A woman who can be brutally honest with herself as well as me, A woman with a sense of humor. I value a sense of humor in a person so much that I would rather spend my time in the company of a woman who isnt that great looking but who keeps the laughs coming as if they were bullets from a machine gun. No one's company is more insufferable than a person who is dry and takes themselves so seriously that they cannot take being made fun of or recognize good humor in others. I also enjoy a woman who can stand back and laugh at herself when life throws her a curve ball, a woman who can still manage to find to a sliver of humor in all the chaos of this thing we call life. The bottom line is, I dont care what your style of humor is just show me you have one.A woman who is independent in every sense of the word (financially, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually).A woman who is sexually uninhibited, mature and experienced as a potential sexual partner (basically a nasty cum freak - within the confines of a marriage or monogamous relationship of course).A woman who has a definitive concept of right and wrong (and adheres to it) and not some ambiguous or relative moral code that vacillates depending on the situation. Botton line, I have no room in my life for moral relativists, those who deny or reject the moral absolutes commanded by God.A woman who is tolerant and can accept a man as he is despite his flaws, without any designs on trying to change him ( ladies, contrary to all the current and fashionable TV makeover shows we men are NOT molding clay).A woman who is affectionate, emotionally generous and emotionally available.A woman who is considerate of others and has tact, a woman who can conduct herself like a lady when out in public and not be an embarrassment to herself or me.A woman who isnt obsessed with money, status or material things, but one who is simply looking for someone to share a part of their life with.And finally a woman with no self-destructive vices, that means a woman who leads a clean life bereft of heavy alcohol consumption (social drinking is OK), cigarettes, and esp. illicit drugs.