It's Inevitable to explain and conduct our everyday lives with such things as this type of question. If i asked to meet this one person, writing it down or putting up the picture will not change the outcome. The more you talk about a person as a social construction or as a confluence of forces or as being fragmented of marginalised, what you do is you open up a whole new world of excuses.
When i was 14 or 15, life was so dramatically different. Life was raging all around me and every moment was magical. I loved all the people, dealing with all the contradictory impulses - that's what I loved the most, connecting with the people. Looking back, that's all that really mattered. and the only people i ever want to meet, are the people i met in my past. Now everyone is talking about Sex, Drugs and some improfundo thing that i cant connect to. Is it essential to you to Fabricate something totally unpredictable? Acually, do you understand what i am saying? probably not, but it's quite alright, i would expect that in this Generation.