The Color Code Definitely Red
Congratulations, Jesse, you are a RED personality. The Core Motivation that drives you through life is "Power". Power means the ability to get things done, to go from A to B as quickly and directly as possible. The word power was derived from the Old French poeir meaning "to be able." Often what is perceived by the other colors as insensitive is simply a pragmatic sense of urgency to accomplish a given task.As a RED you naturally seek productivity and want others to see you as intellectually strong. As REDS want their own way, you like to be in the driver's seat and are willing to pay the price to be in a leadership role even in an intimate relationship. However, you can get frustrated when your partner cannot think for herself or make intelligent decisions on her own. As a RED, you tend to value whatever gets you ahead in life, whether it is at work, school, or in your personal relationships. What you value, you get done. You may be a workaholic and enjoy it!. You will, however, resist being forced to do anything that doesn't interest you.As a RED, Jesse, you like to be right. You value approval from others for your intelligence and solution-based, pragmatic style. You want to be respected even more than you want to be loved, and you appreciate admiration for your logical, practical mind.
!WHY YOU'RE HOT!
Nobody Dates Like A RED
This is true. When you are in pursuit of something (or somebody!), you tend to go all out. You dress to impress, you get the limo, the tickets, the flowers, the reservations, and the whole shebang. You by nature are a very competitive opponent to any other potential suitor who may come along, and you take great pleasure in taking home the prize.
You Are Highly ProtectiveOf Your Companion
When you commit to someone, they can feel your protection on all levels. You see them as part of you, and are willing to go to war verbally and even physically on their behalf. You will not back down or remain silent when your partner is being attacked. Your companion loves to know that she is being taken care of and that you will be there to back her up and defend her whenever necessary.
*WHY YOU'RE NOT*
You Tend To Be Selfish
The number one reason that marriages fail today is selfishness, and unfortunately, as a RED, you tend to always be thinking about what's in it for you. If you always put your needs before those of someone you're dating or are involved with in a committed relationship, you will foster a sense of resentment that may ultimately cost you everything.
You Can Be Uncomfortable W/Emotions & Feelings
Logic is your strong suit, and you may feel uncomfortable or insecure when your partner gets emotional. You see this as weakness and may become adamant that she address such things in a more logical manner. When she does not, you become dismissive, when in reality, you are the laggard where matters of the heart are concerned. There is tremendous value in connecting emotionally, and if you cannot learn to do so, you and your partner will miss out.
YOUR NEEDS
Now that you know how others see you as a potential partner, you should also know that there are certain things that you subconsciously need from your relationships in order to feel fulfilled and happy. These are your very own little hot buttons. When you find a partner who can push them for you, you may just fall head over heels.
You Need Respect
As a RED, you naturally want to be respected. In fact, it may be more important to you to be respected than loved. You also need for your partner to be worthy (and if needs be, demanding) of your respect. How can you love what you can't respect? You appreciate your partner more if they demand your respect than simply allow you free license to walk all over them.
You Need To Appear Knowledgeable
You value your intellectual and logic-based abilities. You consider your ability to reason and problem-solve to be one of your greatest attributes. You want your partner to value this about you as well and to promote this image to others. If your partner were to ever embarrass you publicly, you would have a hard time ever getting over it.
YOUR WANTSYou Want To Tightly Hide Your Insecurities
You feel insecure about your various inadequacies, and feel powerless when such things are exposed. Therefore, it is your tendency to guard those feelings of insecurity and inadequacy very tightly even from your significant other. This is not always appropriate, and you should find someone with whom you are able to open your heart and be vulnerable to so that you learn to value yourself for who you are and not solely by what you are able to produce.
You Want Your Productivity to Be Supported
REDS want to be productive, and you are no exception. You feel you are at your best when you are able to accomplish various goals. It is important that you find someone who allows you the time and the space that you need to continue to produce and do what you do best.
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Moving on...
I Should Be An Aries
What's good about you: you're fearless about taking charge and grabbing the spotlight
What's bad about you: if you're annoyed, you're not going to hide it!
In love: you jump in quickly and don't mind risking your heart
In friendship, you're: likely to have a new best friend each month
Your ideal job: detective, butcher, or surgeon
Your sense of fashion: ultra trendy and sexy
You like to pig out on: appetizers, especially finger foods
What Sign Should You Be?
I am 93% Aries
How Aries Are You?
I'm an aggressive driver with a chronic case of road rage. So if you see any of my rides in your rearview...get out of the way!!!
Your Famous Last Words Will Be:
"I can pass this guy!"
What Will Your Famous Last Words Be?
I like living life in the andrenal zone (Airborne Army, racing, and yes...the ubiquitous sex...the louder and kinkier the better).
You Are a German Shepherd Puppy
Intelligent, quick witted, and a bit aggressive.
You've got the jaw power to take a bite out of anyone you choose.
What Breed of Puppy Are You?
Ok...when I'm not playing hard I unwind to the far extreme opposite...mellow jazz, old school R&B, comedy (cartoons and anything fun/funny)..yup I'm a big kid behind the hardass.
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:
Your propensity for monogamy is medium.
In general, you prefer to have only one love interest.
But it's hard for you to stay devoted for too long!
There's too much eye candy to keep you from wandering.
Experience Level:
Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!
Dominance:
Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!
Cynicism:
Your cynicism is medium.
You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love...
But you've definitely been burned enough to know better.
You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist.
Independence:
Your independence is high.
You don't need to be in love, and sometimes you don't even want love.
Having your own life is very important for you...
Even more important than having a relationship.
The Five Variable Love TestI have had more jobs than I can remember and I've thrown myself fully into each, so I've developed a great deal of skills and interesting perspectives on life....and I expect those around me to have a very open mind and be about something.
