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NOBODYS' SHADOW

This is ..MY.. life homie you decide yours!

About Me

My name is Bernice Valerie. You decide what you wanna call me... Bhern, BB, B, Nicey etc. People can NEVER guess my Ethnicity. I myself have a hard time categorizing myself... am I "Asian" or "Pacific Islander" or just plain "Filipino", or maybe I should count the German & Hispanic blood in me and say I'm "mixed." I consider myself a Filipino. My race is Filipino American and my nationality is American. Anyway, 22 iS my real age!!! ;) but people think im only 18. I'm a Pisces. I currently hav 3 jobs. I recently recieved my BACHELOR'S DEGREE FROM CSUDH. I stand 5"2, my hair was naturally curly back when I was a lil gurl.
Lil'more about me: I'm outgoing,opinionated,open-minded, vulgar, sensitive, very understanding, considerate, goal oriented, ambitious, frugal, clumsy , respectful, self-reliant, punctual, adventurous, organized, neat, caring, thoughtful, true friend, loving, cheerful, responsible, honest and very mature. Strong emotional endurance "MATIISIN"
I can get a lil possessive . Easily intimidated. Often underestimated :( easily amused. I'm also known to have this mean attitude when irritated which is also sometimes described as being a bitch!:P I am very blunt and often mistaken to be tactless. I can get sarcastic without knowing it.
My eyes usually gravitate to the shades of purple, burgandy, maroon, brown, teal..I cant say I have a favorite color coz my taste for clothing, accessories, decors etc. changes every season, constanly pulled towards the latest trend I'm not comfortable with spontaneity I'd rather have things planned out. I act like a mom when my mature side kicks in. I guess i can say i'm very nurturing. I'm my homies information system and help hotline coz miscellaneous facts and advices are my forte. I NO LONGER contradict myself. I think I am as well-rounded as I can get. I am workaholic! I'm a MISER! I am a high maitenance party girl...but i dont need to goldig, I'm very financially independent and stable so no worries i pay my own bills. I have realized that I have high standards I'm not sure if that is good or bad. Maybe its because I know for sure that I am a good catch and a definite keeper and those of you who know me well...will agree and those who dont will think i'm concieted...
aNd mOrE:
LIKES/LOVE/: laughing,dogs,french fries!, caramel,white chocolate, cookies n' cream, DISLIKES/HATE fake people, shit talkers, backstabber, paper cuts!,...
*~*Luv/ ReLaTiOnsHip*~*: i cAn Be a PerFecT GirLfRiEnd If iM TrEaTeD w/ ResPecT, n HanDLed ProPerLy (hint: double meaning;p) Or Take mE For GranTed aNd i'D NaG wOrsT ThaN yOaH MoMMaH !! * aLL i NeeD iS SuM1 tHat Can MaKe Me hAppY, sUm1 wHo wOnt wAsTe mY TimE. I dOnt NeeD nUtHinG SpEcTaCuLar, sImpLe MisceLLanEoUs ThiNgs ThaT MakEs mE sMilE aRe The Key To mY HeArT. U aInT gOtta Do Too mUch, mOrE iMpoRtaNtlY, U aiNt gOttaH Hav a FanCy cAr oR BiLLs In tHe banK FoR mE tO LeT u TaKe mE oUt...
*~*FriEnDsHiP*~*: I'M CAPABLE OF BEING A BEST FRIEND TO SOMEONE BUT I HAVE'NT MET THAT CERTAIN INDIVIDUAL THAT TOTALLY DESERVES THAT LABEL. Besides, I dont like labeling anyone. Im the realest homie you can ever have. im real w/ u if u real w/ me no questions asked. Treat me w/ respect & u'll get yours. Wut u c is wut u get... mAyBe a LiL dAsH oF generosity, a pInT oF cRazYnEss, a tAbLeSpOOn oF tHouGhFuLnEss,PouReD w/ aTTiTuDe.
uhMM wUt eLsE.., i uSuaLLy Let tHe pEoPle jUdGe mE fOr wHo I am, although i hate people who are judgemental. but i'LL lEt YOU dEciDe. iF u LIkE "ME" tHaT's NiCe, iF u DonT, oH wEll. tHat'S oNe tHinG i LeArnEd aBoUt LifE, "yOu cAnT pLeAse eVerYoNe" and " bE whO yOu aRe, eXpReSS hOw u FeeL, sAy wUt u WanT, cOz thOsE wHo mInD dOnT mAttEr, aND tHosE wHo maTTeR dOnt mInD." mOsT eSpEcIaLLy i nEEd rEspEcT tO gIve rEspEct. iF u wAnna gEt 2 kNo mE tHen HoLLa. eNoUgh sAid aBout ThaT...MovInG On
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Our 21st Birthday!

My Interests

Fashion, Sociology, Psychology, Cosmetology, Dance, Arts Piano, Volleyball, Music, meeting people& making new friends, Pictures coz it can capture time & memories, Collectable items, Sick ass whips (Benz, BMW, Lexus etc.)
I shop at ROSS or any bargain stores when I'm broke.
BUT when I'm ballin' I like spending my riches at

+SEPHORA
+ALDO
+H&M
+FOREVER 21
+HERITAGE
+COACH
+AMERICAN EAGLE
+HOLLISTER
+AMERICAN APPAREL
+EXPRESS
+NORDSTROM
+ABERCROMBIE & FITCHU'll most likely run into me at
+TONY ROMA'S
+ CHILIS
+SOUTH COAST WITH MY FRIEND DEAN & CO.
+DIDDY RIESE
+V20
+MAI TAI
+H&M
+COLD STONE
+STARBUCKS
and +DOMINGUEZ HILLS DORMS (around 8pm-2am). I LOVE THESE PERFUMES

