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Stephanie

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About Me

Hmm- divorced- mom of three- safety consultant. I joined to keep an eye on my 14 yo son, and then a few friends persuaded me to hang, lol. I am trying hard to be more accepting of myself- to remember that this imperfect body of mine, pretty perfectly gave birth to 3 wonderful children. I am sarcastic, fun, not so easily offended- but at the same time kind of old fashioned.
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What Kinda Kiss R U?

Romantic Kiss
Lying in bed after making love and just doing whatever.
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What color are you?

Orange
Your color is orange... You are very courageous, understanding and friendly.... You can sometimes be bossy and stubborn, and you love to be the leader, but you make a loyal friend as well... You are bold and adventurouse, but also wise, forgiving, and unpredictable...
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Your Seduction Style: Prized Object
The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.
You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.
The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.
You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.
You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.
Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!
You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.
Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.
You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for. What Kind of Seducer Are You?

My Interests

Shimmer
Sad visage, pale reminder of pain’s past
Hopeless and lost, in search of love’s wonder
Shall that wonder come from some passing heat
Or be shackled by your lack of courage
Shaded you walk, colorless walk so grim
Eyes to the sky, questioning faith’s whimsy
A gaze to the past, walking blindlessly
Dark hair, a shimmer in the night so close
Dark beauty, shall you learn too late the cost
Love’s wonder lies within, burning, so hot
An ember bright as any sun, a warmth
Greater than any sun’s passing, heart’s fire
A world of fancy, so carefree, so light
Walking on air, like a shimmer you are
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I'd like to meet:

Who I’d like to meet…a man of substance…one who is honest and true….has a career…loves his kids (if he has them) and is active in their lives….I’d love to meet a man who has his own interests, but wouldn’t mind giving them up once in a while because it means being with me…the man who wants to spend his Saturday nights with me, who sees a pretty woman and can appreciate her, but would never think of being untrue, because to do that would mean hurting and losing me….A man who thinks the room lights up a little when I walk in it. One who wants to share his day with me, and feels better after having done so. The man that makes me laugh when I feel like crying, and the one who knows just when words are too much and holding is all that’s needed. The man who can make me get butterflies in my stomach when he kisses me…one who grabs for my hand when he walks- almost absentmindedly- the man who thinks I’m his best friend, confidante, and girlfriend…all wrapped up in one complex, but unique package.

Your Power Color Is Teal
At Your Highest:

You feel accomplished and optimistic about the future.

At Your Lowest:

You feel in a slump and lack creativity.

In Love:

You tend to be many people's ideal partner.

How You're Attractive:

You make people feel confident and accepted.

Your Eternal Question:

"What Impression Am I Giving?" What's Your Power Color?

Music:

I like mostly everything- from pop- to soft rock- to country to dance music...i only hate the kind of stuff that makes you feel like someone is screaming the lyrics and makes me feel like i could scream as well.

Movies:

An Affair to Remember,Gone with the Wind, Pride and Prejudice,mushy love story stuff :)

Television:

I don't wtach much TV except silly stuff like Dancin with the Stars or Amercian Idol. I dont have the time or the inclination to watch serious shows; Ive got enough seriousness with work and life :)

Books:

Here again, Im not talking brain surgery. I like historical romances, some peotry, and some books about the Civil War.

Heroes:

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My Blog

him

You meet him. That guy who swindles you into letting him in a little. He likes the thrill of the chase. You like the thrill of the flirt. He's employed, intelligent, a good dad, knows how to laugh at ...
Posted by Stephanie on Sat, 19 Apr 2008 07:25:00 PST

worried about me

For everyone who keeps telling me to be happy, for everyone who reminds me how good and kind and deserving i am... i appreciate it, i really do. Its just that happiness isnt something you turn on and ...
Posted by Stephanie on Fri, 21 Dec 2007 06:41:00 PST

for the girls

Thank goodness for girlfriends and sisters. Even on a crappy week, they remind us that we have a unique way of looking at the world, dealing with men, and coming out on top in the end somehow....And i...
Posted by Stephanie on Wed, 12 Dec 2007 06:41:00 PST

What happened to Stephanie?

An old boyfriend asked me that today....what happened to me? Where's the woman who was so kind, so affectionate, so willing to share of herself? He said its like you can still see I'm in there if you ...
Posted by Stephanie on Mon, 19 Nov 2007 10:47:00 PST

giving up

There's a point at which you just give up. Its like just acknowledging defeat- there's no point to trying. Because even if you won it would be a hollow victory- i mean what would it really prove? I am...
Posted by Stephanie on Sun, 11 Nov 2007 07:44:00 PST

You’ll forget

You know how people say, "it'll take time but you'll forget"? What if you're afraid of forgetting? What if you're afraid you'll forget what it's like to allow someone into your life, your home, your h...
Posted by Stephanie on Sun, 14 Oct 2007 08:00:00 PST

going it alone

God, I'm really tired....i drove a lot today...it was so hard not to reach for the phone, to hear that familiar voice when i was in a bad area, inspecting a motel, in a desolate spot, and i wanted to ...
Posted by Stephanie on Fri, 24 Aug 2007 07:55:00 PST

its time

i put my pof profile on hide...spm is still up but thats all moms anyway so no big deal, and if i werent a lifer, i would get rid of it, but im not paying lol. I dont look at myspace as a dating site,...
Posted by Stephanie on Sun, 19 Aug 2007 08:18:00 PST

steps

So i kinda feel like i take one step forwards and 2 backwards.....i try to keep busy, have gone out, spoken to other men, gone on a few dates even...but its like the whole world is still a little gray...
Posted by Stephanie on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 10:58:00 PST

I Like this better as a blog

because i've certainly wondered if there were men out there that you really had chemistry with, that you cared about, that you could converse with, that made your heart beat faster just by the sound o...
Posted by Stephanie on Tue, 31 Jul 2007 05:07:00 PST