I'm a firm believer in "what goes around comes around,"
I'm sure that's why I'm doing so well right now.
I'm also a firm believer in the fact that NO ONE can make ME happy except ME, and I have to choose to be happy. I have to choose life. Every day..
That makes it A LOT easier to have fun with someone else, it takes all the pressure off!
It's really not that hard, as soon as you STOP giving self-value to those around you, and STOP depending on them for happiness, you start to realize that you're not happy with yourself, and who would consciously CHOOSE to be that way??? Then you do something about it, and I have. =]
Life's short, make the choice to be happy. every day.