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"I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am

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About Me

Nevermore

I say, ''When I want to be alone, I can luxuriate in solitude. When I want to be among people, I call a friend. Because I'm single, I push myself not to live a stagnant lifestyle but to get out and have experiences that continue to shape who I am. But there are times when I feel panicky and lost, moments when I wish I knew exactly who I'll be with when the clock strikes midnight this December 31. I do want love in my life, but the truth is I look around at couples I know and don't see any I'd care to be a part of. I witness so much accommodation and sacrifice, and it mostly seems to be on the part of the wives. I do want to settle down eventually, but not if it means settling. You can be much lonelier as part of the wrong couple than on your own. Been there, done that, won't do it again."

Interests

Reading, Drawing, Designing, Video Games, Music, The Beach on Rainy Days, Poetry, Writing, Sushi, Swimming, Game Night with the friends.

Music

Tool, System Of a Down, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, 3 Doors Down, Death Cab for Cutie, My Morning Jacket, Regina Spektor, Blue October, Pink Floyd, The Smiths, The Cure, DM, AAF, Brand New, AFI, Green Day, Nick Drake, Smashing Pumpkins, Alannis, Morissette, Blondie, The Police, Jack Johnson, Cake, Bush, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, Daft Punk, Eagles, Elliot Smith, Enygma, Eurythmics, Gorillaz, Fall Out Boy, Foo Fighters, Fleet Wood Mac, Gnarles Barkley, Gary Jules, etc etc etc. Spanish: Julieta Venegas, Juanes, Heroes, Caifanes, Indio Solaris, Enanitos Verdes, Control Machete, Molotov, Maldita, Vecindad, Hijos De el Quinto Patio, Orgullo Cafe, Bebe, Laura Pausini, Vicente Fernandez, Neck, Ragazzi, La Oreja De Vangoh, Mecano, Hombres G, Los Fabulosos Cadillacs, Manu Chau, Mana, Cafe Tacuba, Atercipelados, Ozomatli, Radio Futura, Shakira, Diego Torrez, Alejandro Saenz, etc. etc. etc.

Movies

Anime: Vampire Princess Miyu, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Castle In The sky, Nausica, The Cat Returns, Kikis Delivery Service, Hellsing, Samurai Champloo, Witch Hunter Robin, Howls Moving Castle, Ninja Scroll, vampire Hunter D, Dark Stalkers, Ayakashi Bakeneko, Monoke: Bakeneko, Full Metal Alchemist, Animatrix, Bleach, kaleido Star, guintama, Inuyasha, Tenchi, Ranma 1/2, Yuna, Death Note, etc. etc. Other: Cuentos De Adas para Dormir cocodrilos, Motorcycle Diaries, Amores Perros, Voces Inocentes, Nicotina, Pirates Of The Caribean, The Fountain, The Nightmare Before X-mas, The Corpse New Bride, Cruel Intentions, Adam Sandler Movies, Pixar Movies, Hot Fuzz, Kung Fu Hustle, Secondhand Lions, The Jacket, Spun, Jumanji, Zodiac, Monkey Bone, The Professional, Wasabi, Hotel Rwanda, A Beautiful Mind, Talented Mr. Rippley, Catch Me if You Can, Fight Club, What Dreams May Come, Sleepy Hollow, Mr. Brooks, Secret Window, The Shinning, World Trade Center, Chronichles of Narnia, Death Proof, Little Ms Sunshine, Gothika, Danika, I Am Legend, Resident Evil, iRobot, Pursuit of Happiness, King Kong, A Series of Unfortunate Events, Me Myself and Irene, Perfume, Rocky Movies except the last one, Anchor Man, Rush Hour, jackie Chan Movies, Jet Li Movies, Asian Films, Underworld Evolution, etc. etc. etc.

Favorite Books

Everything from Edgar Allan Poe, Needful Things, Desperation, Geralds Game, Bag Of Bones, The Mail Man by Stephen King & others by other writers like Memoirs of a Geisha, Lullaby by Chuck Palahniuk, The Bonesetters Daughter, Joyluck Club by Amy Tang, Nothing Lasts For ever, The Sands of Time by Sidney Sheldom, Cemetery Of Angels, by Noel Hynd and many others. . . .

My Blog

Life 2 Day

I find myself thinking of specific people. Why is it that when I hear their names I get this feeling of either anger, and or rage. Their names bring a sort of feeling that I wish not to feel. I wish n...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Mon, 05 May 2008 12:52:00 PST

Increible

Que increíble como sientoEl corazón cuando te piensoQue increíble ver mis pies hundirse entre la arenaIncreíble el color del cieloPero hoy contigo todo me lo creoContigo todo me lo creoNo quiero perde...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Thu, 10 Apr 2008 08:07:00 PST

What If. . .

What If One Day you woke up to the realization that I never existed? That I was nothing but an idea? A thought; an eagerness to meet someone that understands you? Where would I go then? What would I b...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 03:49:00 PST

I Miss You With All of Me

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Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Fri, 22 Feb 2008 12:19:00 PST

Lock Away The Key


Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 11:47:00 PST

Father Forgets

Listen, son; I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few minutes...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Wed, 13 Feb 2008 02:16:00 PST

Just Leave it As it is, Broken

It is best to walk away, then to stay here. I am tired of your games. I really wish you to be happy, you and you and you and specially you.Now you can forget and move forward, I promise I will not cal...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Mon, 28 Jan 2008 11:57:00 PST

Summer Skin

Squeaky swings and tall grass The longest shadows ever cast The water's warm and children swim And we frolicked about in our summer skin I don't recall a single care Just greenery and humid air Then L...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Mon, 28 Jan 2008 11:05:00 PST

Mujeres Divinas

Hablando de mujeres y traicionesse fueron consumiendo las botellasPidieron que cantara mis cancionesy yo cante unas dos en contra de ellasDe pronto que se acerca un caballeroSu pelo ya pintaba algunas...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Mon, 21 Jan 2008 11:04:00 PST

Sick as a Dog

Where does the expression sick as a dog come from? I have never seen a sick dog =(. I am currently suffering from a very bad cold, and every time I want to express how sick I feel the expression "Sick...
Posted by "I Rather Be Hated For Who I Am on Tue, 15 Jan 2008 11:18:00 PST