I'm a SUCKER for a sexy smile and a man who's adventurous, fun, silly when the mood strikes and willing to try new things! My man is SINGLE, between the ages of 26-45-ish, at least 6'1", ( REALLY... AT LEAST 6'1"... shorter guys please honor this wish...) football/basketball build, commitment-minded, of exceptional above-average intelligence, education and good looks, (people may even consider him a nerd!) never runs out of good conversation and interesting things to talk about, fiercely dedicated to his good health and hard body but not a giant freakish musclehead type, a wearer of Magnums (*wink wink*!), sexy and seductive as hell, driven and goal oriented, as soft on the inside as he his hard on the outside, a lover of music with an open-minded ear (from Mozart to Mos Def to Metallica to Meshell Ndege Ocello).
He has a deep understanding of the concept of Mutual Adoration and that is what he seeks!
I need a VERY strong man who is IN CONTROL- a man I can look up to (both physically and mentally...) a man I can admire, a man who's stronger than me, smarter than me, possibly older and more experienced than me, a man who knows the Art and is a MASTER of Seduction. A corporate, sophisticated type who "knows how to throw down after 5 PM".
I AM NOT interested in your money, your ability to get me into Playboy or that movie you're producing/writing/directing.
I AM IMPRESSED by an easygoing, relaxed man who is in control of himself, his life, and the things and situations surrounding him. (In control, NOT controlling) A man who humbly appreciates those who aren't as fabulous as he is and treats them with respect and dignity. A healthy, strong, softspoken self-confidence WITHOUT an obnoxious ego. A man who is true to his word. A man who dresses well- only leaves the house in sweats when he?s going to the gym. A man who smells good ( I'll smell remnants of a cologne I like in an elevator and try to track the guy down.) A good kisser.
I am impressed by skillful, creative seduction. I'm impressed by creativity, imagination, spontaneity, surprises, honesty and forthrightness- fun, humor, silliness and ADVENTURE, A man who appreciates the fine qualities of healthy flirtation (mine and his).
I believe it is a gentleman's duty to make every woman in the room feel good through a little flirtation. Meanwhile, he knows no matter who I flirt with or who flirts with me- everyone is crystal clear that I'm HIS woman. Versatility- a man who knows which fork to use, owns his own tux but isn't above stripping and skinnydipping in the ocean on a warm summer night or jumping in a giant mud puddle fully clothed. A man who is equally comfortable having cocktails at the White House as chillin' with a beer at the Grand Prix, equally comfortable in a 5-star hotel or a tent. A man of uncompromising standards who knows precisely what he wants and precisely how to get it.
Impossible you say? Nah. I exist... so does he... and he's been looking for me for a long time.