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Mamma Shirley

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.. * I have a wonderful 17 year old daughter. *I'm gonna brag about my daughter a little here. *She is going into her senior year at one of the best high schools in the City *she is a second degree black belt in tae kwon do, having trained and worked very hard for many years to achieve that goal *she has been co-captain of her school's varsity bowling team for the past two years *her freshman year, she was the ONLY freshman to make sectionals *there is no reason to believe she won't be co-captain again this year *she also plays for the school's varsity soccer team *she's also on the JV tennis team, hoping to get bumped up to the varsity level this year *she sings in our church choir *she very unselfishly gives up her entire summer vacation to work with my sister in a school for physically handicapped children, where she has received more praise over the past five years than anybody I know of *she has aspirations to attend Vanderbilt University in the fall of 2009, majoring in neuroscience *I've never seen her back down or quit anything "because it was too hard". The more difficult the task, the harder she works *she has only missed one day of school in the past 10 years, and that will most likely stay the case through her senior year*now about me:* I am a single parent, and love my daughter more than anything else in the world. * I work full time for a law firm downtown, and have been there for 22 years * I'm generally a happy person and happy with my life and circumstances. However, there is one thing missing in my life right now. * I'm recently single, having just had an almost three year relationship come to an end. * I hate being alone, but am starting to have trust issues. * I'm looking for a man who will love and accept me for who and what I am. * I'm low maintenance, and able to take care of myself. * I own my own house and make most of the repairs necessary here by myself or with the help of my father. * Because of recent events in my life, I am finding it more and more difficult to trust and open up to people. * Don't take that to mean that I'm not interested, just that I'm moving very slowly and carefully. * If I talk to you, I'm interested. * If I back away, push a little harder, I'm probably still interested, just a little afraid of getting too close for fear of getting hurt again. * I'm not afraid to love, just of getting hurt again. * Yes, I did love him, and yes, I still do. For me, love doesn't just disappear overnight. Falling in love takes time, so does falling out of love. * Once again, that doesn't mean that I'm not looking for someone new, just that he's still there, in the back of my mind, haunting me. * I don't need a man to make me happy though. I have plenty of friends and family for that. * However, having a man around is pleasant, and does eliminate a lot of the lonliness. * I'd never hurt anyone intentionally. Being mean spirited and/or hurtful just isn't my style. I'm usually the one getting hurt, not doing the hurting. * My interests are wide and varied, and include, reading, all kinds of music from country to heavy metal to classic rock, to old time rock and roll, concerts, festivals, football, hockey, NASCAR, shopping, zoos, animals, walking on the beach, a trip to the Erie Basin Marina, Niagara Falls, Letchworth State Park, just about anything at any time. * Staying home and enoying my backyard, pool and family are also great ways to spend time. * If you want to know more, drop me a note. * I love meeting and getting to know new people. * You can never have too many friends.
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Yep, this phrase says it all: Web www.phrases.org.uk Dog in the manger MeaningSpiteful and mean spirited.OriginLike the proverbial dog who slept in a manger not because he wanted to eat the hay there but to prevent the other animals from doing so. Now used allusively to refer to any churlish behaviour of that 'spoilsport' sort.The phrase is quite old and is first cited in William Bullein's A dialogue against the feuer pestilence, 1564:"Like vnto cruell Dogges liyng in a Maunger, neither eatyng the Haye theim selues ne sufferyng the Horse to feed thereof hymself."
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Hosted by RockinCodes.comI found this quote, and I liked it, so I'm putting it here:Today I look within to release myself from the effect that others have upon me. I acknowledge my feelings and thoughts that hold me captive and release them. I boldly speak my word for truth and freedom and move forward in my life. ~ Science of Mind Journal

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Installing Love

INSTALLING LOVE Tech Support: Yes, how can I help you? Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process? T.S.: Yes. I can help you. Are you ...
Posted by on Sun, 26 Oct 2008 05:12:00 GMT

What is Wrong with Me?

I want to ask a question, and I'm very serious about this.  If you're not going to offer any real advice, then please don't bother responding.    What does it take to get "forever"?&nb...
Posted by on Tue, 09 Sep 2008 08:15:00 GMT

"What's Forever For" by Michael Martin Murphey

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Posted by on Sat, 06 Sep 2008 06:29:00 GMT

Need I Say More?

"I'm Moving On"I've dealt with my ghosts and I've faced all my demonsFinally content with a past I regretI've found you find strength in your moments of weaknessFor once I'm at peace with myselfI've b...
Posted by on Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:01:00 GMT

Chapter 1

I like to write.  And according to some people, I'm pretty good at it.  I do it all the time.  When I'm sad, I write to express my feelings.  When I'm happy, I write to let the who...
Posted by on Sun, 10 Aug 2008 07:31:00 GMT

Im Just Plain Grateful

I know that most of my blog entries for the past several months have been full of gloom and doom, but I know, I really, really know, that my life isn't that bad.  Therefore, I'm going to post thi...
Posted by on Wed, 06 Aug 2008 04:30:00 GMT

Trying to Understand

I'm trying so hard, yet seem to be failing miserably. This is absolutely killing me, in every sense of the word.  I keep trying to understand it, but just can't.  Nothing makes any sense an...
Posted by on Sat, 26 Jul 2008 11:50:00 GMT

More Parenting Advice

I found this on Cafemom in the Moms of Teens of Group.  I thought the advice was worth repeating, so I wanted to put it here so as many people as possible could see it.   I don't think ...
Posted by on Tue, 22 Jul 2008 13:15:00 GMT

Old Age

One of my bestest friends sent this out in an e-mail.  I like it, so I wanted to share it with everyone, friends and others.  It is a true reflection of me, and my friends. Hearts get broken...
Posted by on Fri, 18 Jul 2008 07:11:00 GMT

Vacation

Let's see, where do I begin?  Since I already blogged about our first day in Nahville, I'm going to cut out most of that. We left for this trip first thing in the morning on Saturday, July 5, 200...
Posted by on Sat, 12 Jul 2008 09:18:00 GMT