am a stubborn Greek princess*I make no apologies for the fact that I demand attention*Independent*Smart*Agressive*Analytical* Complicated*Wiseass*Confident*Reliable*Fearless*Generous* Ambitious* Outspoken*Want what I want*I have a strong will to live, love, acquire and succeed coupled with a strong sense of self*I know who I am* My heart is full* I create life, life does not create me.*I LOVE cake, cookies, rice, beans and chuletas!*I love cooking.*I wish it were Spring all year long.*I have very little tolerance*I never take the easy way out*I thank god everyday for my grandmother, brother and the bestest friends*Spend money faster than I make it*I tend to speak before I filter things out in my mind, which sometimes leads to talking wreckless*I survived my "prime" years and past relationships-(I pat myself on the back everyday)*I have dreams that can never be, and dreams that are close to being*I remind myself to be friends with the person, and not the idea*My shadow is the only one I trust 100% and my grandma!*I laugh and joke even harder*I question my own questions*Im always debating something in my mind*I look and think ahead too too much, but am often drawn back*I have no kids, but I love them*Your full of *bleep* 2 me before I label you genuine (which takes a lil min)! ~~>*Thats me!*~~> Ohhh and lets not forget,"I ALWAYS GIVE AN OSCAR WINNING PERFORMANCE!!!!"..
"I'M THE AUTHOR OF MY LIFE...UNFORTUNATELY, I'M WRITING WITH A PEN & CAN'T ERASE MY MISTAKES, I CAN ONLY LEARN FROM THEM"..
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"in life we do things. some we wish we had never done, some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads, but they all make us who we are. And in the end, those experiences shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them, we wouldn't be at the exact place that we are today. So just live. Make mistakes, and have wonderful times but never ever second guess who you are, where you have been, and most importantly, where it is that you are going..."..
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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see?..
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Don't Label Me. Don't Judge Me. Don't Impose Your Pre-conceived Notions On Me. This Page Is A Reflection Of A Part Of Me. It Does Not Define Who I Am...
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There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life. An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye." Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust! , desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem makes you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults isn't really that important. Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, his or her flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you've got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses and strengths. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together. Neither one of you is perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring! past relationships, past hurt, past mist! rust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life" you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, image preference, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
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AFTER AWHILE YOU LEARN THE SUBTLE DIFFRENCE BETWEEN HOLDING A HAND AND CHAINING A SOUL, YOU LEARN THAT LOVE DOESN’T MEAN LEANING AND COMPANY DOESN’T MEAN SECURITY. YOU BEGIN TO LEARN THAT KISSES AREN'T CONTRACTS AND PRESENTS AREN'T PROMISES, YOU BEGIN TO ACCEPT YOUR DEFEATS WITH YOUR HEAD UP AND EYES OPEN, WITH THE GRACE OF A WOMEN, NOT THE GRIEF OF A CHILD, AND LEARN TO BUILD ALL YOUR ROADS ON TODAY BECAUSE TOMORROW’S GROUND IS TOO UNCERTAIN FOR PLANS, AND FUTURES HAVE A WAY OF FALLING DOWN IN MID-FLIGHT. AFTER AWHILE YOU LEARN THAT EVEN SUNSHINE BURNS IF YOU GET TOO MUCH. SO YOU PLANT YOUR OWN GARDEN AND DECORATE YOUR OWN SOUL, INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO BRING YOU FLOWERS. AND YOU LEARN THAT YOU REALLY CAN ENDURE THAT YOU REALLY ARE STRONG AND YOU REALLY DO HAVE WORTH AND YOU LEARN AND LEARN…… WITH EVERY GOODBY YOU LEARN...