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Mrs. Payne

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About Me


Create your own Friend Quiz hereI am a 25 year old single mother of 2 BEAUTIFUL boys. Jalen is 7 and Aven is 4. Nothing excites my more then to see them learn and grow every day. I love hanging out with my girlfriends (Ya'll know who you are!), clubs are kinda fun in charlotte but don't go much anymore... I love this city though. I love diversity, and I can see beauty and kindness in everyone (well, there are a few that I can't... Hmmm) I hope to get married one day but haven't gotten that far yet! I love knowing the plan.. though I never do.. I love summer time, maybe because I freeze my ass off in winter... I love: helping others,reaching goals, seeing old friends, meeting new ones, discussing religon & politics, boys that can fix stuff, learning from my children, my children learning from me, seeing people "happy", being "happy",getting tattoos,remembering Jalen's dad, animals, nature, learning about different cultures, boys with tattoos that can lift heavy things, eating good food, cooking good food, listning to jazz, watching my dad play music, making people proud, eating cheesecake, NYC, dancing, singing in the shower, driving, getting haircuts, getting along with Aven's dad, getting money in the mail, winning "stuff", brushing my teeth, new socks, my favorite underwear, pulling my hair up at the end of the day, having good dreams.... I do not love: dissapointing my friends and family, paying bills, missing Jalen's dad, crying, fighting with anyone, the smell of men's deoderent, cleaning out the refrigerator, washing clothes, watching the news knowing there is nothing I can do, poverty, the many situations in Africa, rape, George W. Bush, racist people, holding a grudge, the taste of "old" sweet tea (everyone in the south knows what that is), Walmart, that bullshit can sweet tea, diet anything, cheap flat irons, thongs (even though u have to sometimes), missing out, when I need a manicure, missing a TV show, "fake" anything (people included), people that put sugar in grits, missing my grandparents, the taste of "regular" toothpaste, chewing gum, feeling used. My most missed memory is my son's father, John. (RIP)
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My Interests

My children, my friends children, music, SHOES, I love doing peoples hair and make-up (making people beautiful is a wonderful thing!), did I say Shoes... I have a strong interest in people... anyone I can learn something from and hopefully give a little something back.

I'd like to meet:

Oprah Winphrey, Elizibeth Taylor, Maria Shriver, Marilyn Monroe, Hillary Clinton, Jane Fonda, Paul Rusesabagina, Monolo Blahnic, Robert F. Kennedy, J.F.K., Any FABOLOUS woman, Bill Maher, Jackie O, and Marlyn Manson...Just to ask "what the Hell?"Tenacious Tee's

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Music:


my frazy music , movies and books !Well, I love almost all music. Erykah Badu, Billie Holiday The Allman Brothers, Lauryn Hill, The Roots, Ella Fitzgerald, Etta James, The Ramones, Sarah Vauhn, Nina Simone, Miles Davis, Rolling Stones, Avant, Amerie, Hole, Seven Year Bitch, Bikini Kill, Aventura, Social Distortion, Grupo Niche, Mala Fe, Bob Dylan, The Strokes, Dolly Parton, Janis Jopplin, Amel Larrieux, Aerosmith, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Alice in Chains, Ween, Anna Nalick, Anthony Hamilton, Beyonce, Monchi y Alexandra, Donell Jones, Drive By Truckers, Deftones, Madonna, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Smashing Pumpkins, Guns n Roses, Stevie Wonder, Talib Kweli, Tom Petty, U2, Michael Jackson, Slick Rick, Ray Charles, Areatha Franklin, Nirvana, Otis Redding, Nas, Kool & The Gang, Kanye West, Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, James Taylor, Jagged Edge, Groove Theory, Grateful Dead, Cyndi Lauper, Black Eyed Peas, Bjork, Dee Lite, Tribe, Res, Angie Stone, India Arie, Blind Melon, The Cranberries, David Allen Coe, Hank Jr., Don Omar, Ivy Queen, Outkast, Prince, Van Morrison, AAlyah, Keysha Cole, Fugees... I'm positive I forgot a million but you got the idea!

Movies:


my frazy music , movies and books !Love Jones, The Notebook, Goonies, The Pianist, Shindlers List, Hotel Rwanda, Saving Private Ryan, Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Dirty Dancing, Mad Love, True Grit, Kids, Basketball Diaries, Silent Movies, 8MM, Greese, Hairspray, Sleeping Beauty, Glory, The Princess Bride, Neverending Story, and the ..1 greatest movie of all time..... RAISING ARIZONA!!!

Television:

The Sopranos, My Name Is Earl, Sex In The City, Big Love, Golden Girls (Hell Yeah!) , Food Network TV, Discovery, TLC, Animal Planet, LIFETIME, All in the Family, Good Times, Sandford and Son, Mary Tyler Moore, The Nanny, Will & Grace, Adult Swim, Cosby.... anything old.

Books:

Anything about psychology. I love Iyanla Vanzant, and John Grisham. I love reading text books and medical books! obsessed with learning about the human mind. (Boring, I know.)

Heroes:

My sons, My Mother, Abuse Survivors, Every Man.. Woman.. and Child living in poverty in Africa, & All the Fabolous women in the world
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