I have never been more proud to be single. I've always believed the theory of QUALITY over QUANTITY and relate that to my personal life. Everyone wants companionship and to be in love, I am definitely no exception. However, I've learned through the School of Hard Knocks, that though they are two different levels of difficulty, it is better to be alone and deal with the void of simply having someone, than it is to be in a relationship where you are unhappy, disrespected, or devalued. Who does that benefit? A warm body is and will always be just a warm body. There is no sense in having someone that is bringing nothing to the table, but is instead constantly taking from the table. I pride myself as a business woman, and even the basic business principles tell you that if the Liabilities outweigh the Assets, you are indeed at a Loss. I have loved and lost enough to realize that I can afford to be patient, and know that GOD will send me a man, that will be everything my heart desires. In the meantime I will focus on myself and the beautiful gift God gave me in the form of a son. I cannot be with a man that I can honestly say that I wouldn't want my son to grow up and immolate. That is a red flag in itself.I feel truly blessed to be in a position where I know where I have come from and I certainly know where I am headed. Though the road in between has had it's challenges, I have overcome them triumphantly and now realize that life is a blessing and that we should truly appreciate it and live it to the fullest. So many have come and gone out of my life for one reason or another. In each case I take the lesson that was intended to be learned from it and I use it to empower me. Though loss is difficult, when you know God, you learn to accept it and have peace that He will bring you through. This is not just something that I heard on the radio or at church. This is a fact that I know from experience, these accounts have been tested, tried and true. Each day is a new opportunity to strive to be your ultimate best, and that's how I live my life. I once read a quote that has been an inspiration to me..."It's never too late to be what you might have been." I have adopted that Philosophy, so as long as I have breath in my body, I will always strive for the success that I know I can and will achieve.In short, I have decided to work on me. It's only fair to myself, my amazing son, and finally to that special man that will eventually be welcomed into this equation.
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