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JUST SHY...WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT?!!

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About Me


Well what do you want to know? Do you think nerds are Sexy??I'm 26, I try to keep a positive outlook on life, even when its hard. I have a beautiful son who has changed my life for the better he's given me the drive to be a better person. I live in the forgotten part of harlem El Barrio. I work, I go out.... I'm a Afro-Hispanic American (you like that right?) I'm a little more to love, but hey "big" girls are a specialty, they pay more money for them! I'm currently being held Hostage by my son because he doesn't think mommy should go to the party, shame on him:O( ___________________________________________________________S ERIOUSLY!!! I think BIG guys are sexy, Not like obese Fat, but like tall and muscular. if your 6'0 and above,Sexy in the face,I dig your personality, AND your built like a football player, you and me definately have potential.I'm 5'4 and there is nothing sexier than looking up at your man. Not that there is anything wrong with smaller men, but like I mentioned earlier "I'm a big girl" and I just can't be feeling like the MANLY one in the relationship. I need a dude who could pick me up off the floor like its nothing, like picking me up is like lifting a child. Plus, I want to feel like if something was to "pop off" that I wouldn't have to save you instead off vice versa. No Body builders please!!! I wouldn't want to have a conversation about "shrinkage" I don't have a problem with you, as long as you don't have a problem with me. But I do hate stupid people, and fortunately that transcends all races. anything else you want to know ask. ___________________________________________________________ Dudes have 4 different types of girls..1. Wifey 2. Boo 3. Bitches 4. Ho's1)Wifey is irreplaceable.. but she is the only one that is irreplaceable!.. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love, and he never wants to see her with another man.. But.. He will cheat on her with Boo, Bitches, and Ho's until he is mature enough to realize that if he loses Wifey he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again.. ----------------------------------------------------------- 2) Boo is replaceable, she thinks she's Wifey, but will NEVER be Wifey because Wifey was made Wifey from the beginning and is irreplaceable.. she can NEVER replace her.. Boo tries to take Wifeys spot, but once she attempts, the guy allows her to get only a TASTE of Wifey's spot... but will NEVER achieve her spot for any longer than a few months, then the man goes back to Wifey.. And Boo either gets replaced with another Boo, or, the man matures and decides that Wifey is the one for him.. (Ladies.. you don't want to be BOO) ----------------------------------------------------------- 3) Bitches.. A female that a male uses only for sex or other sexually related events..Dat call when Wifey acting up and you need a quick nut. The bitch is the first one running there. ----------------------------------------------------------- 4) Ho's.. enough said! Trying to move up in life, Wants to be a Bitch or a Boo. Hoes are just the girls you bag for no reason and have them in your phone. Backups incase a bitch or a boo slips up. Then you replace with a hoe NOW WHICH ONE ARE YOU???-----------------------------------------

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

some body who is cool, who's not afraid to laugh, at themselves as well as life. Some one is a little "hood" but doesn't let the "hood" define who they are. Someone who is not ashamed or afraid to say and be where they are, but still is striving to be better.(**LET ME BE CLEAR, LOSERS NEED NOT APPLY!!! If your a man that sits home all day and smokes weed, know every episode of Maury your not for me!!! I get up every day before the sun rises and I work all day, so I need a man who will hold me down, not vise versa!! And don't get it Twisted, I'm down for my man and if it came down to something happening and I had to take care of him... thats cool. But I can't respect you if your comming out the Gate like that!!!) Someone who is sexy and knows it but is not cocky. I'm part of a drug free america, so those people need not apply. If you've read a book in the past Six months and it was not only the SOURCE, VIBE, or FEDS, I might be talking about you. If you can state a full sentence and not end it with "knawmean, YO" or any combination of the two, I might be talking about you. If we have a full conversation and the only thing you can focus on is your "Bid" or your parole officer,then this page is not for you. Diddy, you, me, all day every day!!!!! I want the old cam' circa "let me know" video. straight S.D.E. days. Yeah I know I'm bordering on the line of child molester, but Chris brown, you could get it too.... (oh, sorry ) Big Daddy Kane, no one can front on his "skillz", did you see VH1's ode to hip hop. Hassan Johnson, the wire what do you know about that???

My Blog

Chase's Story...( first Installment)

Chase's Story... " I'm a single parent... I am a single parent." This was the first time Chase ever actually said this out loud. She stared into the mirror looking at her reflection. She looked tired ...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:31:00 GMT

The Emancipation of "Deedee"

We all go through different things with our relationships, and when you trully love someone and it doesn't work... it hurts. But even when your weak you need to find a way to pick yourself up, and sta...
Posted by on Tue, 10 Mar 2009 18:59:00 GMT

B.D.S. vs. S.D.S.

B.D.S.- Big Dick SyndromeS.D.S.- Small Dick Syndrome Ok... So we're all grown here. Y'all who know me know that I think about the craziest things when I'm by myself.My latest thought involves you fell...
Posted by on Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:54:00 GMT

Imagine

All I can do is think about you  Think about how you would be. . . How you would look, feel, smell, taste.  All I can think about is how you would love me. . . Slowly & softly without a ...
Posted by on Sun, 28 Dec 2008 20:09:00 GMT

A long time

Its been a long time since I wrote to you, a long time since I remembered how I felt for you, a long time since I felt you, a long time since I felt you feel me. . . A long time. Its been a long...
Posted by on Sun, 28 Dec 2008 19:53:00 GMT

Retrospective on relationships

Ok. So you know this must have been heavy on my mind. I'm the kind of person who whole heartedly believes in love and in romance. But I feel like my faith in all things love and honesty and commitment...
Posted by on Thu, 25 Dec 2008 19:45:00 GMT

A good woman (thanks Bianka)

A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, or does she expect them to read her mind. She i...
Posted by on Thu, 20 Mar 2008 04:14:00 GMT

Kismet Love

You ever meet someone whom you love instantly?? Its like fate, from the moment you see them you feel as if you've loved them for years. Its like Kismet love or fate. Sometimes you've already met them ...
Posted by on Sun, 24 Feb 2008 05:00:00 GMT

Mediocrity

You ever wonder if you were destined for mediocrity?? No one wants to think their lives will result in anything higher than mediocre but sometimes I wonder, when is that defining moment when you rise ...
Posted by on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 16:12:00 GMT

Emotionally Distraught Over Heaths Death, Not for Myself but for Michelle

It funny the things that you think about when you watch Television. Now, anyone who knows me knows I love Celebrity Gossip. I'm one of those people who buy Us Weekly religiously, I don't buy it becaus...
Posted by on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 23:31:00 GMT