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Amy

Consider me Your Girl Friend Next Door...

About Me

Hey everybody! I'm Amy Spencer. www.amy-spencer.com And many of you guys know me as the relationship expert on Sirius satellite radio's Maxim channel 108. I host the live call-in show "Sex Files," devoted to helping your love and sex lives every week! www.sexfilesradio.com"Sex Files," airs every Wednesday from 2 p.m. to 3 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific), featuring me and my gorgeous new co-host, Anna David. Every week, we'll give you info on the hottest love and sex trends, provide insight on women, and answer YOUR calls on relationships. If you're already a listener, thanks! And if not, give it a try. We try to keep it fun, informative, and well worth an hour of your day. (See more about the channel here: Maxim Radio on Sirius ) I've been writing about relationships for for over ten years for magazines like Maxim, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Match.com, Stuff, Redbook, Women's Health, msn.com and others. And I write about fashion, beauty, celebrities, travel and lifestyle for other magazines, like Harper's Bazaar, New York, Grazia, Real Simple and a dozen others. And now, my favorite part of the week is going on the air to answer your calls on the show! Please feel free to send your questions along to me here. If I can't answer them directly, I may address some of them on here, or perhaps talk about them on the show.Now let's get to making this world a happier, hotter place. :)

My Interests

If you like the advice I give on the radio and you have some time to kill (and, uh, you're not sick of me yet), here are some links to some of my articles I've written that might interest you. You know, how to find love, how to dump someone, how to become a nun (seriously...I really DID research how to become a nun. Don't make me do it, guys...) Here are some of my story links: If you're out there dating... Match.com: Be a Dating Optimist!If you really like who you're dating... Match.com: Signs You've Met Your Perfect MatchIf you DON'T like who you're dating... Match.com: How to Break Up with SomeoneIf you don't like your life... New York Magazine: How to Change Your LifeSpeaking of change, here's how to change lots of things: Real Simple Magazine: How to Change Things for the BetterIf you're thinking of changing your weight... New York Magazine: The Skinny on Diet BooksIf you're single and want to live it up... Match.com: Still Single? Here are 10 Things To Do Before You Settle DownIf you're having trouble finding your way on a few things... Real Simple Magazine: How to Navigate Tricky SituationsIf you're navigating a possible move for love... Match.com/AOL.com: "Why I Moved For Love"

I'd like to meet:

All of you!

Music:

Lately I've been listening to...The Killers, Serge Gainsbourg, all the old Getz/Gilberto stuff, Nina Simone, Bonobo, The "Happy Endings" soundtrack, The Streets, The Strokes, Gnarls Barkley, Dinah Washington and Jet.

Movies:

Since there's no "Art" section here, this is where I'll list my favorite artist..... Gustavo Albero (also known as "Gusto"). www.GalleryGusto.com

Television:

"The Minor Accomplishments of Jackie Woodman" on IFC.

My Blog

I want your personal stories!!

I'm writing a story for a magazine about romantic gestures guys have done, and I figured what better guys and girls to ask than my awesome Maxim radio listeners and friends, right? I just know that qu...
Posted by Amy on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 02:15:00 PST

Funny Dating Hidden Camera Videos!

Hey guys,So I've been working on a project with AxeBullet (it's a brand new product they have, the first pocket-sized body spray meant to help guys act fast and get the girl). Well, to go with the the...
Posted by Amy on Fri, 25 Apr 2008 07:05:00 PST

Keep up with us on SexFilesRadio.com

Hey guys,My co-host Anna and I have been doing wrap-ups each week about the highlights of the show, so in case you miss anything, you might be able to find it (and guest information) there. We also le...
Posted by Amy on Thu, 24 Apr 2008 03:49:00 PST

Need Help with Girls? Need Game? Listen This Wednesday 3/12!

I’ve gotten a few requests recently from some of you who want to know how to up your game with women, or how to avoid being pushed into that dreaded "nice guy" category. Well...For all those of ...
Posted by Amy on Sun, 16 Mar 2008 06:08:00 PST

Q & A: Where Can I Find a Doctor Who Treats Sexual Issues?

Last week's show was about "Getting it Up and Keeping it Up" and we got lots of questions on-air on the topic, as well as emails afterward. This is one of those questions I think will help many of you...
Posted by Amy on Tue, 04 Mar 2008 11:30:00 PST

To make sure she doesn’t buy herself what YOU bought her...

Got this message from "Dave," and it was such GENIUS idea, I thought I'd share it with you all!Amy,I apologize if you saw this comment on your blog. I tried to add it twice and got bounced out. But ...
Posted by Amy on Sat, 22 Dec 2007 05:31:00 PST

A "Gift for my Girlfriend" Problem

Q: Hey Ms.Amy i dont know if you still do the relationship thing but i have something to ask you. ok my girl friend is going away the day after christmas so she needs to go shopping. So my family...
Posted by Amy on Thu, 20 Dec 2007 11:28:00 PST

Our "Are You Sexually Normal?" guest

Hey there,If you missed the show this week, you missed a fun one! We devoted the entire hour to giving you stats and studies about where men standI got this email from a listener and thought he might ...
Posted by Amy on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:36:00 PST

How to Interpret Womens Signals

Hey all,I hope you were able to listen to the show on Wednesday, 11/21, which was all about women's confusing-ass signals, and how to figure them out. I got this letter from a listener:Q: Hello Amy. I...
Posted by Amy on Sun, 25 Nov 2007 07:51:00 PST

Q & A: "What does it mean when you walk past a girl and..."

I laughed out loud when I read this question, so I figured I'd let you all enjoy it...and my attempt at answering it:QUESTION:So what does it mean when you walk past a girl and first she looks at your...
Posted by Amy on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 08:04:00 PST