FlirtyThirty

O.k. About me. I am a proud DETROITER, single with no kids. I enjoy home, Eastern Mkt, clubbing, Belle Island any local event that comes to the "D". But most of all I love my Detroit MEN (I believe that Detroit has the last few gentlemen left). I love to be a girl and I think that Detroit men are the last of what I consider to be the true "Alpha" male.Get Your Own! | View SlideshowAlpha Male: def: A man who does not need women, lies or game to prove that he is a man, he just is. He does not apologize for who or what he is. He has no interest in taking any role of a woman (i.e. diamonds, pink, baby hair, and most of all the thrill of being pursued, to test if I am interested. A Real Man knows that I am or doesn't care).Nor does he need game to feed his ego, so that he could feel like a man. He just is. The mere fact that he is a man comes from him and no othe outside source, job, woman, or possession....he is a man long before he get these things.Detroit Men: I know that there are still a lot of men out there that still have the "Superstar/Hollywood" mentality. I..ve just been lucky enough not to have me them. Detroit men are good fathers, good cooks, good providers just all around men. Chivalry is not dead with the Detroit man. He does not brag on the fact the he's maintained a good job, his household, and even own a house before he is 30. The fact that he buys a woman a drink is simply an act of courteousy not game. And they almost always have a stong work ethic and respect for family. They have managed to comfortably express their feeling while maintaining there manhood. And these are but a few reasons why I "LOVE" them.Detroit Women: We are strong (not that "Waiting to exhale" strong). but strong meaning we don..t feel less of a woman "without" a man. We aren't devastated at the fact that we are in our 30..s, unmarried and childless. Yet, we still want it like any other woman. Not to take away the fact the we also enjoy dating.We aren't dating to find "True Love", yet we will embrace when true love finds us. We don..t seem threatened by other women, in fact we help them embrace their "Fabulousness". We raise good men; we don..t keep our son..s in the house until he is 30. We manage to be independent and support our men, physically, mentally, sexually, and most of all spiritually.Again, I am sure there are some out there that this does not apply to, and again I've been lucky enough not to have met any of them.Detroiters: I guess what I am trying to say is "Detroit is a good place to be regardless to what society says. If you don..t believe this, take a look at us during the holidays. Even in the hood we make time to bar-b-que and be with our families. Or Detroit on 4th of July, you cannot find anywhere to sit because of all of the Black Families...... Look at belle isle (2 men can fish by themselves and not be "Gay")....simply because our generations of father and grandfather fished with them. I Now, I may be generalizing here but I cannot say the same for the more acceptable cities (Chicago, NY, LA).In such cities Chivalry is Dead, the men are the superstars tryin too hard to be Hollywood (the Urshers, Puffy..s & 50's) these types of men are trying to be the superstars not the Alpha Male. These men take more interest in wearing the diamonds rather providing one to there wife to be. You can even see the difference in our sports teams. (Not one time did the Piston ever try to apologize who/what they were or their city, while the superstar teams tried to put them down.) I guess that this is enough bragging about my city and my city's people. I just thought that it was a side to Detroit worth telling.