for starters, the asshole who hit my car and didn't tell me! after that, i enjoy meeting people of all sorts BUT PREFER THAT THEY BE GROUNDED AND KNOW WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEY WANT IN THEIR LIVES. I have made so many life long friends in the past few of years. i love all my friends, old and new. i welcome all that love to laugh and have fun...make the most out of life. honest and caring people that know how to be a friend and what it means to have a good friend. as far as the gents go: my life is complete with lots of love and laughter, friends and family, joy and happiness (not always, but for the most part), however, i would love to meet an EMOTIONALLY, FINACIALLY AND MENTALLY secure man that compliments all of wonderful things my life has in it! the ying in my yang so to speak. that would be wonderful but not neccessary.