Every girl isn't the same

Hi my name is Vanessa I'm a very laid back person I am a single parent I have a 4 year old lil man who is the reason I get up in the morning and work so hard to provide for his needs and his wants I am looking for a real man that has something going in his life and know how to treat a woman and have fun I am not looking for a daddy I already have one and every girl isn't the same if I thought every male was the same I would be gay ....