Mr. Shahini

my name is ardi. I'm a christian. not a sunday christian, a 24/7 one. I live for God. There's God, my family, then everyone else. This doesn't mean i won't talk to you or i'll always preach about how you're going to hell. you make your own choices i make mine. i'll love you either way! i'm workin towards getting my degree that way i can finally quit my job and move to a different country and help people out there that need the help.i live for today, if i want something, i'll work hard to get it cuz i might die tomorrow, and i'd like to enjoy as many things as i can. in the summer i do enjoy surfing, i'm horrible at it, but boy those three seconds i'm up.....it's intense!i have a somewhat different outlook on life than most people. i don't really judge it according to achievemens. yes i have goals, college degree, nice job, nice house......blah blah, however, the way you can find out if you're having a fullfilling life is try to think at the last time you made an impact on someone's life. at my funeral, i don't want people saying "he had the best house, he graduated from harvard and was top of his class, he was a senator...." that's just lame. i want someone to say "he helped me change my lightbulb one time because i'm old and short, he helped me choose a college to go to and i love it, he helped me get a nice job so i can support my family, he helped me and my wife work things out and saved our marriage...." THAT's what's important in my life.and i guess since everyone's been on me about my profile being old here's the newest update. i'm dating the most gorgeous girl in the world. she's that girl that no matter what is going on, you see her eyes, or you hear her laugh, or you feel her presence...and everything is all of a sudden ok. everything is fantastic. she gives me butterflies everytime i see her. every one of her kisses is like a first kiss. if she becomes mrs shahini one day...i'll be the happiest man in the worldalso, i'm leaving the good ole usa in october and i'm moving to italy for a whole year. i'm going there on a mission trip to work with the youth groups at a couple of churches in palermo, sicily. sure i have to raise 20 thousand dollars, but that's nothing compared to the lives God is going to change while i'm there. i'm super excited about it. alright...all updated