As stated above, be paradoxical. I like people who inspire me to create more than I do. People who can drag me away from my computer at 3 AM. People who say what they want to say without hesitation. Geeks, nerds, freaks, Goths or anyone who is unique & out of the ordinary but also STABLE! People who share some of my interests. Someone to see movies with, someone to go to clubs and concerts with. If you’re comfortable in a goth club, that’s a big plus.
I don’t really have a “type.†I’m not necessarily attracted to a specific body type, hair color, etc. more than another. I need to find someone attractive to enter a romantic relationship (who doesn’t?) but “attractive†means different things for different people. However, some personality traits I look for in others are modesty, loyalty, independence and reliability.
Having your own car & being financially independent are also BIG plusses.