+RALPH LAUREN +DKNY Delicious
+CLINIQUE HaPPy
+TRUE STAR by T.H.
+PRINCESS by Vera Wang
+JUST ME by Paris

JEANS THAT FIT ME BEST:+SEVEN JEANS
+TRUE RELIGIONS .
Im OftEn FashIonAbLy Late. PreFered OuTfiT: UrBaN cHiC= plain white beater, bEaDeD NeckLacE, tight low waist jeans with matching stilletos & belt.
Malls I PREFER to shop at ONLY when i have money:
+SOUTH COAST
+WESTWOOD VILLAGE
+IRVINE SPECTRUM
+THE BLOCK
+BREA
+CERRITOS
+LAKEWOOD
+DEL AMO
+STONEWOOD
+BEVERLY CENTER
+ONTARIO MILLS or
WaLk ArOunD HoLLyWooD

My partner, shoulder to cry on, study buddy, shopping guru, fashion advisor, share-a-plate, split the check with, and my fuel for laughter!!! Introducing Mr. Dean Oribello.

I'd like to meet:

People who are: open-minded
do not judge from 1st impression
mature
has goals in life
responsible for their actions
knows how to have fun get crunked but knows their limits

Music:

I listen to anything.Artist/Singer/Band: A. Keys
J. Timberlake
Missy E.
Beyonce/ Destiny's Child
Usher (except his cockyness)
Eminem
Nas
Outkast
Kanye West
Hoobastank
Simple Plan
Linkin Park (cHesTer BEnInGtOn)
Dave Matthews
Greenday
Matchbox20
Maroon 5
Evanesence
Sundoominal
Ne-yo
Avril Lavigne
PINK
Kelly Clarkson
Flyleaf
MyChemicalRomance
;)

Movies:

2006: BORAT, HAPPY FEET, BLOOD DIAMOND
As of 2007: Smokin' Aces, 300, Curse of the Golden Flower, Pirates of the Caribbean, THE SECRET

Television:

Project Runway (im a frustrated fashion designer, force to be a nurse by the nature of being filipina) Simpsons, MTV shows, make over shows,REALITY SHOWS Beauty & the Geek, Real World Road Rules Challeges, Top Chef, Top Design, Sheer Genius
History & Discovery channel, Animal Planet, Chelsea Lately,Dave Chapelle,

Books:

CHICKEN SOUP, THE SECRET, GOOSEBUMPS

Heroes:

My dad, mom & brother. My bro can kick your ass! My dad's an all-around man. He knows carpentry, plumbing, electrical, mechanical and all that ideal manly knowledge. My mom's really caring,loving & nurturing.

My Blog

THE UGLY DUCKLING

THIS IS THE STORY OF MY LIFE. "THE UGLY DUCKLING" A.K.A. MY LIFE FOR THE NEXT FEW WEEKS I WILL BE ADDING NEW ENTRIES AS I REMEMBER MY PAST. THIS IS UNDER CONSTRUCTION. I WILL BE EDITING ANY TYPOS OR ...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Sat, 28 Apr 2007 12:19:00 PST

The HEADLINE that got blown out of proportion...

Why are you still talking??? Like seriously you say you don't care but obviously you do! You're right, a headline is just a simple headline. First of all, I say "I'm living THE life" because I AM. Sec...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Tue, 29 May 2007 02:28:00 PST

For 'em guys who can't take hints & for 'em ladies who wonder...

This is very true, so pay attentionWhen you catch a girlglancing at you,she wants you to lookback and smileWhen a girl bumps into your armwhile walking with youshe wantsyou to hold her handWhen she wa...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Fri, 13 Apr 2007 11:55:00 PST

Did you know that...

  ~ I know how to sew, crochet and cross-stich....and damn proud of it. LOL I have sewed clothes before using a sewing machine and by hand.~ My number one pet peeve is getting blamed for som...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Wed, 26 Jul 2006 05:26:00 PST

THANX GUYS!

THANK YOU FOR THE WONDERFUL NIGHT. I HAD FUN! THANK YOU FOR ALL THE GIFTS I LOVE THEM!!! FOR THOSE WHO WEREN'T ABLE TO MAKE IT, ITS OK I UNDERSTAND NO HARD FEELINGS! ;)..YOU OWE ME A DRINK THO HAHA. J...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Tue, 06 Mar 2007 11:44:00 PST

Hey you...yeh YOU, I just wanted to say THANK YOU!...2 b cont...

    Thank you! Thank you for your silence. Two long years of no communication helped me be my own person. We were better apart.  I actually benefited from if. Without you and your infl...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Tue, 05 Sep 2006 03:45:00 PST

soo true im FEBRUARY!

Pick your birthday month and read it, then repost with whatever you are...JANUARY=SHYNESSFun to be with. Loves to try new things. Boy/girls LOVE you. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understoo...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Fri, 17 Nov 2006 11:51:00 PST

12 kinds of women..interesting!

12 kinds of women 1. Ms. Gold-DiggerAdvantagesa. You have some one to manage your money.b. She always looks good.c. She makes your other niggas jealous.d. She makes you look good.Disadvantagesa. When ...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Fri, 13 Oct 2006 04:07:00 PST

R.I.P.

     YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED. WE LOVE YOU!   GRANDPA FAUSTO SANCHEZ- DECEMBER 12, 2001 Sweet, Nurturing, Loving, Very Generous, full of surprises! a...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Thu, 31 Aug 2006 12:07:00 PST

WHO NEEDS A BARTENDER FOR THEIR PARTY?

Hello my name is Bernice and I am a certified bartender. dont believe me I'll show you my certificate. haha. I'm 21 so i'm legal to serve drinks dont worry about that.My new hustle: bartend at parties...
Posted by NOBODYS' SHADOW on Wed, 05 Jul 2006 11:43:00 PST