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Realize The Possibilities In Life

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships and Friends

About Me

During my 25 years, I've learned & experienced a lot; especially in the past 10 years of being a gay man. I've made a lot of friends, lost some, but gained a lot more.In the past 8 years, I've gained more gay friends than gay relationships (on a more romantic level). It seems every time I start "dating' someone new, they're either afraid of committment or not ready to settle & still want to see how many guys they can sleep with. NOT ME!I finally learned & woke up knowing that it's time for me to focus on making new friends & taking a break from the "dating" scene. I'll definitely hang out with new friends but I can't handle any kind of "romantic" relationship. My guard had been rasied to block out any future pain & heartache.I learned that my friends will always be there to love & support me through everything, especially heartache. I don't want that feeling anymore. Friendships last longer than any "romantic" relationship. Whenever that "wall" around my heart can be slowly chipped away & can allow that "Mr. Right" in, I'm going to keep my head held high & try to enjoy the single life without heartache & drama.

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My Interests

Shop & Dine (definitely!!) -- Movies (Sci-Fi/Fantasy/Romatic/Comedies/Action/Pyschological Thillers - definitely not a Horror fan) -- Chill wit friends -- Cook --Entertain @ home durin' the summer -- Starbucks: Non-fat Venti White Chocolate Mocha favorite -- Listen to Music and Burn CDs for friends (owner of 1100 CDs) -- Collector of ALL sorts: CDs, Books, DVD (movies & music videos), Clothes, Shoes & Accessories

I'd like to meet:

The kind of guys that I would like to meet are the ones who are honest, caring for family and friends, open to everybody (includin' family), thinks twice b4 speaks, able to defend friends in any arkward situation, puts themselves afters others, willing 2 do anything new and x-citing once in their lives, has a sense of humor (& can make me laugh), can dance, athletic & likes to maintain a good body, shop and dine, loves 2 go out as much as he likes to stay home, and definitely family-oriented. And maybe a animal lover (cat or/dog). Thinkin' 'bout gettin' a dog when I move out of my home."I'm optimistic & looking forward to falling in love again : flirting, exchanging glances, first kisses -- just the whole romance of meeting someone & being in love"

Music:

American Idols Favs: Kelly Clarkson, RJ Helton, Jim Verraros, Ruben Studdard, Clay Aiken, Fantasia Barrino, Diana DeGarmo, Carrie Underwood, Bo Bice --Country: Gary Allen, Billy Currington, Little Big Town, Craig Morgan, Lonestar, Rascal Flatts, LeAnn Rimes, SHeDaisy, Shania Twain, Sugarland, Josh Turner, Keith Urban, --Dance: Anastacia, Cascada, Deborah Cox, D.H.T., DJ Encore, DJ Sammy, J. Lo, Lasgo, Lucas Prata, Reina, Rihanna, Rupaul, Kristine W --Easy Listening: Andre Boccelli, Chris Botti, Micheal Buble, Josh Groban, Il Divo, Sarah McLachlan, Sade, Frank Sinatra -- Euro/Pop: Ace of Base, A*Teens, Aqua, Daniel Bedingfield, Five, Darren Haye, Kylie Minogue, Real McCoy, S Club (7), Savage Garden, Spice Girls, Westlife --Oldies: Chicago, the Commodores, Buddy Holly, Rod Stewart, the Tempetations --Pop/Rock:Christina Aguilera (Xtina), the Black Eyes Peas, Michelle Branch, Elton John, Nick Lachey, Madonna, Ricky Martin, George Michael, Edwin McCain, Jesse McCartney, the Pussycat Dolls, Shakira, Jessica Simpson --R&B: 3T, Aaliyah, Jon B, Mary J. Blige, Brandy, Mariah Carey, Ciara, Destiny's Child, Whitney Houston (when she's not high), Janet Jackson, Alicia Keys, Monica, TLC, Usher --Rap & Hiphop: Daddy Yankee, Missy Elliot, N.O.R.E., Nelly, Nina Sky, Sean Paul, Pitbull --Rock: All-American Rejects, James Blunt, Ryan Cabrera, Howie Day, Gavin DeGraw, Teddy Geiger, Good Charlotte, Aril Lavigne, Lifehouse, Maroon 5, Nickleback, P!nk, Simple Plan, the Veronicas

Movies:

Gay Movies : All Over The Guy, Brokeback Mountain, Friends & Family, Latter Days --Fantasy : Harry Potter & Lord of the Rings Series, The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe, Elektra, Fantasic 4, Pirates of the Caribbean, The Mummy, The Mummy Returns, Queen of the Damned, The Scorpion King, X-Men Series --Comedies : Beauty Shop, Bring It On (Again), Bringing Down the House, Taxi --Others : Charlies's Angels (Full Throttle), Cruel Intentions (original), Dance With Me, Dirty Dancing (Havana Nights), Ice Age, Legally Blonde 1 & 2, Maid In Manhattan, Meet The Fockers (& The Parents), Mr. & Mrs. Smith, Monster-In-Law, The Notebook, RENT, Shall We Dance?, Shrek 1 & 2, Simply Irresistible

Television:

Will & Grace, Desperate Housewives, Tyra Banks' "America'a Next Top Model", Bravo's "Blow Out" with Jonathan Antin, MTV's Real World, Road Rules and the RW/RR Challenges, Charmed, Buffy, the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Supernatural, Survivor Series, the Ellen DeGeneres Show, the Martha Stewart Show, the View, ABC's All My Children, One Life To Live, and General Hospital, & Dancing with the Stars, Seaquest DSV, Queer As Folk Series, Sex and the City Series, Hercules, and Xena: the Warrior Princess

Heroes:

My parents : they've been there for me through thick and thin; sometimes show some tough-love on me but I get through it; enabling me to stand my ground and support my ideology on life for both me, personally, and for the family as a whole. -- Dad : who've always proved how to overcome any obstacle in life; i.e. started family business own your own and built to business from the ground up. Mom : always filled my stomach with your amazing Italian food and desserts, strong headed but still able to compromise any situation that benefical for our family. -- Thank You both for everything in life and I will always LOVE YOU 'til the day I die. XOXOXO

My Blog

C.A.C.

"Somebody's Me" You, do u remember me? Like I remember you? Do you spend your life, Going back in your mind to that time? Because I, I walk the streets alone. I hate being on my own. And everyone can ...
Posted by Realize The Possibilities In Life on Sat, 10 Nov 2007 12:56:00 PST

C.A.C.

"Oxygen" I came apart inside a world made of angry people. I found  a boy who had a dream, making everyone smile. He was sunshine I fell over, my feet like brincks underwater. How am I supposed t...
Posted by Realize The Possibilities In Life on Fri, 09 Nov 2007 01:24:00 PST

C.A.C.

Ran into an old friend yesterday, Caught me by surprise when he called my name, He was a familiar face, from a chapter in my past, Talked for awhile, I smiled and then, Said that he was seeing somebod...
Posted by Realize The Possibilities In Life on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 11:42:00 PST