I love to be with friends and family, I love cooking and inventing new recipes.. I love to write.. and read what I write.. I love blasting my music and singing loud, and dancing around my house!!! I love to swim and lay out and go to the beach, the boys and I stay in water, whether it be the pool or the beach.. There is at least a monthly BBQ at my house.. I love riding out with my 12's blasting and the windows down.. and cuttin up...I have MAAAD JOKES!!!!HOW TO MAKE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE!!!Love Yourself.
Make peace with who you are and where you are at this moment in time.
Listen to your heart.
If you can't hear what it's saying in this noisy world,
Make Time for yourself.
Enjoy your own company.
Let your mind wander among the stars.
Try.
Take Chances.
Make Mistakes.
Life can be messy and confusing at times,
but it's also full of surprises.
The next rock in your path might be a stepping-stone.
Be Happy.
When you don't have what you want, want what you have.
Make Do.
That's a well-kept secret of contentment.
There aren't any shortcuts to tomorrow.
You have to MAKE YOU OWN WAY.
To know where you're going is only part of it.
You need to know where you've been, too.
And if you ever get lost, don't worry.
The people who love you will find you.
Count on it.
Life isn't days and years.
It's what you do with time and with all the goodness and grace that's inside you.
Make a Beautiful Life...
The kind if life you deserve.
God Bless
Jen05
I'd like to meet:
Graphics & LayoutsPositive People... People who enjoy having a good time. Non-frontin ass people.. people who aren't in the music industry... I know too many already!!!! Non lyin mo-foz for sure and people who are looking to make a difference in the world.If and when you get a chance.. please visit my website in the works... check back occasionally, it should be done SOON!!!! www.thatsmybabydaddy.net (THANKS)One day I was just wondering.......................................When did relationships turn into just "Kickin it"???When did we loose the terms boyfriend or girlfriend???When did getting to know someone turn into fucking on the first date?When did late night phone calls and special songs turn into weekly courtesy calls and late night hook-ups?When did asking someone to "be with you" turn into an assumption or something no one is willing to even discuss?When did holding hands and kissing in public become a bad thing?When did going out with your significant other become more of a chore than something you actually wanted to do?When did it become acceptable to go days without speaking to the person you are "seeing"???When did the meaning of relationship loose it's significance?When did it become o.k. to "see" more than one person at a time??Better yet, when did it become o.k. to sleep with more than one person at a time???When did relationships go from starting as friends graduating to boyfriend /girlfriends then to a couple to getting married to having kids to just having kids and not even being able to deal with each other anymore?When did going out on dates become a thing of the past?When did we start settling for lust instead of love?When did it become o.k to be married or in a relationship and during hard times find someone else to lean on or even sleep with?When did we loose hope for true love?Why is it that most marriages fail, and most relationships never result in marriage?When did it become o.k. for a Mother/Father to not take care of their children?When did we have to start suspending drivers license just to get the attention of Mothers/Fathers who don't handle their responsibilites?When did Women loose respect for themselves and just fuck the next dude and expect for them to wife them???When did it become ok to not think far enough in advance to not use protection when you are sleeping with someone that you were not willing to die for?When did men start loosing interest in women who were actually saving themselves for marriage?When did we start showing pictures of our ass and tits to people we don't even know?Where did we loose interest in REALLY getting to know someone before giving them something so special, LIKE YOUR HEART?????When did telling the truth become so hard?When did lying become so easy?When did physical abuse toward anyone become acceptible?When did you really love someone and mean it?When was the last time you actually had a relationship that meant everything to you?When was the last time you told the people in your life you loved them?When was the last time you did something good for someone you care about and not hold it over their head??When was the last time you went to church and prayed for forgiveness?Lord knows we need it!!!!!!!
Music:
R&B and Hip Hop ALL DAY!!! O.k. and some reggae..soul...jazz and a little bit of everything else!!!!
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Name: Jennifer
Birthday: May 28th 1978
Movies:
Anything FUNNY.. I just started to enjoy Scary movies.. Action is cool, sometimes a bit much, and of course Chick Flicks and Kids movies.. and yes I cry.. AWWWWW, when NEMO's mom died.... :(
Television:
My Soaps, E.R... AHHHHHHHHHHHHh Nothing like watching other peoples' DRAMA!! CSI, Brothers and Sisters, Daybreak, Talk Sex with Sue Johanson = ) I love to watch Animal Planet and Discovery Channel with my boys, nothing like watching your kids LEARN something, also I'm totally feelin Cartoon Network...Fosters Home for Imaginary Friends, Teen Titans, Ben 10, Shaiolin Showdown, and Class of 3000..
Books:
Only finished a few, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.. Wow.. that put everything into perspective for me!!! "The Power of a praying Woman".. helped me become the God Fearing Woman that I am today.... "He is just not that into you" Ladies if you are single, read this.. if you need to, i will lend you mine!!! The Bible.. I have a daily ritual where I will open the Bible and let a page fall, where it opens it what I read.. my favorite lesson yet was..."In all your distress, He too is distressed and he will send an angel of his presence to save you. in his love and mercy he will pick you up and carry you all the days of old." Isaiah 63:9
Heroes:
My Father, Phillip R. Derck R.I.P. 12/11/1992.. He was the best.. he was strong, caring, funny, charming, exciting, loving, and a pimp!!! My mother, who is my best friend, who managed to put up with my shit until I finally became a Mother myself!!! I love you Mom!!! My children who are so smart and loving and fun, my neices who are the most beautiful young ladies in the world and are so special to me, who have been through so much and are so caring and genuine. My friends who have been there through thick and thin and have always managed to love me for me, and never hold anything against me!!! I love you all!
