CHinGy

through my experiences i've learned:surround myself with positive people. enjoy every moment, the good, the bad (it allows me to appreciate the good). learn from my mistakes and grow so that i do not repeat them. work hard, play harder...i've earned it. wisdom is attained through experience. the more life throws at me the more i learn and what i've learned is....i don't know sh*t!!!!!!I've learned: humility, patience, temper, strength, flexibility and that a smile and a laugh are infectious.Treat others as you wish to be treated. Respect is earned. (How can i respect you if i do not even know you?!?)I love to dance in the rain! i love to laugh & even more i love to make others laugh. i laugh AT myself, if i can't who can? i love good company, good food and good beverages, but most important is the company. It can make the food and beverages palatable when they're poor!there is something worse than a bitter old man and that's a bitter young man!Simplicity is the centerpiece of joy.Zen: true power = no one does anything to me, I ALLOW YOU to... so PLEASE NEVER mistake my generosity for weakness. no one is perfect, but one can aspire for perfection, that's evolution. your greatest strength is your greatest weakness.i turn the other cheek, but not so you can slap that one too! :Pi've lived, tried to learn and been humbled in the process. i attempt to speak softly (but its really difficult, i'm a CHING....i ching!) so i carry an EXTREMELY BIG STICK! ;)i'll eat anything with 4 legs except for a table and anything with wings except for an airplane!i loathe: rudeness, egotism, self centeredness, insensitivity, cruelty, selfishness, greed... and other diva attitudes!“The unreal is more powerful than the real, because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. because its only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last. stone crumbles. wood rots. people, well, they die. but things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on.”“What I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction.”“Our Generation has had no Great war, no Great Depression. Our war is spiritual. Our depression is our lives.”“If you don’t know what you want, you end up with a lot you don’t.”Chuck Palahniukto live without love is not livinga passionless life.... is not a life worth livingi do not need to burn my hand to know it's bad for me or that i don't want it!happy endings are stories that have not yet finished.learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.