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Kath

Do you know why people talk to you the way they do? Because they can.

About Me


My page is long and has lots of pictures.There is so much emotion and feelings in everything that I have put on my page.It's many years of holding things in and expressing different things through my life, and through the eyes of all the kids that I read about and friends.It's how at moments life can take your breath away and give it back in an instant. It's how I feel and things that people just don't understand. If you know me at all you will understand everything almost that I have chose to put on my page and to share with my friends.
I'm Kathy,I'm 42 years old and have definatly decided that we all live in hell.I have come to realize that life is what you make it, and no matter how hard you try sometimes things just arn't ment to be. I believe that people should spend time alone to find out who they really are before they get into any releationships if you don't know who you are how is anybody else going to know? I've learned to take one day at a time now, no sence to hurry things along anymore. I used to always believe that you needed to please everyone else before you pleased yourself, well that was so wrong. If you don't please yourself then there is no way you can please anyone else. I have also found that there are very few people you can trust in life.Why can't we all just get along, I guess that would just be to easy.I now live here in Michigan, but was born and raised in Lorain,Ohio.There's not much I don't like to do. I love the out doors,camping is the greatest.I like to fish, ride 4 wheelers,go muddin and big trucks especially the ones that have that rumbling sound. I like to cook and bake and just hang out when there is time.My computer,adicted to it not much more to say on that.I love angels I think their wings are beautiful, and I know someday I will wear mine proud.I also like snowmen,candles and pretty lights,and animals. And can't forget pictures I love pictures they can say so many things about how you truely feel.People's eyes I believe that if you look at someomes eyes long enough you can find so many things out about them, our eyes are our windows to our souls I truely believe, your eyes can tell a story without you even opening up your mouth.
I work in the health field taking care of the eldely.It is such a rewarding job the people are so amazing, and the older they are the better their stories are.It makes you appericiate life as it is now as to what it was then.I love to meet new people, seems you can learn something from everyone.I'm real easy going and would give you the shirt off my back if you needed it,there isn't very much I wouldn't do to help someone out. But let me add this... Friends and Money do not mix, so if you want to keep your friend don't borrow any money from them, you'll get screwed everytime, believe me one way or another. I tend to believe in people to much and tend to let them walk all over me, I've become a pretty good door mat to some, but this is where you find out who your real friends are.I have a 13 year old daughter that is my pride and joy she's my life and my heart and my best friend.
Then there's Duane the love of my life,the one who can make me smile even if I don't want to.And who can give me butterflies by just looking at me.

My Interests

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I'd like to meet:

Honestly just some real friends.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person. An hour to apperciate them. A day to love them. But an entire lifetime to forget them.
I would have loved to have met Anna Nicole, ditz and all I thought she was beautiful,


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I adopted a cute lil' emo fetus from Fetusmart! Hooray fetus! I felt bad that nobody loved him so I adopted him gave him a name,(Wilber)and will love him.

adopt your own virtual pet!
People say that Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and that is so true. We spend so much time in our lives judging everyone,yet we don't realize how much we are hurting them. Beauty really makes a difference if a group of people are all thinking the same thing.Why can't we just forget about what everyone else thinks and use our own judgement? People say beauty is easy on the eyes. What is beauty and why are we all judged on it? Is it something we can touch? Something to look at? Does is smell? Can it be drawn on? Pierced? Is it fat or skinny? Is it perfection? Pleasure? Why can't beauty be unconditional? What does it really look like? I think that is a question we all have different meanings of.I think that beauty is something we need to decide on our own and quit listening to everyone else.

Music:

Rap,Alternative,Some Techno,Country,Rock,I'll listen to just about anything.






Movies:

Storm Of the Century,Amityville Horror. Honestly I like all horrors,comedy,romance,etc... Sometimes the scarrier the better.

Television:

American Idol,Buffy,Angel,X Files,ER,I like the history, discovery channel. Learned alot from the dog whisper too.

Books:

All books by Mary Higgins Clark, James Patterson, Urban Legends, Horrors.


Heroes:

Defining a personal hero is a bit like allowing our diaries to be published. Through our choice of heroes, we spell volumes about ourselves. We reveal our individual values and comment on those we perceive to be lacking in the world around us. Our heros represent the best of ourselves, yet being human and therefore flawed, they also allow us to accept our limitations. They love unconditionally, they except you and don't expect things. They make a part of who you are. Heros are the important people in your life the ones you know will always be there for you through thick and thin, they don't judge you or want you to be anything more than what you are.... My hero's would have to be Duane There are so many things I need to be thankful for him. He's been my rock when I was loosing my mind, he's been my lover and best friend. He showed me how to be in love, and has made me understand that people don't leave you when a crisis comes up. But most of all he gave me a home and a place to belong. There are many more things but he knows he has my heart, and in it he will always be.
My mom and dad,My daughter, Who has been such an inspiration to me,if I never lived another day I want her to know how fulfilled my life has been with her and how proud she has made me. I've enjoyed her so much over the past 13 years. I thank God every day for her,I would have waited a lifetime just to have her in my life.I Love You Baby Girl!
Bernie and my brother and Devan. There are a few more but these are the ones I admire the most.