I'm looking for someone who will accept me and all my imperfections. I am a man after all, A REAL MAN. I need someone who will communicate with me because I don't read minds and definitely don't read between the lines. I know how to treat a lady despite being a little rough around the edges but remember, diamonds begin as lumps of coal. I need to be taught some things that deal with the heart as I am too cautious mine and tend to distance myself if I feel I'm about to get hurt. I like to be reassured from time to time because I tend to get insecure if you get me to open my heart. You have to be family oriented as my family is huge on both sides and we are all very close. There is always some family function to attend. I just like to be needed. I don't ask for much. I know that some people have some issues to deal with. I can be a very caring man to some and, at the same time, I can be cold and distant to others. I would be happy with just a quick visit for a kiss or a hug and that would last me, even if it's once a week. I love late night calls or a text from someone letting me know they are thinking about me. I have learned some things about women but no one will ever figure out the mystery that is woman. If I do something wrong, I need to be told so that I can correct it. Don't assume that I'll figure it all out because I've started to live for me and don't care if I don't please everyone. I'm a carefree kind of guy and very spontaneous. I never know what I'm going to do tomorrow or a week from now.