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Vanessa

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About Me

I am a people pleasing, animal loving, biggest heart, small town born and raised girl next door. I believe in the simple things in life to be the most rewarding and ultimately most satisfying. I am your best friend, you know that you can confide everything and anything and I will never betray your trust. I am a shoulder to cry on. I can share your dreams and help you face your worst fears. You never have to wonder what I am thinking or what I feeling because I wear my heart of my sleeve. Although, I try to protect myself from being hurt, I just can't seem to help that. I love to make people laugh and to not take life or myself too seriously. I believe in you when you don't. I trust with my everything but I know that sometimes that trust has been broken. I forgive and try to forget. But never make the same mistake twice. If I do, then I am the first to say I messed up and accept the consequences as a part of life for it is all a learning experience. I see good in everyone, and treat them the way I would want to be treated. I live with great integrity and loyalty, and honesty. I am what you see both here and in private. I have flaws and imperfections, as all of us do. I try to live each day being better than the day before. I start my day with a smile at my pug Lucy and my kitties Bubba and Tigger. The love from a animal is the greatest lesson in love I think anyone can ever learn. It is unconditional and deeper than deep. It is selfless and honest. It is faithful and true. I believe you can learn a lot about a person by how they treat animals and children. I strongly believe that the eyes are windows to the soul and when you are able to see into a person that way, it is something special thus should not go unrecognized. Life to me, is about love, you have to put yourself out there with no reservations and no doubts. You only get out of this world what you give. Give yourself completely and I guarantee, you will find that you will have everything you could dream of and more in your lifetime. Be open and have a open mind and most of all have a open heart. It is far better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all...at the end of the day ask yourself, if I had only one more day, what would I do with it....it isn't about money, or fame or possessions, it is a life with no regret, to love unselfishly and know you made a difference.I adore the 50's and 60's era. Thus the film Grease being my all-time favorite. The James Dean's and the Ann-Margrets I have the greatest love for. And of course Elvis. Life is far too short to only allow yourself to like just one type of anything. Well, all except for falling in love with that one special person...that can only be one for this girl;) What Classic Pin-Up Are You?
You're Brigitte Bardot!
I believe if you want something badly enough, do everything you can to achieve it...I am very passionate, honest, loyal, loving and trusting. Unfortunately, that has caused my heart to be broken a million times. But as it has been said "better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"....and until the day I die , I will love someone 100 percent or not at all!!! But through all that "To thine own self be true". It will make the love all the more richer. And don't lie...the truth always comes out sooner than later.

My Blog

Doctor appt

My kidney has been enlarged and causing pain. Just saw my urologist and he is scheduling a kidney test where I am awake and they shoot dye thru the bladder into the kidney. He mentioned to me the pos...
Posted by on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 09:56:00 GMT

Lush Laugh

Makes me laugh out loud everytime. And don't forget the little dog named Latte.
Posted by on Thu, 19 Jun 2008 03:57:00 GMT

Flower

Everyone needs to feel validated and special to exist happily in this lifetime. Without it eventually its like a flower that hasn't been watered,the petals begin to fall off "he loves me he loves me n...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Jun 2008 10:19:00 GMT

Elvis Costello

After YEARS of hearing his music and tagging along to MANY shows I now LISTEN to the lyrics and FEEL them. Now if only Elvis and Celine would collaborate that would be AMAZING it gives me chills just...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Jun 2008 18:55:00 GMT

Lakehouse

Peaceful calming beauty serenity love
Posted by on Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:40:00 GMT

Penguin

They have only one true love in a lifetime. Soul-mates eternally. True love NEVER dies and lives on til the day you die.
Posted by on Tue, 17 Jun 2008 07:30:00 GMT

Loss

I am recovering from what has been a very painful and emotional time in my  life.  I ended up in the emergency room May 1st for abdomen pain. Within 3 or 4 days of being hospitalized I had e...
Posted by on Thu, 29 May 2008 13:17:00 GMT

Play nice

If you live a life with integrity and respect for others, then one will never have to keep looking over their shoulder wondering when and if that past is going to come back to haunt their present and ...
Posted by on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 18:31:00 GMT

Happiness

The true meaning of happiness is knowing that you and ONLY you are responsible for YOUR OWN happiness.  And that no one can MAKE you happy, unless you are happy within yourself.  If you are ...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Apr 2007 21:43:00 GMT

It's too late after they die...

I am one of the guilty ones that has been watching the Anna Nicole Smith court nightmare.  I feel so very sad for her that even AFTER death she is still not getting the respect EVERY human being ...
Posted by on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 00:12:00 GMT